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Four days after the wedding in Sichuan, her husband was arrested. Ding, an octogenarian, waited 66 years before returning to his family.

Original title: Where are you waiting for your 66-year-old newlywed husband?

His name is Yang Shaoxiao. He was arrested shortly after the wedding. He once wrote home, and now he is in Chengdu. Clues suggest that he may have been a soldier in Xuanhan.

Her name is Zhang Fuxiu. One night 66 years ago, she lost her husband after only four days of marriage. Now, she just wants to find clues about her ex-husband.

1948, one night after four days of marriage, my husband was arrested. The following year, she changed rooms according to her mother-in-law's instructions and became a family with her husband's brother. For decades, she raised seven children, served her parents-in-law and died for them.

"Is he still alive? For more than 60 years, why is there no news at all? " These two questions have been lingering in the old man's mind, but they are hard to say; Seven years ago, she finally told her granddaughter the secret hidden in her heart.

"I don't have much time If he is still alive, I have a lot to say to him, and I can't finish it for three days and three nights. Even if he is gone, it is good to know his whereabouts! " The old man spoke his wish. In order to realize the wishes of the elderly, on March 8, the column group of "Waiting for You", a large-scale public welfare program of CCTV comprehensive channel, cooperated exclusively with Huaxi Media Cluster and embarked on the road of finding relatives.

On the afternoon of March 8, after the spring rain, the blue sky was washed and the sun was soft. Zhang Fuxiu, an 86-year-old man, sat in the courtyard dam and told reporters a story of acacia spanning 66 years.

Lose you

Four days after marriage, the husband was arrested.

"We got married in September of 1948." The old man thought for about a minute and said the exact time: the tenth day of the ninth lunar month.

In that era when parents were obedient and matchmakers spoke, the marriage between Zhang Fuxiu and her husband Yang Shaoxiao had an emotional foundation. Their hometown is turning into Fanjiagou (now the town of Bazhou District, Bazhong City). They grew up together. About 12 years old, her mother offered to visit her relatives.

Five brothers, Yang Shaoxiao, may be selected at any time. In order to avoid danger, Yang's family later moved. Nevertheless, the two families still corresponded with each other during the holidays.

Recalling the scene of the two people getting along, the old man's face showed a girlish shyness: "I am so embarrassed. Every time I see him, I hurry to hide behind the house. "

But bad luck finally came. 1one night in September, 948, that is, the fourth day after Zhang Fuxiu and Yang Shaoxiao got married, dogs barked in the yard, wooden doors knocked, and Yang Shaoxiao was pulled out of the back room by several people with his hands behind his back. Mother Pan Shi stepped forward to stop her and knocked her to the ground with one punch. Zhang Fuxiu was too scared to go out.

In the dim night, Yang Shaoxiao was pushed forward. He tried to look back at his new wife.

worry about you

Forced to "transfer houses" or expecting "old people"

Gradually, the barking of dogs disappeared. In the dark night, her mother-in-law Pan Shi was crying, and Zhang Fuxiu of 19 was buried in the quilt and sobbed quietly.

Hopeless waiting, Zhang Fuxiu married into the Yang family in the second year. One day, Pan Shi said to her, "You are my old daughter, and we are counting on you to support the elderly and die." Zhang Fuxiu certainly understands the meaning of this statement. "Niang (Pan Shi) is very fierce, and I am timid and dare not say anything." Awed by her mother-in-law's majesty, it didn't take long for Zhang Fuxiu to "change rooms" and become a family with Yang Shaoxiao's fourth brother.

After marriage, Zhang Fuxiu and her husband lived a quiet life and raised seven children. 1963, my mother-in-law Pan Shi died, and my father-in-law died the following year. More than ten years ago, Zhang Fuxiu's wife also passed away.

Although the first marriage lasted only four days, it was the best memory of girlhood after all.

In 2007, Zhang Fuxiu's granddaughter Yang Yun was admitted to a university in Chengdu. On the eve of school, Yang Yun was stopped by her grandmother. "Baby, help me find someone." From grandma's tone, Yang Yun thought it was unusual. Grandma finally said the name "Yang Shaoxiao". In order to fulfill grandma's entrustment, in September of that year, Yang Yun issued the first notice of finding relatives. But in the end, the post is still like a stone. Every time Yang Yun calls her grandmother, the first sentence is always: "Granddaughter, have you found someone?"

Looking for you

A letter from home evoked the old man's dream of finding relatives.

"Grandma is 86 years old. She knew that her days were numbered, but she never did it well. I blame myself. " Yang Yun said that she found many retired cadres in Chengdu, but found nothing. So I posted on major websites. Not long ago, this incident attracted the attention of CCTV Comprehensive Channel and Huaxi Media Cluster's large-scale public welfare program "Waiting for You".

The old man recalled that in 1953, Yang Shaoxiao wrote a letter to his family, but no one at home could read. Mother-in-law Pan Shi found the teacher in the village. Who is this letter addressed to and what does it say? Pan Shi remained silent. 1985 or so, she was walking in the street when a relative surnamed Zhao caught up with her and said she had a good thing to tell her: Yang Shaoxiao joined the People's Liberation Army and was a veteran of a military region in Chengdu.

Although I don't know the contents of the letter, Zhang Fuxiu is still very happy, which at least shows that Yang Shaoxiao is still alive. If Yang Shaoxiao is really in Chengdu, he will come back one day and they will still have a chance to meet. This wish, she wanted to tell the child several times, but the words came to her mouth and swallowed back.

A glimmer of hope went out as quickly as a faint Mars, and there was no news of Yang Shaoxiao for more than twenty years. Seven years ago, her granddaughter Yang Yun was going to study in Chengdu, and the hope of the old man appeared again. She hopes her granddaughter can help find the man.

The search team went to Rong today.

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The road to exploration

On the morning of March 9th 10, reporters from Huaxi Media Cluster and CCTV set foot on the road of finding relatives. In the town streets of Bazhou District, the reporter found Mr. Zhao who provided the information that "Yang Shaoxiao may be in Chengdu".

Mr. Zhao, 47, recalled that he served in Chongzhou 1984. By chance, he heard from the company leader that there were several Pakistani chiefs in the army a few years ago, and one of them was Yang Shaoxiao. When he went home to visit relatives the next year, he mentioned it to his father. Father may have told Lao Zhang Manfuxiu again.

Now Mr Zhao Can is not sure whether that Yang Shaoxiao is the man the old man is looking for.

On the morning of March 9th, Lao Zhang Man Fuxiu mentioned something: In those days, she seemed to hear from her mother-in-law Pan Shi that Yang Shaoxiao was a soldier in Xuanhan, 1953, and the government issued a preferential card to her family.

The family tracing team immediately rushed to Dazhou. But I can't find the information about "Yang Shaoxiao".

Today, the family tracing team will rush to Chengdu to continue the search. Dear readers and netizens, if you have any clues, please let us know in time. You are welcome to call the news hotline of Huaxi newspaper (028) 9611,and let us * * * dream for the elderly.

Old man's heart

"If you are still alive, just say a few words to me."

In the old man's bedroom, there is a wooden box without a lid. This is her dowry when she married the Yang family 66 years ago. At that time, she had only three sets of marriage: one box and two cabinets. Now, the old house has been demolished long ago, and two cabinets have disappeared. Only this tattered box is the only thing that witnessed the marriage between Zhang Fuxiu and Yang Shaoxiao.

Yang Shaoxiao's mother Pan Shi's grave is behind the house, not far from the former site of the old house. In the open space, a huge stone water tank contains clear water.

"I have only been married to you for four days, and I have been in your home for more than sixty years." Facing the camera, the old man shed tears. "Yang Shaoxiao, I can't finish talking for three days and three nights. You've been gone so long that you forgot about us? Why didn't you write to me? If you are here, just have a word with me. Even if you are gone, it is good to know your whereabouts! "

The children expressed their understanding and support for their mother's worries. Yang Qingli, the eldest son, said, "My mother was hardworking and virtuous all her life and was deeply respected by her neighbors. When the child wants to help her open her heart, if Mo (Yang Shaoxiao) is still alive, I really hope they can meet again. He is also our father and we are all his children. "

Huaxi City Reader Xie Ying's Photo Report