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Over there or over there. What impressed me in this issue is that male guests are choosing girls' performances and ways of doing things. A boy who claims to have had enough fun makes me feel that he has his own thoughts and personality. He won't give in to others, he has his own ideas and ways of doing things. In his indifferent and indifferent attitude towards others, he also showed his personality incisively and vividly.

It is also worth thinking about some ideas that let me know him from a macro perspective at work or at work.

As a person, you can't just do things from your own thoughts and wishes. Consider the overall situation. Otherwise, we will get the same bad understanding as the male guest and the other three female guests. Although the bad understanding of female guests has changed after cooking fish, business can't be like this. If you feel hopeful, you need to grasp the psychological characteristics of customers from the beginning. Make customers interested in you and your products. In this way, after establishing a good relationship with customers, sometimes some of my personality can be properly revealed.

During the dialogue between some male and female guests, Le Jia was right in some details. For example, when a male guest was chatting with Qian, the girl asked him what he thought of beautiful girls, and the male guest replied that beautiful girls felt insecure. So that the other party doesn't know how to answer. When the male guest and Han Xiaonan were on a painting date on the beach, the male guest said that the female guest was careless, and the female guest said that I was sometimes careful, and you didn't notice. This is the time when the male guest should pay attention to it next, but he didn't ask anything. We also need to pay attention to this point in communication with customers. During the conversation, don't let the customer continue to talk about your problems. Some details that customers sometimes say may be about helping you sell your products. This will help you understand things deeply enough, and the goals and tasks you set next will be more accurate and effective.

There is another detail that I may have experienced several times, and this manager Tan also pointed it out to me. Is to express your meaning accurately. The male guest dated Li Cheng and asked her how many times she had been in love. She answered once. The male guest said that she grew so big only once. In fact, he really found such an answer and situation very satisfactory, but what came out of his mouth had another meaning. This is the skill that I need to express in my future speaking style.

I don't know when I began to like watching programs hosted by Mr. Le Jia. Do you like Mr Le Jia's Love Me, Love My Dog? ? However, I always feel that this program is more real than If You Are the One, although some things are not so real and can be understood as TV programs. Another reason why I like being there or being there is that Mr Le Jia can thoroughly analyze people's personalities. But sometimes Mr. Le Jia can't do anything about it. Only he knows what feelings are.

I watched a program last night and was moved by Betty Wong, the last female guest who dared to pursue happiness. In fact, in the face of love, there is no distinction between high and low. Work hard when you feel right. Betty Wong did a good job. Although she was not selected by the male guests in the end, I think she also learned a lot from it. On the other hand, I didn't like this male guest very much from the beginning. I always feel that there are some self-contradictory factors in the personality of male guest Zhang Jian. The female guest asked why she broke up with her ex-girlfriend. He said that she couldn't stand the feeling that her ex-girlfriend had to be taken care of by her boyfriend. It is only natural for boys to take care of her. But when chatting with female guests or playing truth or dare, he repeatedly said that he felt the shadow of his ex-girlfriend from them. This makes me doubt the contradictory side of his character. It is obvious that he doesn't like his ex-girlfriend's personality and relies too much on him. On the other hand, when he saw the girl who was really a little jasper and needed to be cared for, he showed the impulse to care for her. What I can't understand more is that when his biological mother came from Sichuan thousands of miles away, he was so eager to see his biological mother. This is a little too urgent. As Betty Wong said in Riding Yard, I feel that I have suffered. If the first date was in Betty Wong, and then Betty Wong's mother came, I think the ending would be different. There is a preconceived feeling here.

After the whole program, I feel that male guests always compare this ex-girlfriend with memories. Anyway, bless them. Because as Zhang Ailing said: Among thousands of people, I met the person I met; In thousands of years, in the boundless wilderness of time, I happened to catch up with you, neither earlier nor later. There was nothing else to say, but I asked softly, "Oh, are you there?" This is not easy, no matter who you meet, it is a kind of fate.

Over there or over there. What impresses people in this issue as a whole is the hero Mu Xiaolong, a very polite and careful foreign boy. From his conversation and behavior with female guests, people feel a kind of comfort. Of course, this comfort not only comes from his polite and cheerful conversation with female guests, but more importantly, a studious student has a broader cultural environment and relatively stable ability to communicate with others. I am ashamed of this. I should learn more about this skill of getting along and communicating with others.

On a one-on-one date, he and four female guests showed impartiality. At the same time, it also left a good impression on the female guests. One-on-one dating, he carefully put a helmet on female guest Li Dan or mobilized Yan Lu, from the boredom of painting at first to the recognition of boys at last. They all performed very well. From the perspective of our business, we also need to learn the macro understanding of doing things well and the details of this kind of work. When talking with customers, it is also extremely important to arouse their enthusiasm.

The male guest is dating Li Dan for the last time. Le Jia also mentioned Li Dan's point of view: In Li Dan's one-on-one date with male guests, he also sent a good message to male guests from words, actions and other aspects, making the other party think that he was the wrong message that the other party liked. This situation may have happened in my work, and it may also convey such information to the company and customers, so it is extremely important to really understand each other's attitude and what kind of views to convey to each other in future conversations.

The male guest finally said that they would never meet the female guest Yan Lu again, but out of courtesy, they finally went to see him. This is also the embodiment of quality. We also need to learn not to do business in time when dealing with customers, and not to leave a bad impression on others.

Goodbye or be there. Through this program, I left the following profound thoughts.

First of all, the hero Zhang Lei has something similar to me. When the mind and mentality are impacted by something, doing something will be absent-minded and at a loss. Before Zhang Lei's outdoor riding date with Xia Wen, the program group specially recorded his ex-girlfriend's VCR in order to let Zhang Lei really get out of his previous feelings. Unexpectedly, this did not help him, but had a great idea about his date the next day. As a program group, do you think this arrangement is reasonable, or do you need to consider what consequences it will have on Zhang Lei and the countermeasures?

Second, Le Jia is cutting Zhang Lei's long hair, which makes him "reborn". So in the second date, Zhang Lei showed unprecedented initiative and frankness. At this point, Zhang Lei's mentality is similar to mine. Sometimes I may easily feel a new state and performance after ideological liberation.

Thirdly, Chen Chen, a female guest, saw Weibo in Zhang Lei in advance to get to know the hero before the date. This is what I should learn. Through full understanding and preparation before meeting customers, you can have more topics and words that the other party likes, thus leaving a good impression on the other party.

With the last issue of this year, it will come to an end, and then I will feel the writing. It makes me feel that many ideas and communication skills in the program make me worth learning. Although the program has come to an end for the time being, it is not over yet to continuously improve the skills of dealing with people in the future. So I hope watching so many programs will help me guide and motivate myself better in my future work.

Be there or be square I just saw a northeast boy hosted by Le Jia, a handsome guy who fell off his horse without sincerity.

When Le Jia arranged five girls for him again, he still failed, and finally the girl he chose still didn't come to date him. None of the girls have a crush on him.

But his evaluation of himself is: filial piety. Responsibility. Confident. Self-motivation. After breaking up with his ex-girlfriend, he gave her the house he bought. He thinks he is a man and responsible enough. After he finished this, one of the girls said, do you think your girlfriend is happy with you? You said it on purpose, and you felt something. Telling it to everyone is actually digging a hole for yourself. But he doesn't know, he doesn't know what happiness is, he doesn't know what kind of happiness women need, so he is materialistic, vain and pretentious, so he is getting luckier and luckier from true love.

Finally, Le Jia gave the male guests three sentences, which I felt particularly moved and benefited a lot.

1, self-confidence, can make a person out of the trough, but excessive self-confidence will degenerate into narcissism, and not all people in this world like that narcissist.

You must remember that there is a gap between ourselves in our eyes and us in others' eyes.

3. When we are working hard all our lives and blindly pursuing these externalized things of material and the outside world, we will definitely ignore listening to the truest voice inside, and only the truest voice inside can bring us the greatest happiness inside.

Over there or over there. The male guest of this program, Wu, is a professional real estate sales manager. However, his words and actions may make people doubt his work. Generally speaking, I don't pay much attention to details. What I like to show off is not that I have not shown great strength, nor that I have not shown strong communication with female guests. Perhaps many ideas and ways of interacting with people are rooted in being too protective of themselves, or have been unwilling to accept others into his inner world.

1. When the male guest and Ye Ting were dating in the lotus pond, the female guest took a closer look and realized that the male guest was wearing black clothes and was still sweating on a hot day. So he offered to help him sweat, but the male guest didn't realize that the female guest was actually very spicy and didn't care about any body or words. The female guest made a lotus leaf hat for the male guest, and the male didn't respond. When I was dating Li Ruoxue to play ball, I didn't realize or care whether the clothes of the female guests were appropriate. On the whole, I am still not careful enough. Of course, this is also what I need to overcome and pay attention to in my personal contacts. In the last conversation with general manager Xin, you also reminded me many times that I need to pay attention to details in this respect, not only for my life, but also for my future career.

2. I don't like acting very much. This performance is manifested in playing basketball with Li Ruoxue. When she first came on stage, she kept spinning the ball in the communication with the female guests, making them feel that she was not talking with her heart. Teach female guests to take the ball directly when making a three-step layup. In fact, many times I didn't hit it, and at the same time I switched back to a professional football that the female guests thought was better than this. In the communication with customers, the more they talk or do, the better, but they need to make reasonable judgments and practices according to customers' needs and attitudes. Performance needs to be displayed, and reserves need to be reserved and targeted.

3. The way to communicate with people is not in place. For example, when you meet Wang for the first time, you will say that the other person is a cold beauty, so that the other person can't enter into further communication normally. Female guest Li Ruoxue talks about having a car, a house and no loans for the man. The male guest felt that he met the requirements, so he was complacent. However, he didn't notice the attitude of the female guests and didn't consider the way to attend the meeting. Playing basketball was not suitable for most girls, but he only considered it from his own point of view. What I can learn from it is that talking to customers in the future needs to master skills, and everything you say or do needs to be considered. I need to make sure that the other person doesn't know what to do and doesn't think what I say is worthless.

When the male guest dated Wang deeply, he really opened his heart, abandoned the previous material and refused to share it with others. This stems from the style and mentality of working with male guests at ordinary times, like to do things by yourself, and have an understanding of material money. After writing down his three fears on Kong Ming's lantern, I believe he will have more changes in the future. Of course, this is mainly aimed at me. What I need to learn is, when I am a difficult or hopeless customer, how to enter his world, let the customer speak his mind and finally do it. I think this is worth studying and studying.

After seeing you, I finally saw Xiaogang's "Be there or be square", which was a rare night. See Xu Fan from "Tangshan Earthquake" and previous films, gee. The director is too good at employing people. Mr. Ge You and Master Xiaogang are a perfect match, which conforms to the typical folk image. This style has been maintained, especially Xu Fan, whose image is always awkward, but it conforms to Xiaogang's style.

The film was shot in the same place from beginning to end, basically by the camera stabilizer. The story reflects that it is not easy for China people to live in the United States in this era. Like my mother, like Chinese Americans and overseas Chinese, they are in a foreign country for the first time. They don't know the language, struggling to spell it out slowly with their brains and hands, cleaning windows and mopping floors, taking care of people, washing dishes in hotels, being porters, and being cheated.

I like a sentence in Ge You's play: "It is most important to enjoy every minute of life." This is the goal of life, and of course it varies from person to person. Now all efforts are not only for myself, but also for my family and my future life. It is one thing to love your career, but at the same time, you should know how to enjoy life. This is life. However, the enjoyment of life does not have to be good. It's just a process of stumbling, experience, tempering, spiritual sublimation and enjoying life.

This film tells the story of an old acquaintance who met in a foreign country and finally walked through the same ups and downs together. It not only reflects the reality of life, but also reflects the way of life of China people in the United States, and also reflects their feelings. These are a reflection of the development and expression of the story, and also the reason why director Xiaogang is most favored by the public. Telling stories with pictures and reflecting love with life are also the most basic things in movies, and life reflects the relationship, change and development of characters. However, there is no lack of humor. Ge You's unique interpretation makes this kind of overseas life interesting in hardship and exhaustion. He is not afraid of failure and optimistic, because it is a journey, a kind of enjoyment and a beautiful day. Retreating is a failure, not to mention enjoying life.

The film also tells everyone that the wealth gained by overseas Chinese did not come out of thin air, but by their spirit, perseverance and hard work, and by their brains and hands. This is the envy of all China people, and it is also one of the true portrayal of overseas Chinese.

The only regret is that the ending is not good. The ending of the two men was finally set off by a plane safety issue, and there was a feeling of coping with the audience. I think there is a reason for this. There are three encounters and two departures in the story design, but because of the protagonist's initiative, he never leaves.

The creation of campus microfilm is worth thinking about. If you really like something and want to express it, you need to meet the basic requirements of the audience. My works are not for myself, but for the audience. We should not only let the audience see their own ideas, but also let the audience see the content and let the audience think. In this way, the film will be a success.

I am about to graduate, and I can gradually find out which line I am suitable for. No matter what line I am in, no matter where I am, I will continue to do my old job, and VS images will always exist.

Be there or be square 8 I think everyone has seen the movie "Be there or be square" starring Ge You and Xu Fan. I watched it, too, more than once. However, I just can't understand it. Maybe it's because the plot is too dull and I always have no patience to finish it. However, there are several plots that impressed me particularly. For example, a dialogue between the hero and heroine: the man pretended not to see it, the woman deliberately said there was a wallet on the ground, and the man quickly took off his glasses and asked where it was. The lie was exposed to the face. However, the hero is critical, saying it is humor. In fact, in this movie, the man has been trying to make girls happy. It was because she was coaxed for a long time that the girl felt cheated by that man. Therefore, she always treats this man with the psychology of treating a liar, so that, unconsciously, she has been deceived by herself and feels that being deceived and coaxed by this man is a kind of happiness. In the end, I was unable to extricate myself because of the psychological tendency of "knowing that there are tigers in the mountains and leaning towards the mountains". However, that man's performance was really brilliant. He won't cheat blindly. He has feelings, too, and he is devoted to true feelings. He is cheating the girl with his heart, just to protect her. An accident actually changed the woman's view of the man: the flower shop opened by the girl couldn't make any money, so she was in a hurry and just had something to do, so she let the man look after the shop. However, the man invited the police, which made the girl very angry, angry and hurtful. Later, the man patiently explained to her, and the girl realized that the man was helping her. Out of gratitude, she bought this man a present and invited him to dinner. The man loved the girl deeply, so he was relieved soon. At the end of the movie, the two separated, and the man kept thinking about the girl and deceived himself with "be there or be square".

I don't know if this is understood. However, from the bottom of my heart, I really think this man is not worth it. He really means well! It may be because his deception skills are too high for the girl to understand, so this kind of relative is really much ado about nothing. However, in that case, there were only two people from China. What will the audience see if men don't help girls like this? This is a specific story that happened in a specific scene. Is there such a story in real life? I'm afraid it's not common because it's not necessary. Love and don't love, is a matter of words, why so! I think, from the perspective of an interesting life, it is also possible to "cheat" like this, and I am afraid no one will understand it correctly. If someone thinks otherwise, it is really "shooting themselves in the foot". Therefore, we can't be so mean to ourselves in pursuit of interests; More can't be in pursuit of psychological comfort, let the person you like misunderstand yourself, and finally treat the person who loves you coldly. I "scattered" without seeing it.

Sometimes, breaking up is not that easy. Just like husband and wife. Like relatives. Like colleagues. For example. . . . . . Because these are not what you want. In this case, you have to bear it. As the saying goes, "endure for a while, calm down for a while; Let three points, the sky is wide. " Really, you must put up with it. If you want to live a good life, you have to be tolerant. You are always in conflict with others. How can others tolerate you? Mentality is really important! Happiness is a state of mind, so we should learn to be tolerant and patient. When you get along with others, you should think more about the good and advantages of others, so that no matter who he is and how he treats himself, he is easy to accept. Don't always treat your relatives, colleagues and friends with prejudice, it is easy to hurt people. You don't know when you hurt someone, and no matter how hard you try to change it, it's not easy. Especially those who face it every day, change your attitude towards you, and you will be more tolerant. Try to exercise restraint in everything; Mortal, try your best to be tolerant. Remember one sentence: what is broader than the ocean is the sky, and what is broader than the sky is the human mind. Or, do more things, put on more makeup, touch him with your own practical actions, and then change him. Even if these can't be changed, at least live up to your conscience!

Be there or be square, this is a white lie. Therefore, life is to learn to understand others correctly. We can't always deceive others, nor can we always be deceived by others, so we can only take life seriously. Only by living your own life can you help others; Only those who live a good life can gain the goodwill and closeness of others. In a word, go your own way and let others taste it.