Working outside all the year round, children can't see their parents. Do you have this experience? Do you want your parents around you?

Personally, I certainly hope that my parents can have at least one person to accompany me, because I think there are many places that need parents' guidance and care in the child's growth stage.

I am very lucky. My mother has been with me. When I grew up, I asked her why she didn't go out. My mother said, because of you and your brother, I can't bear to let you cook by yourself. I can't bear to let you stay here alone, and no one takes care of you. So I'm glad to have her around all the time.

In contrast, my aunt's children are not with their parents, and I feel quite painful. They were brought up by their grandmother since childhood, and their parents only came back during the Spring Festival, and the rest of the time were in Lhasa. Grandma is old and in poor health. It's really not easy to take care of several children, and she doesn't pay attention to the nutritional balance of children. Children are growing up and eating poorly, which leads to their emaciation and malnutrition. Besides, they will be bullied by other children at school. The oldest girl in their family was accidentally hit on the nose by other children. At that time, her grandmother didn't pay much attention, which led to frequent nosebleeds, especially serious. So I really think that one of the parents must stay at home and take care of the child, which is good for the child in all aspects and will not make her feel lack of care.

Especially in the rebellious period of children's youth, parents are in charge of teaching, but parents are not around and can't give correct guidance, so children will go astray. When they have started to resist, it is too late to control them.

Although you have to work hard to make money for your children's expenses, you can't miss your children's growth. How can your child have a happy childhood without the participation of parents?

So I want to say to my parents who work outside all the year round: You have worked hard, but you can't give up taking care of the children.