About the fact that middle-aged uncle likes to shoot flowers.

In the blooming season or the maple leaf red season, when you walk in an unpopular park or a popular scenic spot-there are so many people in your field of vision, will you be a little confused?

What are those people like? Middle-aged uncle, or older uncle.

When you see them patting a flower in the grass with their mobile phones, some people always don't understand. When passing by, he will not only cast strange eyes, but also discuss: "This man actually shoots a flower like a woman, so what is there to shoot?"

Like this, I believe many people have a lot after listening to such pictures. What's more, they don't understand what they say.

The most unforgettable sentence is: "Men should do what men want to do. It is really disappointing to shoot a flower in such a wretched way. "

Why do you always remember this sentence? Because it happened between me and several younger peers.

I remember that was a few years ago. Several friends of our friends get together for a walk in the park, and some of them know each other.

On the edge of a deep-water lake, a middle-aged uncle is taking pictures of some flowers with his mobile phone. A boy in our group said this: "Men should do what men want to do. It's disappointing to take a picture of a flower in such a wretched way. "

Too young, I gave that boy a lesson at that time, saying that he was a boy and even called others obscene, and some people patted others and let you walk.

Later, the boys scolded me, saying that I like such a wretched man, and people I don't know have to protect it ... In short, it was a very unpleasant day.

I don't like the "cat kicking effect" to irritate others. The best way to calm down is to distract yourself. Later, when everyone was playing by the lake, I went back to find the middle-aged uncle. Luckily, he was still filming there.

I also walked into the lush grass and asked him with a smile: Uncle, why do you like to shoot flowers? Don't all women like flowers?

That uncle is quite good. He gave me a look: "Little girl, we poor people can't afford a camera, so we have to shoot with our mobile phones and squat."

At that time, I smiled and said: Uncle is a photographer.

Uncle stood up and looked at me and said, "You little girl can talk, but she doesn't think I'm a pervert like others."

I smiled awkwardly and said, I think many people like to shoot a flower like you. I didn't understand it at first. Later, I met a man with a big camera shooting a flower, only to know that you are all the same kind of people and like photography.

Uncle smiled a little shyly: "They are all rich people who can afford cameras. I'm just having fun. " It's hard not to treat me like an alien at a young age like you. "

Later, my colleague told me to leave, and my uncle and I said goodbye in a hurry. When I turned around, I saw that my uncle was still smiling and waving to me. At that moment, my mood was inexplicably better.

Later, when I was on a business trip or going out to play, every time I saw someone taking pictures with a camera, I would gather together to enjoy it and then ask two questions curiously.

The final conclusion is that photographers who can see the atmosphere and have ostentation and extravagance have also moved from the initial entry that others looked down upon to the position that everyone envies and pursues now.

We really don't understand other people's world. We just want to appreciate and respect people and things we don't understand more, and to blame and abuse less. As the saying goes, when you broaden your horizons, your heart will light up and your eyes will light up.