Water carefully and wait for the flowers to bloom.

At noon, I am preparing to open the class WeChat group at my desk. Suddenly, Grandma Deng sent a photo of Xiao Deng's face scratched, saying that it was scratched by Xiao Fang. At this point, I am awake and uneasy. ...

Xiao Fang of Class 1 (7) is a famous "king of mischief" in the whole grade. In class, he never listens carefully. He always plays with his hands, either an eraser, a game card or a stick. After I handed it to the podium, he bowed his head and looked for a new one to continue playing. He never tidies up his school supplies. There are books everywhere on the desk, and things on the desk always fall from time to time. In class, he often likes to tilt his head to the back and talk to his classmates.

What worries teachers even more is that once the class is over, he shows his talent of "making trouble", and he always keeps looking for classmates to chase and fight and grab other people's things. When waiting in line, no matter where he stands, he will bump into the classmate in front. In order not to affect other students, I always let him stand at the end of the male students, but he refused to live or die and insisted on standing in the middle. Such a "thorn" has gradually become a "problem student" in the eyes of parents and teachers.

As a class teacher, I often reflect that most children are born smart. What's the problem with Xiao Fang? It is understood that Xiao Fang's parents work outside the home all the year round. He has been growing up with his grandmother. I love him very much at home at ordinary times, and my life is obedient. He gradually developed the bad habit of "having nothing to fear and not being afraid of discipline".

After getting to know Xiao Fang's classmates, I know that it is useless to use daily education methods. Then what should I do?

I think we should start with specific events and find a breakthrough. In view of the fact that Xiao Fang scratched Deng's face last time, I called Xiao Fang to the office and asked him why he scratched Xiao Deng's face and understood his motives. It turned out that Xiao Fang took the pen on Xiao Deng's desk first. Xiao Deng sat in the back row of Xiao Fang's classmates, trying to get his pen back. Xiaofang not only refused to give it, but retaliated against Xiao Deng by scratching his face. After knowing the facts, I communicated with both parents. Xiao Fang's grandmother bought iodophors and cotton swabs to apply wounds to Xiao Deng.

After combing the face-scratching incident, I seem to understand the direction of solving the problem. The child is innocent, so we can't solve the child's problem lightly. In order to let Xiao Fang deeply understand and change his wrong behavior, I specially attended a class meeting on safety education. At the class meeting, I intentionally told a story about a parent who came into the classroom with a knife and hacked to death because his child was bullied in Shangrao, Jiangxi recently. After telling the story, I took a meaningful look at Xiao Fang, and he immediately replied: "Teacher, that bully's child was cut more than a dozen times, which is terrible!" I nodded and said, "Every child is the treasure of the family, and no one wants their children to be bullied. Students should get along well with each other, not the law of the jungle, and the winner is king. Although you are still young, you should learn to get into the habit of getting along with friends and gradually develop a sense of discipline and rules. "

The problem seems to have been solved. After that class meeting, Xiao Fang stopped hitting people, and class discipline and rule awareness gradually strengthened. Although he still has many bad habits, he is developing in a good way. I believe that with the persistent guidance of parents and the unremitting efforts of teachers, he will certainly become an excellent boy.

Children in Grade One are still young, and their self-control and ability to distinguish right from wrong are not strong. There will inevitably be some contradictions between children, which requires the guidance of parents and teachers and good communication between parents. Every child is the seed of a flower. May we become real gardeners, water carefully and wait for the flowers to bloom.