You and I have been silent for many years because someone is carrying a heavy load. what's the meaning

Meaning: The reason why you and I can enjoy life quietly is because a dedicated and diligent person is working hard. "

On the surface, carrying a load is dragging a heavy object; By extension, it means to live a life of self-improvement under pressure and responsibility.

Source: Su Xin "The years are quiet, but someone carries the burden for you"

Original extended information:

When I was young, I didn't know how to live a happy life. It all came from my parents.

I'm crazy about Xi Murong's poems. I'm a fan of Qiong Yao. I'm worried about adding new words, but I never thought about the hard work and fatigue of my parents.

Before I got married, I didn't even wash clothes at home, let alone wash dishes. After marriage, I ate and drank at my parents' place all day, then wiped my mouth and left.

Once a young colleague saw my hand and enviously said that my sister's hands in her thirties were as soft and white as babies. I am proud of my natural beauty.

I remember that day, my mother couldn't take off her ring and asked me to help. Touching my mother's hand, I feel so rough and stiff, and my heart is not tight.

I looked down and found my fingertips were cracked. On the big crack, medical tape is attached; Small cracks, one by one with their mouths open, seem to tell the hardships of the years.

I am full of guilt and emotion. My mother's rough hands put too much burden on me, but I always thought it was natural.

All beings suffer, and no one will be cared for by fate. If you live an unusually easy life, someone must bear your share of the weight for you.

The person who carries a heavy load for you is the one who loves you the most in this world. He (she) is always afraid that you are too tired, so put the biggest weight on his (her) shoulders.

If a person is kind to you, it is definitely a gift of fate, not a matter of course. Even couples, even parents.

You should learn to cherish that person.

Brief introduction of the author

Su Xin: Post-70s female, columnist, popular periodical writer and new media editor. Once galloped in the workplace, now I only love words and chase sunny days. About the workplace, about life, about marriage, about women, I write my heart by hand.