Huanhuan and Mi Tao had a conflict in Xiao Shede, and Nan Li forced Huanhuan to apologize. Do you agree with this kind of education?

I don't approve of this kind of education. I think it's better to change Li Nan's way of forcing children to apologize, such as being reasonable, instead of bullying and conniving, which is not good for children's growth.

Xiao Shede's script seems to be full of explosions, but the whole plot revolves around a series of discussions such as remarried families, class differences and educational pressure, which can be described as very realistic, hitting the hearts of every audience and being called "selling anxiety" by many netizens. Xiao Shede is a comparison between two remarried families, showing every family that has experienced junior high school and junior high school. This is an unforgettable contest between children and parents.

Xiao Shede's topic has undoubtedly poked many people's hearts. It is no exaggeration to say that it is a sore spot for all parents in contemporary times, because there are many feelings in the plot and our lives, and every family can basically find some of their own shadows more or less. It may be because the plot is too similar to our real life, which will cause anxiety with some viewers. Some viewers have indicated that "selling anxiety" exists. Maybe this story just wants to present the broader and more complicated reality behind the story through some educational scenes.

As a gifted child, Mi Tao is always sincerely willing to accept Zhong Yi's teaching. Zhong Yi always can't treat Xia Huanhuan and Yanziyou equally, which is obviously eccentric. Even after Zhong Yi's teaching, Xia Huanhuan got the first place in the exam. Zhong Yi also praised Mi Tao for being smart and excellent, and thought that Xia Huanhuan could win the first prize, and the topic was not difficult. Xia Huanhuan was not praised but left out in the cold. She thinks adults like Mitao. She began to deliberately alienate Mi Tao, isolating Mi Tao from other students.

Nan Li and his wife didn't know the truth. After the conflict between Xia Huanhuan and Mi Tao, they didn't care about Xia Huanhuan's inner thoughts and learned the truth from them. Nan Li believes that this is no longer a question of study, but a question of personal quality. Xia Huanhuan could only endure the injustice in her heart and had to compromise and apologize to Mi Tao, which also led to the freezing point of the relationship between Nan Li and her mother.

My thinking of "forcibly apologizing" made Huanhuan even more disgusted with Mi Tao, and the parent-child relationship became alienated. Why do other people's children always get praise, and no matter how hard they try, they can't get their parents' approval? On the other hand, Mi Tao, after watching Huanhuan's "Flower World", has some unbalanced mentality. Her inferiority is engraved in her bones, and the fake apology of joy can't be redeemed. Children are born with a blank sheet of paper and don't understand the twists and turns of adults. From good friends to enemies, parents have played an invisible role, which is likely to affect their children's life direction.

Conclusion There is no standard version of raising children, which is more like improvisation. It is impossible to predict the result. It is better to let go of the persistence of the result, open your heart like the sky, and water it carefully.