Yan Yongkang went straight to reality before marriage and married Zhang Peishan with "seven sharp questions"

The anchor couple Yan Yongkang and Zhang Peishan have been married for many years, and their families are happy and sweet. In fact, however, they only dated for four months before they decided to get married. Recently, Cen Yongkang revealed that the reason why they made up their minds to marry Zhang Peishan home was actually that they specially listed seven practical problems before marriage and interviewed their wives. From her answer, they found that their values fit well and decided to enter the auditorium.

According to Mirror Weekly, before getting married, Cen Yongkang wrote a questionnaire with seven questions that ordinary couples rarely discuss, such as "How much money do you have in your account now?" "How much filial piety do you have every month?" Do you want children? How many/much? ","do you want your mother to take care of the children? "Is it public or private for children to study in the future? Go straight to the real question and let two people's finances and values stand in front of each other.

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Yan Yongkang said with a smile, in fact, one of the key issues is that he has just bought a house for a year and is under great pressure to take on the mortgage, so he directly asked Zhang Peishan, "Do you want to help pay the mortgage after marriage?" As a result, Zhang Peishan said directly that it was all right, and it was one and a half people. In addition, the previous questions let him know that the concepts of the two people are quite compatible, and the other party is a lifelong partner. Facts have also proved that they are still happy after 18 years of marriage.

3 ~ 5 minutes to resolve the quarrel between husband and wife.

In fact, Cen Yongkang and Zhang Peishan have maintained a good relationship for 18 years. Of course, they not only agree on the concept of financial management, but also quarrel like ordinary couples. Especially as an anchor, my wife often complains that Cen Yongkang didn't follow the script, or she was at a loss when she asked questions. She also had a big fight in the studio, but after the fight, she got off work and went to eat hand in hand at lunch time. The couple have a * * understanding of this, and the dispute at work will end as soon as it comes out of the work shed, and they will never bring their emotions home again.

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Cen Yongkang thinks that the couple need 3-5 minutes to settle their quarrel. At this time, it is best not to continue the dialogue. For example, once he was dissatisfied with his wife's spending too much money on painting nails, he criticized it loudly. His wife immediately retorted that she shouldn't bite her nails so ugly, which made Cen Yongkang angry and annoyed. She went out to buy daily necessities under the pretext. As long as she avoids it for a little while, her anger will disappear.

Any man will itch!

Marriage 18, have you ever been bored? Yan Yongkang once said frankly: "As long as men itch! But he thinks the affair is a "math problem, not a physics problem". It takes years for a few minutes to get well. Men should calmly and carefully calculate how much it costs to raise a mistress. How much alimony does the wife have to pay after grabbing the bag? Is it worth losing the happiness of the rest of her life through an affair?