I am a soldier, and my girlfriend works in Quanzhou. Our families are in the same city, but now it is a long-distance relationship, and we are also friends for ten years. I chased it last year.

First, relax. Don't leave the army when your brain is hot. Because the military uniform is easy to take off, but it can't be put on anymore.

Secondly, don't worry, carefully analyze what your feelings are like. Does she really want to spend her life with you? If she really leaves the army, are you sure she can be with you wholeheartedly?

Don't compromise in a relationship that may not love you, or you will find that it is very realistic to lose your wife and soldiers.

Think calmly, judge and feel the feelings between you. If she is kind and willing to live with you, support your work and take care of your family, that's good. If she's running away and fighting back, you really have to think about it. A marriage without love will not be happy.