Photography Fun Xue Jie

I have to say that the internet age has really brought people too much convenience, especially the pleasure of sitting at home and watching what's going on in the world. It's really cool

However, the ensuing cyber violence also makes people feel a little chilling. No one knows when his words and deeds in public will be photographed by others and uploaded to the Internet. I didn't expect to become an online celebrity.

It is said that justice is never late in human groups. Once some people and things are out of the track of moral restraint, the relevant information will even be "human flesh" soon, and the blood type of the parties will be recorded in detail.

Everything has two sides. This kind of "cyber violence" sometimes makes people who have done bad things have nowhere to hide, but sometimes it also brings great pressure and shadow to people.

Recently, a senior in Tsinghua University became popular on the Internet, and even got a hot search because she accused an unknown senior of sexually harassing her.

The senior exposed the relevant information of the boy on the Internet, made a lengthy condemnation, and finally said angrily: "Little thing, I really can't beat you, but I will let you die in my circle of friends first."

There may be many people who don't understand the word "social death". Its full name is "social death", which means to make the parties lose their reputation in society and has been condemned by online public opinion.

Once the incident was exposed, it quickly attracted the attention and heated discussion of netizens. The combination of the words "Tsinghua University", "sexual harassment" and "senior and junior" makes people's voices against junior grow louder and louder.

As one of the highest universities in China, it is an ivory tower that trains scientific and technological talents for the country and even the whole world. Where can a weak woman stand such bullying? Such a "black sheep" cannot be tolerated.

But what everyone didn't expect was that the next reversal was a bit unexpected.

Because according to the senior's previous description, Xuemei touched her ass with a backpack as a cover when passing by the canteen, but when she insisted on monitoring and photographing the boy's "crime", she unexpectedly found that the boy turned his back on her and did not touch her.

The so-called "sexual harassment" is actually an oolong incident. After seeing the surveillance, the senior may be embarrassed for a second, but she immediately issued a statement saying that she had reconciled with her junior. I hope everyone will forgive her initial behavior.

My junior even wrote an apology letter. It can be seen between the lines that this is a very open-minded boy with some playful sunshine. While netizens are distressed by the boy, they also hope that they will not suffer too much psychological harm because of this incident.

The line of sight turned back to this senior who once spoke righteously and clamored for self-protection. Maybe her starting point is good, and she will not compromise and admit her ignorance of sexual harassment and infringe on women's rights and interests. But many people want to say, is it really worthy of your status as a high school student to accuse others and expose other people's information without confirmation?

Regardless of whether the senior is a "possible talent" trained by an institution of higher learning like Tsinghua, even an ordinary person is not qualified to blame others only by his own imagination!

What is even more incomprehensible is why this classmate needs to write an apology letter. Is it wrong to eat in the canteen? Or was it wrong to meet a senior at that time? Shouldn't seniors take the initiative to apologize to their schoolmates?

As a woman, it is understandable that senior students want to safeguard their rights and interests, but it is really inappropriate to threaten junior students' "social death" without conclusive evidence!

Ultimately, this is not a simple oolong incident, but a condemnation of character and humanity. I really don't agree with my senior's personality.

Imagine if there is no monitoring? The consequences are unimaginable. A boy who finally walked into Tsinghua University with his dream by his own efforts was labeled as a "molester" in an ordinary dinner.

He may receive overwhelming doubts, parents' disappointment and public condemnation, and he is more likely to do something out of control because of this violence in the end. At that time, can seniors still say "this is a misunderstanding" with peace of mind?

Here, I can't help but say a word to my aloof seniors: Tsinghua may make many people look at you with new eyes, but it's not a test-free halo on your head.

This incident reminds many people of the "Luo Zhuangyuan" incident. From an ordinary bank clerk, he suddenly became a "rapist" shouted by everyone. You can imagine how much pressure he was under.

Later, as his ex-girlfriend admitted that she made everything up, Luo Champion was finally cleared and his reputation was restored, but the damage could never be made up.

F Saunders said: Personality can determine life, and it is more important than talent.

We all want to be as good as possible, but often the external factors we care about, such as money, power and status, are not the factors that flaunt Excellence, but the most important thing is actually our internal character.

An experienced "veteran" in the shopping mall was asked why every cooperative project can easily make a profit. He admits that every time he chooses a partner, the character of the other person is the most important, and everything else is secondary. Only people with good character have real potential.

In today's society, people's hearts are too impetuous, because the speed of social development is too fast, and people are too obsessed with pursuing superficial things, but they don't care about internal improvement.

But as everyone knows, no matter when and where, no matter how high the education is, no matter how much money you earn, in fact, character is the only resume and the most important thing.

For individuals, character is the strongest backer and the hardest card of TA, and it is also a bargaining chip that can get more opportunities. A good personality is the most precious wealth for an individual, and it will also make the individual's pattern bigger and bigger, and the achievements will naturally not be small.

As far as society is concerned, if everyone can behave well, the social atmosphere will become more and more positive. We are surrounded by positive energy, and the benefits we get can be imagined. The development of the whole society will also develop in a healthy direction.

It is said that in this life, people should do things well first, and then do things well, in order to do things beautifully; And if the character is not good and the words and deeds are not correct, then even if the external conditions are excellent, the future will eventually be blocked.

So I hope that each of us can be surrounded by the light of our own personality and realize the true value of life.