Thirty years old is the real beginning of life

Some people say: Many people die at the age of thirty and are only buried when they are eighty.

But in fact, it is just the opposite. Before the age of thirty, we are still in the embryo. After the age of thirty, life really begins.

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A few days ago, I read an article about Huang Bo.

When he was 19 years old, he debuted as a member of the singing and dancing group "Blue Wind Sand", but the record company refused to package him because he was ugly, so he could only dance with Yang Yuying.

He sang in karaoke for 7 years and worked as a dance teacher for 8 years, but he could only make ends meet. When he was in his twenties, he would often fall asleep for half an hour after getting up. , think about what to do next.

Gao Xiaosong said that youth is as embarrassed as mourning, which is exactly the portrayal of Huang Bo's youth.

He sang in a bar and was challenged by the customers. Angrily, he went home to open a factory and start a business. As a result, he lost all his money due to a financial crisis.

At this time, his friend Gao Hu asked him to make a guest appearance on the set. He unexpectedly discovered the career of an actor and passed the dubbing department of Beijing Film Academy at the age of 26.

But in the entertainment industry where appearance determines life and death, he is undoubtedly on a dead end.

There was no choice but to retreat. He could only work hard and hone his acting skills.

After pouring his blood and sweat year after year, he finally became famous for his role in "Crazy Stone" when he was 30 years old.

From then on, the acting career blossomed and became better and better.

The pain and frustrations of the past fermented over time and became the nourishment for his wisdom and talent in life.

Everyone’s success requires a period of obscure efforts. Before that, they are all polishing themselves, and then they can become their true self.

Many times, we miss our youth, but it is undeniable that we did not live happily in our youth.

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During the Chinese New Year, I had dinner with my cousins.

When talking about the time of youth, I can’t help but sigh: It would be great if we could go back to that time.

The third brother immediately said: I don’t want to go back to that time. Looking back on that ignorant and ignorant age, I feel like a fool.

When the third brother had just graduated, he had low self-esteem and was sensitive. He dreamed of making a name for himself in a distant place and refused to follow his family's arrangements, so he secretly bought a train ticket to Beijing.

Only when I arrived in Beijing did I realize that the city was so big, but there was no place for him.

He finally found a job that was not suitable for him, but because he was too young and did not understand the ways of the world, he was bullied by his boss. He was young and energetic and did not ask for any salary, so he left.

But wherever he could go, he refused to go home and lived in the basement with his friends for more than a year, living on only one meal a day for more than a month.

At this time, the girl he admired came to Beijing to see him. He was too embarrassed to even buy a lipstick and did not dare to respond to her feelings. In the end, he had to miss it.

He said: When we are too young, our abilities cannot bear our dreams, and our minds cannot bear a relationship. We look for a place of our own in the world, but no matter how hard we try, we cannot see clearly. The road ahead.

We are like a seed buried in the soil, struggling desperately in the darkness, wanting to break out of the ground as soon as possible, wanting to see the world and ourselves clearly.

Finally, when I reached the age of thirty, my relationship was settled, I had a direction for the future, I was not so panicked, and I finally had some ability to live the life I wanted. How could I be willing to go back?

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We say that there are three levels of human life: living, living decently, and living clearly.

When we were young, we lived in ignorance. When we were young, we struggled for a decent life. Only when we were thirty did we begin to understand how to live.

An advertising video I once watched, "I am Thirty Years Old."

At the age of thirty, the protagonist quit his stable job to pursue his dream and become a photographer.

Yang Lan said: From the age of twenty to thirty, you may have tried many different choices. Which one is best for you? Through reviewing the past 10 years, I have begun to truly understand myself and my own style. I no longer imitate others and have the confidence to do things according to my own style.

Before the age of thirty, we have always been explorers and explorers of life. Only after the age of thirty do we have the ability and confidence to choose the life we ??want.

Just like the grown-up girl in the advertisement said to her parents: This is the path I chose. Don’t worry, because I have confidence.

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When we were young, we were like a small boat that had just left port, desperately exploring the world, bumping in the stormy waves, and feeling helpless.

It is time that allows us to grow. After seeing all living beings and seeing the world, we finally see our true selves. Only then do we begin to gain life, whether it is wisdom or success.

Before the age of thirty, life is all about testing the waters. After the age of thirty, we have a certain direction in life, the courage to face the storm and the ability to control our own life. Who said, thirty Years old, isn’t the real beginning of life?