"Photographer, just shoot casually!" -"Sorry, you can't be casual!"

In these years of photography career, I often meet some guests who say to me for various reasons: photographer, just take a photo casually, I don't care! Just finish filming!

When I went to do my hair, I also saw some beautiful women say to the stylist, it's up to you, just cut it short, whatever I call it.

Go shopping with friends, try on a favorite dress, ask the opinions of peers, and friends will say: yes! Almost the same, any one is the same.

I haven't seen my boyfriend for a long time. Let's go to eat. What shall we eat? Boyfriend smiled and said, whatever, as long as you like it.

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Well, I don't know how you feel. Anyway, the word "whatever" is my favorite word!

Literally, there are no restrictions or constraints; Convenient for others. However, in life, you will get such an answer if you solicit opinions from others extensively. In general, the word "whatever" will be said under any circumstances. In my opinion, this is often the case.

1, the other party has little interest and low participation, so whatever.

2, the other party is not sincere, just perfunctory, so casual.

The other party has a questioning and distrustful attitude, so it is very casual.

4. If the other party lacks opinions and can't make a decision, whatever.

We are used to using "casually" to express our humility and comity. China people follow the golden mean, and what's more, they use mild "casual" in their work, life and family, which is everywhere. However, since the other party asks for your opinions and ideas, even if you are not professional enough, at least give the most pertinent judgment according to your own preferences and understanding. Casual words, in my opinion, are more indifferent and disrespectful to others.

I'd rather you were picky than casual.

At work, I like clear-headed and even picky guests. Before taking a group of photos, you can communicate with me deeply and make your thoughts clear, and then everyone can trust each other, cooperate with each other and complete a group of films with high satisfaction. Compared with those seemingly easy-going guests who have no ideas, it seems that nothing is important on the surface, but in fact it is the most troublesome to shoot, and it is these guests who have the most problems after shooting. Because their so-called "casual indifference" is just a courtesy, which is incomprehensible and dissatisfied in practice. It really wastes each other's time and finally brings guests complaints! So, please don't say to a photographer: just shoot casually! Tell you: nothing can be casual! You are willing, I disagree! I must live up to my professional ethics and spirit. My photo is my business card, please respect it!

In life, I also like to make friends who have something to say. Maybe you have different personalities and different expressions, but please don't be "casual" easily. This is a question of attitude. As friends, we need each other's participation and attention. If everyone is uninterested, why discuss it together?

In the emotional world, it is more necessary to be serious and concerned. Imagine that every time your boyfriend (girlfriend) answers with "whatever", do you think he (she) is perfunctory? It's really not a matter of condescending to spoil you. The best pet is to know you, know what you like and what suits you, and then give the most pertinent choice answer. Otherwise, how can others say that I will always be a little girl in front of a mature man who really loves you? This is the happiest combination!

Well, if it's just your humility, put it away.