What will those unmarried people do when they get old? Several old people in their 60s told the truth.

With the progress and development of society, "unmarried" and "dink family" have been generally understood and accepted by people. After all, we don't live in this world to be like others. Everyone has their own inner persistence and their own way of life and pursuit. Whether they are married or not, as long as they are innocent in my heart, they can be regarded as a life without regrets.

In fact, "not getting married" is just a choice, just like "Dink". Just like many people choose to get married and have children, some people choose not to get married all their lives and live a carefree life.

We have no right to criticize anything. After all, everyone has the right to control his own life. Even if we disagree, we should choose to respect. Then we can't help but wonder, how did those "unmarried" people spend their old age? Have you ever regretted choosing not to get married?

The answer to this question must be answered by experienced people.

This time, we interviewed several elderly people over 60. They have never been married, but their life is much more chic, free and happy than we thought.

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A: Mr. Mo, 65, unmarried, has been to more than 30 countries.

I met Mr. Mo when I was traveling in Nepal. He was wearing this sportswear and carrying a big backpack. He is a typical "backpacker" with good physical fitness. He didn't feel tired after walking for a long time, which made me really ashamed as a young man.

If he doesn't say he's 65, I'll think he's 40 at most, because he has a good figure, almost no wrinkles on his face and doesn't look like a man in his 60 s.

He has a good personality, loves to laugh and sees everything broadly. He told me that he is an unmarried man and has always been a loner. His parents died a few years ago, and now he is carefree. I asked him, "Have you ever regretted it? I have never formed my own family. "

He smiled and said, "This is really not true. Which road to take in life is not to take, and how to live it is not a lifetime. Instead of thinking about another possibility, I hope I can go to more countries and see more unknown things in my lifetime. In my opinion, this is already broadening the width of life, and I have no regrets. "

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B: Mr. Zhao, aged 70, is unmarried. He once regretted it, but he wanted a better life.

The biggest difference between Mr. Zhao and Mr. Mo is that he didn't decide not to get married from the beginning. He once met someone he liked very much, but he was doomed to miss it in the end. Since then, he has never met a girl who will make him move. It is better to be single than to make do with it. In this way, he was single all his life.

He told me that sometimes it's good to think about "not getting married". At that time, materials were extremely scarce, and even eating was a luxury.

He is well aware of the impact of bad economic conditions on the next generation. When he is unable to support his family, he feels that starting a family is a burden and a disappointment to the other party. So he has no confidence to start a family, just want to enjoy himself and live his own life alone.

Raising children for old age? No, I think money can prevent old age. Mr. Zhu said.

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C: Mr. Zhu, aged 62, is unmarried. He doesn't regret living alone. With friends and dreams, life is not lonely.

Mr Zhu was a programmer when he was young. His job was particularly boring at that time. He is also a very active person, always dreaming that one day he can put everything in front of him and have a look at the outside world.

After retirement, his wish came true. Now he often travels with some like-minded donkey friends, learning photography, video editing, skiing and even bungee jumping. I want to try everything I have never tried before. There are many unknown things in this world that I don't know. He doesn't want to leave this world with regrets, so he just wants to walk and see as much as possible.

I asked him, "Did you decide not to get married?"

He said without thinking, "Sort of, because I never wanted to get married. I think a person's life is also quite good, free and unattended, basically a state in which a person is full and the whole family is not hungry. Another reason is that my parents had a bad relationship when I was young. Often quarreled and beat and scolded, and later divorced. Since then, I have no expectations for marriage, just want to live a free and happy life. "

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In the heart of every "unmarried person", there is either an impossible person or a bigger world that has been longing for a long time. For the former, if you don't meet the right person, it doesn't matter who you start a family with. For the latter, if we can't see the world better and explore the unknown better, then marriage is a burden.

Only when people don't care about the world can they take a road of no turning back. For unmarried people, this is probably the case.

They don't want to go back, they just want to live a life without regrets. Marriage and family are not unimportant to them, but unnecessary.

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