Married women, what comes first? Family? Career?

Women are princesses before marriage, and most of them are spinsters after marriage. In fact, women want to continue to be princesses after marriage, but the actual situation is difficult to allow. Especially after giving birth to children, the princess's life basically bid farewell to women, and the focus of life shifted to children. Coupled with the husband, a big child, most of a woman's energy is spent on the person she loves the most, and most of the time left for herself is sleeping time. However, married life is not necessarily about paying more and getting more. Sometimes, women are really helpless except angry and complaining about men's incomprehension and appreciation, but what women must understand is not to be indifferent to trivial changes in life or to men's protests. Some bad habits are really fatal in marriage, and we must not let them go.

One, than the husband. Some women are fine when they are calm. As long as they are unhappy with their husbands, they will immediately compare others' husbands with their own husbands and how much they earn from their jobs. The original intention should be to use other people's husbands to spur their husbands, but nine and a half men think they are the best. This move really doesn't have any good effect except to disgust men. If a man throws you a sentence: "Since other men are so good, go and find them." In addition to death, I can only blame myself for being blind. It's obviously the man's problem, and eventually it becomes your own fault, which is not worth it. Therefore, only a stupid woman will say that other men are good in front of her husband, just in front of her little sister.

Second, the yellow-faced woman. There is a joke that everything can change in a man's life, but one thing will not change from a teenager to an eighty-year-old, and that is to like beautiful women, which is a man's nature. Of course, the beauty in every man's eyes is different, but women really can't completely ignore themselves just because they have children. If a man really looks away, it's too late to regret it. In fact, it doesn't take much time to clean yourself up, and no one will like it when they see it. Some netizens told me that after giving birth, there is no time to slap yourself. Even if a man is resting at home, she doesn't trust him to look after the children. Actually, it's not necessary It's the father of the child, but the man is not that bad. Let go when it's time to let go. Women, standing with nannies, it is necessary for others to tell who is the hostess at a glance.

Third, excessive vanity. In fact, everyone has vanity, but it should be moderate, and it will not work after it. To put it bluntly, you should spend money on vanity according to your ability. It certainly can't cost a few dollars to live. Although men make money for women, they can't spend as much as they want. Such women and men will be afraid. I would also like to add that vanity should be restrained in raising children. I've really seen it. Children are famous brands inside and outside. Women who don't buy clothes for ten years don't count, and men will be scolded for buying clothes. This day is really impossible.

Part-time detective Don't let go of any clues, from mobile phone wallets to computers, men want to control everything. In fact, it is definitely not feasible to treat men in the same way as prisoners. Just a surprise inspection once in a while. When a man comes home a few minutes late, he keeps calling, which makes him more nervous than his children coming home late from school. If he is not tired, he will feel bored. In the past, there was a colleague in the unit who gave a man a few small changes every day and reported the whereabouts of the money when he went home. Every day for more than ten years, we also praised her for teaching her husband well. I didn't know that after the child graduated from high school, the man resolutely filed for divorce, or he died in silence and broke out in silence. Men generally don't choose to die.

Five, nagging. From the standpoint of a woman, I can fully understand that a woman's nagging is full of love. If you don't love, you won't nag, but if you say everything n times like Tang Priest, everyone will be numb. I have asked many men what bothers their wives most, and nagging always bears the brunt. Therefore, women should not be too talkative after marriage. Women's nagging is men's pain.

Sixth, regardless of men's face. Women can argue at home, and being reasonable can make men kneel and rub the washboard, but they still have to give men face outside, otherwise it is not negotiable to be careful that men turn their faces. If men are often teased by colleagues and friends because of family matters, it is hard to say whether men choose faces or wives.

Seven, children's problems are above everything else. I wrote with a smile the other day, and my husband said that my son was a mistress. Haha, in fact, many men will be jealous of their children and will be jealous with them. For this sensitive older child, women must not ignore his feelings for a long time. Men sometimes need warmth more than women. If a man repeatedly accuses a woman of not caring about him, this is a signal. If women continue to change, be careful that men will find other warmth to fill.

Eight, disrespect for parents. The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is always the biggest headache for men. Personally, I think it is useless for men to disagree with their mother-in-law, but men may not admit it. Parents are always their own good, everyone thinks so. So, first of all, smart women should not criticize their parents in front of men. A man with a little sense of right and wrong actually has an account in his heart. It's no use saying unreasonable people. To say the least, you can keep a safe distance from your mother-in-law, but don't stop men from being filial. If a man doesn't go home to see his mother, you will suffer and be filial. What could be wrong?