With all due respect, most people are of low quality and diligent.

With all due respect, most people are poor writers/strangers.

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Who is to blame for trying hard for half a year but not becoming a full member?

Sister Mo has a group of former colleagues who usually exchange and share company dynamics and industry information, which is not lively.

At about two o'clock in the afternoon, someone lost a link in the group and read the story with the title that an intern failed to become a full-time intern after six months' internship with his former employer. As a result, everyone talked with each other and had a good time.

The story is roughly as follows:

The protagonist Maruko is a schoolgirl who is extremely interested in beautiful things, especially gadgets with a sense of design, and also likes to take photos and share them. By chance, she got an internship with her former employer by virtue of her photos posted on the Internet.

The former employer is a well-known enterprise in the industry. Like many young people who have just entered the workplace, Maruko cherishes this internship and works hard. Wen can put pen to paper, settle down to work hard, be obedient and conscientious, showing the characteristics of a diligent and versatile little expert, and his work is getting better and better.

Seeing that half a year has passed, Maruko made a formal reply as he wished. She spent a week preparing ppT, summarizing the results, planning the future, having data, thinking and confidence. It is reasonable to say that there should be no big problem.

However, the supervisor finally told Maruko that her defense failed because her job responsibilities were not what the team needed most, in other words, it was dispensable.

With such a big gap, the young Maruko girl is naturally unconvinced. Why can't the old lady become a full member after working so hard? So I found a big V to contribute, express my dissatisfaction, and then look for opportunities.

The first few colleagues have expressed their opinions, and all kinds of gossip, some people say that Maruko is ok but not top-notch, some people say that the supervisor did not plan her direction in advance, and some people joked that her face value is average and she can't enter the supervisor's eyes.

The reasons they explained may all be reasonable. In the eyes of Mo Jie, an old bird in the workplace, Maruko's work is really progressive, and her ability is at least above average, but she made a fundamental mistake, that is, most of her work in the past six months is low-quality and diligent.

One of the most obvious evidence is that she talks about how hard she works, how good her work performance is and how confident she is, but she doesn't mention her communication with the supervisor anywhere.

The former owner is a well-known company in the industry. Every year, a large number of interns sharpen their heads and want to go in. So there are many competitors of the same age in Maruko. If an employee doesn't even know what kind of person the leader wants to recruit, it's strange that he can become a full member unless he is lucky.

02

Low-quality diligence is often more terrible than laziness.

In order to avoid misunderstanding, Sister Mo first clarified that I am not defending laziness. Diligence itself is definitely worth encouraging. There is nothing wrong with these old sayings, but their quality is low.

What is low-quality diligence?

If we combine diligence, laziness, low quality and high quality, we can draw four types of people:

First, high quality and diligence:

Such people are diligent in hands-on and thinking, with high efficiency and good output, and can accomplish their goals with high quality.

If you look carefully, the boss of your own company, the backbone of your team, or a well-known entrepreneur, politician, scientist and artist are probably such people. Without long-term high-quality efforts, few people can start from scratch or rise to the top level in their field.

Second, high-quality laziness:

This kind of person seems lazy, but he knows when to be lazy and what to do. They don't lose the key link, they sing while eating hot pot to get things done, and they usually do it well.

For example, when Sister Mo went to school, there were several such schoolmasters around her. She doesn't study hard at ordinary times. She attends classes normally and sleeps occasionally. She always goes out for rest and entertainment after class and never goes to cram school, but her final grades are always among the best.

Good laziness is not something that ordinary people can learn. They are smart and talented, know how to combine work and rest, and work and life are correct. People are more annoying than people!

Third, low quality laziness:

This kind of people don't want to be diligent, don't want to use their brains, have no pursuit of life, just muddle along, eat and support, and mix in the dark. A proper lazy person, Sister Mo won't give an example.

Fourth, low-quality diligence:

Finally, focus on people with low quality and diligence.

Literally, diligent people should have low quality, such as the Maruko girl at the beginning. She can't help but say that she doesn't work hard and her work is quite effective. It's a pity that she used all her energy in the wrong direction, which is a kind of low-quality diligence.

There is another kind of person:

Every minute counts. Their schedules are full and they have no free time all day.

They get up early and get greedy for the dark. They have seen the city at six o'clock. Tired and hurried, they took the last bus home.

They are full of chicken blood and have heard too many inspirational stories. They always pay attention to the comments of the big coffee in the industry and linger in various social occasions. If you don't agree, add WeChat and send friends to work overtime.

As a result, the instructors selling successful inspirational courses are financially free, but they do nothing and stand still.

This kind of person is also a typical low-quality diligent person. He puts on a diligent attitude and even believes in himself, but he does not enjoy the fruits of his efforts and even wastes a lot of time, energy and money.

Life is tired, love is tired, feelings are sad, phrases, most people, most of the time, can only rely on themselves.

1. Love a person is like this, tolerate everything and forgive everything. I always feel that the other person is very cute, very childlike, and everything is very pitiful and always reluctant. The first regret is not that you refused, but that you don't know how to refuse at all. Being sad for the first time is not because you are helpless, but because you don't know your own hope. The first kind of ruthlessness is not waiting for you to leave, but giving you a planned time to explain yourself. The first face is not for you to change, but for you to adjust and learn to analyze. Because your tears can't resist.

The happiness of success and the satisfaction of harvest are not at the end of the struggle, but in the process of struggle. The way to go, go by yourself, others can't replace it. Life is like a boat, vacillating; Life is like water, plain and most beautiful; Life is like hemp, inextricably linked; Life is ups and downs as expected; Life is like wine, pure but not greasy; Life is like a bamboo, rising step by step. Life is about being born and living.

You are a grinding goblin who bullies me like that all day, but I also like your terrible night, my love.

Wash your face carefully every day, read more books, go to bed on time, eat less and eat more meals. Become gentle and generous, continue to be kind and maintain love. Don't be melodramatic in front of people, talk about it everywhere for comfort, but learn to face it calmly and think it out for yourself. You are too single. You are so pious to be a better self, you will meet the best, and that person will be worth all your waiting for.

6. Is it silly that I like you but refuse to confess?

7. A loss, maybe you can't solve it with tears all your life, but as long as you show the hope of struggle and brave confidence, the loss you get is a stepping stone to your future. What are you afraid of? What did you miss? This is a fact. Don't be afraid, let alone worry. Life is limited, and the painting of life is priceless. You should know how to control life, live high's route, find your own main line, and find the dividing line of life.

8. In the face of failures and setbacks, we should have the courage to rally, maintain our true colors in the face of misunderstanding and hatred, have the power to keep forging ahead in the face of praise and encouragement, and have the realm of trying to resolve troubles and worries.

In fact, what is precious is not the first love, but the pure love at that time.

10. I think I am the smartest person in the world. Because some doctors actually haven't made much progress in knowledge, they just learned how to write a sentence that everyone can understand, so that no one can understand it.

1 1. Most people, most of the time, can only rely on themselves. I don't have any background, I haven't seen any noble people, and I haven't been to any good schools. None of this matters. The key is which road you are determined to take, what kind of person you want to be, and how to deal with your laziness. Go ahead, believe in your dreams and stick to them. Only in this way can you have a chance to prove yourself and find the dignity you want.

12. Half the time, I can't live without people. In the other half of the time, I don't think it matters. It's not how much I love you, but how much I can stand. -"The English Patient"

13. Naked loneliness is wrapped in the sense of erosion brought by the sun.

14. You left easily. I don't know how long I stayed in the same place.

15. Give me a reason to forget, so that I will never remember you again.

16. There is no standard to judge whether the article is good or not when the sentences are fluent and there are not many typos that affect reading. I casually handed in an article by Zhu Ziqing, and no teacher would think that his students' composition was good enough to be famous, or would make many revisions.

Falling in love with you is like waiting for the plane to land at the dock.

18. Dear, my love for you has nothing to do with you. Even the endless thoughts at night only belong to me and will not be brought to the morning. I love you, it has nothing to do with you. Even if I stand by and stand by you at this moment, I still hide my eyes behind my back and don't want you to see them. I love you, it only belongs to my heart.

19. I don't know why, the right person is not in front of me, but I think about it day and night; Even though he is not far away, I still can't restrain my desire for him. How strange and normal, this is lust: and the object of love is your lover.

20. The more things a person is interested in, the more chances he has to be happy, and the less he will be at the mercy of fate, because if he can't enjoy one kind of happiness, he can enjoy another. We all tend to be introspective. We don't appreciate countless interesting things in front of us, but look at our hearts with nothing. Don't think that introspective unhappiness is great.

2 1. Actually, I know everything, but I just don't want to be exposed. I don't even want to touch it, let alone squat down and clean it up. Whether you carry it or carry it, it will always be a straight story. You can try to get this demand, but you still insist on giving up. And I've always wanted to be a self-aware woman so that I can always tidy myself up in front of the mirror. Tell yourself it's not that you don't love.

22. Love comes and goes. Love is old and sick. If you can't cure it, you will die. Love is dying. It's time. Why do you want to fall in love and refuse to let go Everything has a chronological order. You can't be unaware of it. You just want to postpone the deadline a little longer. Flowers bloom and fall. Sometimes, why don't you accept that this is the law of nature?

23. Some people catch it and miss it. They can only say that they are deeply affectionate. There are too many forks in the journey of life, and turning around may be a lifetime. Miss the scenery along the way, miss the snow season at this time, miss the flower season at that time. The end of the world is too far away, life is too long, and the flowering period is too charming to resist the time. Memory changes, who is pale and who waits, who has no regrets and who is persistent.

24. Sometimes, some people leave without saying goodbye. Sometimes, some things can be understood without asking. Sometimes, some roads will get longer if you don't take them. Always staring at the former space in a daze, those who agreed not to separate have left, turned around and become strangers. Familiar, quiet, quiet, leave, leave, strange, strange, disappear, disappear, strange.

25. I know there must be a me in another place. Do what I dare not do and live the life I want.

26. Will you think of me after a long time and ask yourself why you didn't cherish me in the first place?

27. Innocent love has honest character, while melodramatic love is covered with hypocrisy.

28. Don't wronged yourself for others and change yourself. You are unique, precious, proud and beautiful. You must love yourself.

29. The maturity of any soul must be baptized and tempered by loneliness. The worst feeling in the world is having to doubt what you used to believe. Some people's lives are through trains. Some people are slow trains, and they always have to go through many stops and experience many people. Some people always get off at the wrong station and sit over their heads, either missing the scenery outside the window or the people around them.

30. I treat the loneliness of two people with one person's persistence.

3 1. A person must have a gentle, kind and tolerant heart. In other words, we should be respectful, compassionate and open-minded. To be respectful to others is to be solemn to yourself; Be kind to others, and God will be kind to you. With selfless love, you have everything. The truth of life is hidden in the plain.

32. The hardest thing is to say hello for the first time and say goodbye at the end.

33. Because you chose it yourself, you have no choice. -Yu

34. What is the hardest part? Live in peace with life. -"tuesdays with morrie"

35. Thank God for letting me meet you, you know? Meeting you is my greatest happiness. Meeting you is my eternal happiness. May you stay in my heart forever. May I get sunshine and rain from you every day. I love you!

36. I have come to know that many things can be met but not sought. If they don't belong to me, why care?

37. Some people, no matter how good you are to them, will not pay attention, because in his life, you seem so insignificant.

38. Cleverness and wisdom are two different things. Cleverness is a kind of viability; And wisdom is a state of being. There are not many smart people in the world, estimated at one tenth; Wise men are rare, and it is estimated that they are one in a hundred. In real life, it is smart people who don't suffer; It is a wise man who can bear hardships. Smart people know what they can do, but they also know what they can't do.

39. Some people have grievances, and if they have grievances, they have rivers and lakes. People are Jianghu, how to quit? -"Dong Fangbubai in Jianghu"

40. Regret is an emotion that consumes the spirit. Regret is a bigger loss than loss and a bigger mistake than mistake. So don't regret.

4 1. The hardest thing in the world is love, the hardest thing in the world is ruthlessness, the hardest thing in the world is human feelings, the hardest thing in the world is affection, the hardest thing in the world is friendship, the hardest thing in the world is affection, the hardest thing in the world is true feelings, the hardest thing to guess is mood, the hardest thing to repay is kindness, the most painful thing in the world is self-love, and the most lovely thing in the world is that you smile.

42. When you meet love at the corner, there is no future at the corner.

43. At a certain time, at a certain moment, hiding in a corner, thinking about the person who traveled far away, my heart will still hurt. Fear of being known, swallow your tears and pretend to be happy. I want to hate, but my heart is soft. I remember, I like it. Time has long worn away the water chestnut, forgive me, only remember the first beauty.

44. A prosperous idea and a gray idea; The difference between thoughts becomes joy, everywhere is prosperous and everywhere is brilliant; I miss you inch by inch when I think about it.

45. The figure of silently bowing its head is telling others that the answer is not clear or vague. After silence, nothing can give you any comfort.

46. When two people get along for a long time, it is inevitable that they will complain that you have changed. Maybe we haven't changed, but we are getting closer and closer to each other. -"Wonderful Exploration of Spiritual Books"

47. We all need to face up to our own shortcomings and turn complaints into trust with your sincerity.

48. Disappointment with friends mostly comes from the words and deeds of the other party, which can't meet the standards he requires. But I think friends can't be wanted, not at all, because we have no right.

49. Far from complaining about what has happened, you may not be able to escape, you may not be the most difficult to face, you may not be unhappy when you are alone, you may not get it for a long time, and you may not lose it. You may be sad for some reasons, but you can find reasons to be happy. The more people go up, the more their hearts will sink, and their hearts will be practical and the road under their feet will be stable.

50. Who will fly with me when I am depressed?

Inspirational talk, why can't most people make sustained efforts?

Birds are expensive and have wings, and people are expensive and ambitious.

Don't expect someone to accompany you all your life, even the shadow won't leave you when there is no light.

No matter what you do, you will suffer setbacks. You should have perseverance and perseverance, and have the confidence to stick to it.

The beauty of life lies in indifference to the world, tranquility and remoteness. Learn to be quiet, face it calmly and smile lightly. Find a quiet place in the noise, be yourself and shine.

Life is like a dream, and the years are ruthless. Looking back suddenly, I found that people are in a mood when they are alive, whether they are poor or rich, good or bad. Everything is over, as long as you are in a good mood, everything is fine!

Teenagers worry about the unknown future, and old people worry about the known loneliness; When people reach middle age, they are alone, the country has been decided, the future is in hand, and every minute can be dominated by themselves and fully enjoyed.

Those who dare to face difficulties are strong in life; People who dare to challenge adversity thrive.

When you are sad, eat a candy and tell yourself that life is sweet!

Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent effort.

All victories are insignificant compared with the victories of conquering ourselves. All failures, compared with the failure of losing self, are even more insignificant.

A firm belief will win strong people and then make them stronger.

People's ability in this life is limited, but their efforts are infinite! Try to be a kind person, a sunny person, a positive person, motivate yourself with positive energy and infect friends around you. You are sunny, and the world will be wonderful because of you!

To achieve the goal you set, you must be able to stand loneliness and go it alone.

In fact, what can really nourish our lives is not material and status, but love, kindness and abandonment, which is the height of spiritual level and soul realm.

Birthday is a stage, a test and an opportunity. When in love, men will make more use of this; After marriage, women will take advantage of this.

When a person really realizes, he gives up the pursuit of external wealth in the world and begins to pursue real wealth in the inner world.

The real charm of people is not that you leave a good first impression on each other; It is that the other person still likes to be with you after knowing you for many years. It's good to know you from the bottom of my heart after all the vicissitudes!

Success is actually very simple, that is, when you can't hold on, hold on.

Time is like an animal-drawn cart, and its speed depends on the whip in our hands.

Life, like an invisible balance, everyone standing on it may go to extremes, but after all, it is to find a balanced fulcrum, so that they can stand more stably, walk better and live more wonderfully!

Life is hard work and no gain. Zhang heng

Money can do things well, but no money can do people well. This is life!

Strong people can struggle in the storm of fate.

Good ideas are a dime a dozen, and what is really priceless is the people who can realize them.

Since you have identified a road, why ask how long it will take?

Live with a normal heart, treat others with shame, handle things with heart, and identify with Buddha with bodhicitta.

Instead of worrying about the future every day, it is better to work hard now.

Although beautiful flowers will fade, the moment of blooming is worth appreciating. Create beautiful things at a beautiful time, and life will be full of meaning.

Diligence is the mother of success. yisheng mao

Sometimes, we pursue more things and forget everything we already have. Half-life flowers bloom and half-life flowers fall. This road is a long mountain and a long water. After all, you have to go on your own.

The mountain does not leave the soil, so it can become high; The sea does not hesitate to water, so it can get deeper!

People who are worse than me have not given up, and people who are better than me are still working hard, so I am not qualified to say that there is nothing I can do!

The taste of the world is pure joy, and I like this taste.

The injured QQ space says that the sentence of blessing belongs to a few people, and most people are sad.

First of all, I didn't even know the tears in the end? For who?

Second, holding hands and breaking up come from the same hands.

Every time I cry, I fantasize that someone will hug me tightly.

Fourth, use my generosity to complete your blue sky.

Sometimes, it's not that the other person doesn't care about you, but that you take the other person too seriously.

Six, touching melody, I would like to die in intoxication.

Leaving you is not terrible. What is terrible is how to put away my dependence on you.

Eight, missing is the most powerless thing in life, humble.

Nine, the end of the season, with shallow lyrical steps and inappropriate sadness.

Ten, a moment of love in my life occupied my life's thoughts.

Eleven, once together, turned out to be lovers like strangers.

Twelve, as long as your heart is cruel enough, nothing in this world will make you sad.

Thirteen, the strangeness of old age is also a long-term feeling you give.

Fourteen, even if the world is deserted, there is still one person who will be your believer.

Fifteen, with emptiness and loneliness, I walked silently.

Without those memories, I wouldn't be so sad.

Seventeen, we are all hiding our sadness, and who knows the pain in our hearts.

This city is so empty, this memory is so intense, and this street is full of traffic. Who can I hug?

19. I always knew that the sun rose in the east and set in the west, but I didn't know that the position of the sun had not changed at all.

Twenty, some words, you don't say, doesn't mean I don't know; Just because I don't say it doesn't mean I don't care.

21. Love is appreciation, not possession and transformation.

22. Happiness belongs to a few people, and most people are sad.

Twenty-three, every time I tell others to face tomorrow with a smile, but how should I spend tomorrow?

I spent my youth in unrequited love just to be with you.

25. Everyone who says he doesn't believe in love actually has an impossible person in his heart.

26. Don't give me unnecessary comments if you don't know my story.

Learn to be yourself and gracefully let go of everything that doesn't belong to you.

28. Did I overestimate your trust or underestimate your tyranny?

Twenty-nine, I am in the paradise of being loved, enjoying the scenery of being loved.

Thirty, flowers are flying all over the sky, and dreams wake up and fall.

Although we are no longer together, I can still feel you around when I close my eyes.