Sharing of golden quotes + reflections

1. You can’t just do whatever you want, and you can try not to do it if you don’t want to.

In life, there are many constraints, many worries, and some social rules, which often lead to us not being able to do what we want to do as we wish. But we can work hard to give ourselves the option of not doing what we don’t want to do.

When I was a child, adults had the passion to show off their children. Or they will teach their children based on their many years of experience: "You have to say hello, be polite, smile more, don't curse, don't hit, don't..." There are too many things we didn't want to do when we were children, but were forced by adults. Being powerful, you have to do things you don’t like. Many times, adults get too playful and tease children, making them cry. Parents think that children will forget about them after a while, but they cannot make people feel uneducated. Therefore, many times, children are particularly aggrieved and angry, and do not care because people If you are small and have little ability, worrying about it will only make you sadder, so you can only try your best to do some happy things without being scolded.

? Children who were asked by adults to smile more when they were young may not like to smile much, but they have to listen to adults and try their best to smile. Someone said, "As a young person, not laughing is a hard-earned right." It doesn't mean that we are unhappy if we don't laugh. Happiness can be expressed in many ways. Smiling does not necessarily mean happiness, just like crying does not necessarily mean sadness. A hard-earned right when you grow up: If you don’t want to do something, you can try not to do it.

The prerequisite is that you have ideas and thinking about what are your hard-won rights, and you can try not to do them within the acceptable range. Instead of just not doing it if you don’t want to do it, such as responsibilities, obligations, etc. In the human world, we have to integrate, and to integrate we have to abide by some rules. We can choose not to do something within the limits allowed by the rules, rather than breaking the rules to do or not do something. There is a bottom line that can make you comfortable and make others comfortable.

2. If you don’t fall down, others can’t push you down; if you don’t want to stand up, others can’t help you.

"Stormy Harvard Road" Liz Murray's father dealt in drugs and took drugs, and her mother took drugs. In such an environment, he skipped classes, wandered... He lived in chaos for more than ten years, until his mother passed away and his partner left. At the suggestion of a friend, he went to high school. The hardships and pain involved are difficult for ordinary people to understand. Go to a non-traditional high school, start planning your life, start to have hope. With the hope of "Can I really change my life?", I studied hard and worked hard. Finally got admitted to Harvard. The most important thing is to realize when I received the letter from Harvard: "No matter what is written in the letter, it will not break my current life. Moreover, I gradually understand that no matter what happens here or what will happen in the future, I Your life will never be controlled by external conditions.”

Yes, life is your own. As long as you are willing, your life is in your own hands and cannot be controlled by others or the environment.

A person who pretends to be asleep if he cannot be woken up will get up as soon as he remembers it without anyone else calling him.

I meet many people in life who complain every day, saying that life is hard and they want to change, but they don’t know how. There are people around to give advice and teach you the steps. Looking back, it's still the same, asking why it's still the same after the change, and hesitantly giving excuses.

? Or shouting every day: I don’t appreciate the talent, and I feel that I just lack a talent, otherwise what will happen. Maybe Bole has already been here, but if you don’t want to get up, no matter how good Bole is, he can’t help you! If you want to stand up, you are your own best bet.

3. If you want to master something, you must be really dedicated to it. If you want to excel in a certain field, you must be obsessed with it.

For many things, three minutes of heat. Especially in the past two years, I have seen the wonderful world on mobile phones, and it turns out that there are so many things that I didn't know before. My blood gets hot when I see something new, but it usually only heats up for a short time.

Calligraphy, dance, musical instruments, painting, photography, editing... there are many, many, many. When I saw these posted by great people on the Internet, I was so excited that I made a flag to learn them this year. Start pouring resources, searching for tutorials, and preparing tools. Start taking action with great enthusiasm, then become full of enthusiasm, then falter, and finally become exhausted. Okay, three days at most. There are too many trivial matters, the passion is gone, there are excuses, and then there is nothing more.

? I feel deeply ashamed of what Kobe Bryant said. Looking back over the past 20 years, I can’t name one person who was truly obsessed with it. The ambition is quite big, but the action is short.

? If you can really care about one thing, or even be obsessed with it, your whole life will not be enough. How can you devote more attention to more things? So find your true passion and go for it. To be able to master it.

4. Life is a long journey. As long as you pay attention to and appreciate every detail, the world will surround you.

In this hustle and bustle of the world, people are blinded by the colorful colors. Some people are chasing fame, while others are chasing profits and forget about themselves. Ignore the people and scenery around you.

Many people think that success must be achieved by going somewhere, so that they can see the bigger scenery, appreciate the most beautiful scenery, and meet the most beautiful people. That is the ideal world.

In fact, one flower is one world. As long as you observe and feel with your heart, you will see the most beautiful scenery everywhere and the vastest world around you. The so-called bigger world and more beautiful scenery are just enlarged versions of the world and scenery around us. What is missing is the eyes to discover and the soul to feel.

5. Luck is just a combination of life’s accumulation and God-given opportunities.

? I often hear people say: So-and-so is so lucky. If I had that kind of luck, I could do whatever. In fact, I only see the person’s glamorous appearance and the pie falling from the sky, and I feel that it’s just that it didn’t fall on him, otherwise he would be the successful one. In fact, if a pie does fall, he will not know it is a pie and pick it up; or he may know it is a pie but do not have the pot to catch it. While others are sighing, they are silently preparing the pot and practicing their eyes for identifying pies. The combination of the two leads to an ultimately lucky outcome.

? The greatest luck is the result of the accumulation of every step, coupled with God-given opportunities.