My wife and lover pretended to be homeless, which led me into the house.

My wife and lover pretended to be homeless, which led me into the house.

Letters from netizens

Hello, Nisha blogger. After reading your blog post, I found that emotions in the world are so complicated. I also got up the courage to talk about what happened to me. It's been a month, but every time I think about it, there are still shadows lingering. Sometimes, I feel like a snail curled up and want to seal everything up. Only in this way, a heartless person will be less confused and painful when he encounters emotional obstacles. While there is still a desire to talk, vent all these pains and make yourself feel better.

It happened one day a month ago. That night 10, when my downtown clothing store was about to close, a tramp came at the door. Because there are often homeless people in that place, I generally thought they were poor, so I gave them some change to send them away. Every time my wife sees me giving them money, she calls me stupid and says that the tramp is impure now. Maybe people beg and drive home in luxury cars after work. Think about it, but there is nothing to lose by giving some change, even if it is good. However, the tramp who came to the door that night was different from usual, because although this man was in rags, he was young and had a clear expression on his face. I just looked at it a few times. I was going to give him change when he suddenly knelt down and begged me to take him in for two weeks. He said he didn't want money, and he could do anything for me as long as I took care of his food and shelter. Two weeks later, other homeless friends will come here to meet him.

I am the kind of person who is too soft-hearted I can't see a big man kneeling in front of me and still sobbing. My wife opened her mouth in surprise when I brought the tramp home. I pulled her aside and said, don't be too rude to homeless people. After all, he is human and has dignity. I asked my wife to clean up the room next door for the tramp, and in this way, the tramp moved in. I gave him a set of my old clothes. After taking a shower, he is a normal person and his face is more delicate. He said he would go to the store to help me. I asked him to rest at home for a few days. It happened that he could cook, so I asked him to cook for me and my wife. After all, my wife has to go to work and I want to open a shop.

My wife is always in a daze when homeless people are in my house. I told her that this man is a good man, don't be afraid. But I think my wife has been very nervous, and I don't know what happened. Maybe I took the homeless home without permission. It's my fault. Two weeks later, the tramp left and left us a note saying that I was a good man and would thank me when I was developed.

However, the next morning, my wife went out to buy breakfast. When I woke up, I saw my wife's mobile phone Q pop up a dialogue reminder, so I opened it at will. It turned out to be such a conversation, "It's really exciting to be a tramp these two weeks. What kind of surprise should I give you next time, baby? " "How dare you, and let me ask for leave to play with you. It won't happen again anyway. If my husband finds out, it's over! " "Don't." Looking at these chat records, my scalp is numb. I really can't believe that tramp pretended to be his wife's lover. I said, why do I feel that this person is not like a beggar except for rags for the first time? No wonder my wife was so surprised when she first met him. When all this was answered, I felt very cold. I can't believe that I stayed with my wife day and night, cheated on me and even stole home, and even took time off to stay with him at home, and I was. It's been a month, and I haven't touched my wife. I'm afraid enough paper will burst in the end, and we'll really get divorced. However, I have hinted to my wife, and she probably knows that I know. She has been very gentle with me for a month, and she doesn't surf the Internet at home. However, I am still worried about whether she will flirt with that person at work. But I just want her to come back to me, because I really don't want to lose this marriage.

Ni Xia replied

Your wife gave you such a tall cuckold husband, but you are willing to forgive her, give her a chance to change, and show her kindness. I really think your measurement is great. However, large quantity does not mean weak. I hope you also have your attitude, which can be reflected in words and actions. Don't let your wife feel that there is no punishment for cheating, otherwise, next time, you will collapse!

Of course, if you think it is inappropriate to warn your wife, you can warn the tramp. I think he left you a thank-you note, which now seems to be purely human. If your wife has repented, cut off their ambiguity from the source and say that you already know everything he has done. If you do anything to ruin your marriage again, you will take legal measures to protect your rights and interests.

This incident also reminds you to be careful of strangers. There is no need to harm people, and there is no need to prevent people. Maybe your wife inadvertently revealed your kindness, and your wife's lover also seized your weakness and took advantage of your kindness. Strangers, even the poorest tramps, try not to get too close without ensuring that the other person is harmless, such as taking in a strange man without authorization. This kind of thing is very unreliable at first glance.

Finally, kindness is a virtue, but it should be used where it should be used. Don't let heartless people take advantage of it! I hope you will be happy. Everything in the world is insignificant compared with life and death. Put it down if you can.