Thoughts on Watching Big Fish Begonia in Winter Vacation

The composition of the big fish begonia 1 Back to this film, it is actually a fable, not a simple description of the love between men and women. The intentions of many gods are completely different from those we have always thought of as emotionally deprived gods, so many people think that they are similar to the Japanese mythological structure in Miyazaki Hayao's Spirited Away. As we all know, before the prosperity of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism, the mainstream of China mythology was witch culture, which is also the cultural characteristic still circulating in Southern Chu. Witch culture advocates force of nature, and the earliest ancient gods are actually not as high as the later gods, and are closer to people's setting. As the prototype of many characters, Shan Hai Jing is also full of mysterious beauty.

The surrounding buildings symbolize the materialized state of ethnic groups, among which there are many defenders of order. The heroine Toona sinensis is not the embodiment of truth, goodness and beauty in traditional animation. She represents the truest thing in people's hearts, and is not bound by order. The image of a man's big fish is more typical symbolic. It represents the human soul, and the soul falls asleep after death. Women woke it up, let it grow, and finally broke through the shackles and found its belonging. As mentioned earlier, in China culture, the body and the heart are separated, and the heart serves the body. The purpose of the heart is to create relationships and emotional connections between people. The racial connection formed by this emotional connection is completely opposite to the awakening of self-consciousness represented by big fish. Once people have their own consciousness and beliefs, they will leave the ethnic group, so it is an ominous thing. For the hostess, it was because of guilt that she protected the big fish and sent them home at first. In order to repay her kindness, she must choose according to her own mind. This is very different for China, who is used to personal interests giving way to group interests. Is that correct? Yes Influenced by the concept of right and wrong since childhood, incorrect things are bad for us and emotionally unacceptable. And Ba's intentions are the perfect expression of people's ideal love, and they are also very loyal to their inner choices. He only wants unrequited love, and his image is very pleasing, which conforms to the structural design of China culture. In fact, this film has many remarkable places. Under normal and rational circumstances, most people will be tolerant of any bright spot and give a fair score. What's more, there are many highlights, and it can even be regarded as a national romance. Why is the one-sided negative comment so huge that many comments are hostile? My personal understanding is that China people are very defensive. From an early age, we are taught what is good and what is not. Bad children are spurned by everyone, and good children will have candy to eat. And this standard of good or bad has even solidified at the expense of obedience, obedience and compression of self-awareness. Without high-sounding excuses (reasonable channels), the repressed self-consciousness cannot be revealed at will. Why does the Great Sage resonate widely? Because it is also a hero of resistance, and standing at the moral high ground, resisting authority, he is the embodiment of justice. Therefore, it is morally permissible to reveal self-consciousness through the Great Sage. This is why keyboard players usually get together and stand on the moral high ground. The main value of big fish is to follow the trend, and following the inner choice may have cruel consequences. Let's face it. This is encouraging self-awareness, awakening, and facing the true heart without moral permission.

This kind of values has caused many people's serious maladjustment, just like Toona sinensis and Kun at the end of the film have also caused many people's maladjustment. If you break the shackles and inner barriers, you can enjoy a different world. I don't know why many people think that encouraging self-awareness means doing whatever they want, and correspondingly promoting individual interests means opposing collective interests, which has been brainwashed by the West. The emergence of self-awareness means facing up to your heart and accepting yourself instead of suppressing yourself blindly, which is another way of self-control and self-management. Selfishness is actually an act that represents that desire is not controlled by itself. How to control desire, suppress desire, criticize desire and control desire with morality according to our old ideas, but effective and tough means can never be truly recognized. One of the most important management rules is to be worthy of your merits, so that people will weigh their promises before speaking or doing anything. Only when self-awareness is born can we identify ourselves, face ourselves squarely, including our own desires, and control it. More importantly, only in this way can we truly achieve spiritual independence, instead of always relying on others, can we start to think independently and learn to respect ourselves and others. If you think that you have no desire, and desires are all bad things, then you are deeply poisoned.

As an individual, I need to say something about myself. None of the main characters in this film are unfaithful to their choices and ultimately take responsibility for their actions. And the sign of growth is to face and bear. The hostess is faced with a dilemma, that is, the pit dug by the director for herself as I said at the beginning. It is easy to be accused of not playing well in this dilemma. When the woman chose to repay the man, it violated the clan rules and was irreconcilable with the whole ethnic group. In the end, the conflict reached its climax, whether to sacrifice everyone for one person or one person for all. None of them seems to be correct. We tend to choose to sacrifice the weak side, because the rules should not be broken in the first place, right? If the hostess didn't go her own way, everyone wouldn't face a crisis, would they? The choice of the hostess is to have both, which undoubtedly has the limitations of oriental thinking. This dilemma has been involved in the Batman series. Every time a clown kills a person, he asks Batman whether to sacrifice one person or more. At that time, the film was praised for the torture of human nature. Batman says he is not God, and he can't decide who to sacrifice. In Big Fish, the female host's motive at first was to make her own choices, which was not in line with the public? Is that correct? Finally, I decided to sacrifice myself to complete my choice. Many people label the hostess and interpret her motives. If her motivation is too personal (love), it will appear less noble, so her label will not look so good. It seems that she is destined to be blamed. But personally, I think it is understandable to make a choice for one's own heart and intend to take this choice as growth. Of course, Pakistan's performance is another issue.

About how to really love someone. From the perspective of Pakistan.

How to truly love someone? This question is too cliche. Movies that discuss this issue can be recorded in tons at all times, at home and abroad. Director Big Fish also conveyed his understanding of love through music. There is no correct answer to this question, but after a long period of precipitation, I re-examined Yan's behavior and found something new in it. There is no doubt that the love of friends, lovers and relatives. Almost all of these kinds of love are included in movies, but how to love is different. I think the way parents love their children is right. In fact, Pakistan acted in this way from the beginning, so there was a plot to throw fish. Pakistan is also painful, because it is painful not to get a response. But why does Pakistan still support Chun and even sacrifice itself? In my opinion, the answer lies in the last scene when Ba was dealt a good card. We can't help but vomit because of our brother's terrier, but we actually ignore the original intention of this scene. It was he who asked Chunchun if he wanted to go to the earth. He knew that Chunchun would die if he didn't go to the earth. If you want her to live, you have to do this, but he still asked Thun if he wanted it. Chun said she wouldn't go to the earth, and Ba asked her if she didn't want to go or couldn't. Silence made him make a decision.

Too many emotional problems in the world are nothing more than that I treat you well in the way I think, but you don't recognize it. Parents may always want to wait for their children to thank them for their sacrifices for their children, but what children want is for their parents to let go. Is there always such a thing? I'm so kind to you, why don't you respond to me/repay me? In social groups and family units, we are always endowed with various identities and labels. Xx's children, xx's husband/wife, xx's children, xx's friends. We always use this label to ask each other what you should be as a husband/wife, as a child and as a friend. We all use templates and condoms to ask each other and treat each other in our own way. Many times this is actually the beginning of a kind of injury without knowing it. No one will ask? What do you want? Do you want it? Do you want it? .

Everyone is faced with inevitable loneliness at birth. So in order to overcome loneliness, there are groups and society, families and couples. But in the club, I still can't get rid of this loneliness. People suffer from the fact that no one understands their own hearts. They turn to find bosom friends, soul mates, spiritual belonging and reading. The root of all this is that we can't face our true selves, accept ourselves and find a partner who accepts our true selves and gets their respect. The starting point of all this is to realize the uniqueness of individuals. Toona sinensis is special to Kun, the bond of life and soul. Toona sinensis is not only the name Toona sinensis, but also a childhood sweetheart who grew up together. She is such a unique existence to him. So I am willing to give everything for this unique individual. Isn't it such a value that we have been busy with in our lives? In the community, in the work, in the intimate relationship, the more unique, the more irreplaceable. Because it is irreplaceable, a sense of security, stability and belonging also arises. So we say that if we want to gain respect, we must learn to love and respect ourselves. Because it means that you have learned to face the fact that you are a unique individual. Respect is precious because the courage to face yourself is so scarce.

In addition, Yan in the movie is not good at words and has been acting silently. Therefore, truly loving someone, in the author's view, may be your only existence. Respect him/her and support him/her. Practical actions are more meaningful than sweet words.

I learned about the big fish Haitang when I was in college. At first, I watched the short film, and I was surprised. So I found the author's Weibo. I can't say I can't breathe. After paying attention to him for a period of time, I found that his painting, photography, sketch, design, appearance and boyfriend are also very good. I think? Wow, so talented ~?

Later, I was very happy to see that "Big Fish Begonia" was going to be made into a movie. At that time, I chatted with my current husband, because he had an animated dream since he was a child, and he was also very excited.

But then he said he had no money and wanted to do crowdfunding.

Feeling that there were very few in China at that time? Crowdfunding? I went to see it, too, but I did nothing but wait.

Later, after a long time, I couldn't hear the news of the big fish Haitang, so I cancelled Weibo's attention and continued my life.

I saw the news more than two months ago that I would finally enlarge the fish begonia this year, but I forgot for a moment. What is the story?

As soon as I checked the information, I realized that the concept of big fish begonia existed as early as 12 years ago, and I knew it was only 8 years old. After so long, the memory of being shocked by nature is a bit blurred, and my heart is uneasy. What will it be like?

Released on July 8th, today 10. It's too dark online these days, so I habitually open my mouth and say it without thinking. Is it over? .

My husband was also hit hard, thinking how could there be such a poor evaluation? Said plagiarism, said it was outsourcing, said 12 was a green tea bitch, said crowdfunding was to feed dogs, and said the story was particularly weak. Was the last movie so dark Tiny Times?

But I still want to see it. I want to see how bad it is. I don't think this would be the case.

After watching the movie, we listened to three songs, and waited until the subtitles were finished, and then we stood up and walked, because I was crying all the time.

When I got home, I found out that Charlie sang "Big Fish" and listened to it three times, that is, the song at the beginning of the article, and cried for a long time.

Then I told my husband that I just thought this song was particularly sad. I wanted to cry when I heard it, and I was very, very sad.

Some people may say that this song copied the episode of Spirited Away, and I listened to that song, but it was this one that made me cry, not that one.