Married men and women chat privately for more than half a year (married men and women often chat privately by video)

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In the era of the popularity of WeChat and computer network, it can be said that it is very normal to apply video chat. Married men and women, who haven't seen each other for a long time in their spare time, or because they have something to talk about, or simply because they are chatting objects, video chat is understandable and convenient for enhancing friendship. But if you often secretly video chat, it is inevitable that people will be suspicious.

0 1 Although our life is very long, it is difficult for beautiful love to run through our life. It can be said that both men and women will have emotional and psychological singers in different periods of life. There are many classmates, colleagues and friends here. This period should be the best period of life. Because I have expectations in my heart, I have little secrets in my heart.

But classmates are classmates, colleagues are colleagues and friends are friends. In emotional life, the sense of boundaries is very important to people, and it is very important for family members to grasp the scale of mutual communication.

What is the married life of men and women who have been married for many years?

Is love the same, or plain as water, or has long been bored with each other. People who fell in love under the same roof before are relatively silent afterwards.

Nowadays, many people are afraid of marriage, that is, they are afraid of a stagnant pool of married life. People bear the pressure of marriage life under the pressure of huge competition for survival, so that the whole person seems to be in a bottleneck period and can't see any hope.

In fact, everyone's marriage is managed by marriage, and it is normal for marriage life to be dull. Just when these things happen, you should not shy away, stand on this mountain and look around, or even go outside to find friends of the opposite sex. Instead, we should open our hearts, face up to the stage of our marriage, find out the crux of the problem, and then prescribe the right medicine to solve the problem.

Remember, whenever you have a good reason, you should never betray your marriage and make it full of holes. Always remember, marriage is not a hive, how to live with holes.

So what kind of feelings are the most precious in marriage?

Naturally, it is a couple who started from scratch with you, experienced hardships with you, and walked through ups and downs with you for more than ten or twenty years. What you have is your most precious feeling.

In marriage, keep your initial heart, so as to achieve your ultimate goal. My understanding should be, keep my original heart, cherish the hard-won life, and let happiness accompany me from beginning to end.

If you want to keep your heart, don't touch the married opposite sex when it doesn't matter after marriage, otherwise there will be problems. Plain married life is the most fragile, you should put all your thoughts and time on your other half, and never go to the extramarital world to find any fresh excitement.

Students often secretly video chat. It is said that the friendship between students should be the purest, but it does not rule out that there are many people who have pursued each other, because they were young at that time and had a superficial understanding of love, which led to the two people who fell in love at that time not cherishing each other.

Although they all have families after marriage, they have never forgotten the good feelings of their school days, and some are still keeping in touch, coveting the beauty that they have never got.

Gui Xiang and Zhiqiang are high school classmates. Zhiqiang is tall and handsome. Gui Xiang is pure, with big talking eyes and sweet voice. Hadron has been deeply infatuated with Gui Xiang. Zhiqiang also confessed to Gui Xiang after graduation, but Gui Xiang felt inferior due to family conditions, so he found a condition and got married with his family.

However, at a class reunion, Gui Xiang and Zhiqiang met and exchanged WeChat contact information. When you are free, you will find opportunities to secretly video chat. Both of them have endless likes and topics.

Classmates are classmates. If you want to keep this pure friendship for a long time, you must keep a proper distance from each other, grasp the scale of communication, keep beauty in your heart and cherish your family. Only in this way can the tree of friendship between classmates be evergreen.

Colleagues often secretly video chat. The survival mode of most people is that they work at least five days a week except at home most of the time. At work, there are always colleagues who can talk on the same frequency. When talking about work, we should also talk about daily life outside work, so it is inevitable that we will sometimes spit out trivial things in our emotional life.

Wang Min and Liu Bin are colleagues. They have been married for more than ten years. However, due to the boring family life, Wang Min is used to video chatting and contacting Liu Bin when his lover is not at home after work. Sometimes I say emptiness, and sometimes I complain that life is not satisfactory.

Liu Bin's wife was always angry when she was caught at home. She hates Wang Min and has nothing to do with her husband's video chat. When Liu Bin's wife was in a bad mood, she quarreled with Liu Bin and said angrily, "Wang Min has no husband, and her family is very trivial. She has nothing to talk about with you all the time. Besides, her husband has nothing to do with you. You have a family, a wife and children. You don't know how to pay attention to it

Therefore, although colleagues of the opposite sex are good colleagues who talk about everything, they should also reduce their contact after work and pay due attention to the scale and discretion of getting along. One is to avoid affecting the harmony between husband and wife, and the other is to avoid getting along too frequently, which is easy to form emotional dependence, leading to emotional changes and bringing unnecessary harm to yourself and others.

Friends often secretly video chat. Among all friends of the opposite sex, the confidant of the opposite sex is the most dangerous one. His role is sometimes competent as a partner, and only the owner can clearly know what kind of state he is.

Xiaoqiu has a very good friend of the opposite sex. She and Yang Yi met at a photo exhibition. Their common interests and hobbies soon made them bosom friends of the opposite sex. Although they all have their own families, they still have a lot of connections.

Xiao Qiu's problems in life are mostly known to Yang Yi. Xiaoqiu really tells him everything, and sometimes she wants to secretly chat with Yang Yi about one thing to do or not to do, and ask him about it. Makes her husband very worried about their relationship. Of course, Yang Yi's wife is also beating around the bush, telling Yang Yi to be cautious.

It is really hard to have a confidant in life. Some people say that having a confidant in life is enough. However, as bosom friends, two people should have principles and bottom lines, and pay attention to discretion. Once their feelings escalate and change because they don't keep a corresponding distance, once this relationship changes, it will be irreversibly out of control.

Many heterosexual relationships in life have quietly changed unconsciously. We always say it's okay. I can't get along with any opposite sex. I can control myself and get along with others. But when there is deviation because of long-term neglect of emotions, it will be said that it can't help.

Don't lose too much because of petty gain, and get along with the opposite sex with a correct emotional attitude. It is best to keep a proper distance, stick to the principle and bottom line of getting along with yourself, cherish the precious heterosexual relationship, and never let the unwarranted feelings ruin your hard-won marriage life, and the heterosexual relationship will deteriorate, which will have an immeasurable impact on your own life and family.

When we measure it carefully in life, we will understand that the most important thing for us is to have a stable and happy family, because the family is your resting harbor, and only a stable family can make you have a happy harbor.

And the harbor of the family is to let us take responsibility and protect it with our heart. Only when we assume our respective responsibilities in marriage and don't pursue those illusory and unrealistic feelings can you get stable happiness in the long river of life.

When you get married and start a family, each of you should bear the corresponding responsibility of maintaining the family. Neither party should bring unnecessary trouble to his family because of his momentary greed. It's really not easy to have a stable family. Don't destroy it easily by yourself.

So, don't often secretly video chat with the opposite sex. After a long time, you will really feel dependent. If you don't chat one day, you will feel that you have lost your soul. Habit is not terrible, but mind wandering is the most terrible.

It is not easy to have a family that cherishes fate. All you have to do is try to keep your heart, dedicate your spare time to your family and let love bloom in your home. Only in this way can we lay a good foundation for maintaining marriage.

When you get old, you will finally understand how important it is to have a stable family. Grasp the scale with the opposite sex, keep a good distance, try to discuss things with your lover, and pay attention to the appropriate limits and sense of boundary for things that others should not care about. The most important thing for you is to protect your castle with all your thoughts, and the family in the castle is the most important thing for you.

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