What if I can't find a topic to talk about first aid?

What if I can't find a topic to talk about first aid?

What if I can't find a topic to talk about first aid? In daily life, many people are not good at words, and it is easy for them to find a topic because they can't find it. Here's what I do when I can't find a topic to talk about first aid.

Talking about the topic of first aid in ice, what should I do if I can't find a topic? 1 Six first aid questions in ice

1, tourism is undoubtedly a slightly high-profile topic, which will make girls think that you are a boy who loves life and is sunny and cheerful. With such a good impression, chasing girls will certainly get twice the result with half the effort.

If you know a girl's idol, you'd better talk about her idol.

3. Most girls have no resistance to cute pets. You can talk to girls about pets, or even invite her to a pet shop to see cute pets.

Most girls can't resist the temptation of delicious food. You can also take the opportunity to invite her to dinner while chatting!

4. When you have nothing to say to girls, you might as well tell some interesting stories that you teased and compared when you were a child. I believe this will definitely bring you closer to girls.

You can talk about your friend, listen to her more and talk less.

6. Knowing a girl's mind will make the girl you like like like you. It is important to have a correct love thinking and master certain love skills and methods.

28 tips to keep chatting cool.

1, the key is not what to say, but how to say it.

Different people, different situations, different tone and intonation, say the same sentence, but have different feelings. The point is not what to say, but how to say it. This is not a method, nor a move, but an internal skill.

2. Body language

Some experts say that 80% communication between two people is done through body language.

I think it's strange to explain body language in words. I still recommend you to watch more movies. Pay attention to tone, intonation, eyes, facial expressions, gestures, postures and so on.

Step 3 have a sense of humor

This thing is difficult to learn in a pattern. A sense of humor is a way of thinking. I want to make it clear here that either you can tell jokes or you are humorous. Humor is not because of your topic, but because of you.

Saying ridiculous things in a very serious tone. It doesn't look like a joke at all. This is actually an unexpected way of thinking. If you don't have this way of thinking, then what you said must be reasonable. There is no humor.

Step 4 tell stories

80% of the conversation between two people is completed by telling stories.

5. sense of connection

Shallow connection (same topic). For example, you and I graduated from the same high school/so you also like mustard.

In the early days of getting along, we met by this sense of connection. The closer you are, the better your chances of becoming good friends/lovers.

Deep connection. For example, you have all been abused/your parents divorced/you want to commit suicide, etc.

Deep connections are usually associated with feelings and emotions. That is, heart to heart A relationship from shallow to deep can't escape a deep sense of connection.

It should be noted that the time and place to generate a deep sense of connection is very important. You can't talk to others at noon. You fell in love with the wrong person. You can't tell her in the video game that you tried to kill yourself.

You can refer to the above methods to create a sense of connection.

Step 6 play hard to get

Use the process of fishing as a metaphor for the process of dialogue. Direct example:

Example: You: Where are you from? (temptation)

Opposite party: Shandong people. (take the bait)

You: Really! I like drinking Shandong people best to make friends! (Answering the phone) But why is it difficult for me to communicate with you now! (release)

7. Open trap

If a person is interested in something, and then you take it away, when you give it to him again, it will arouse his greater interest. The open trap comes from this. The simple explanation is that the conversation contains unexplained thoughts, stories, emotions or feelings. For example, you have seen a movie, but there is a suspense at the end of the movie (aliens left a cub on the earth). You'll start looking forward to its sequel.

In conversation, it is like this. Join a woman and ask you, "How was your day?" What would you say? Is it "good"? Obviously that's weak.

8. Role-playing

Role-playing is effective because it is not the real situation. In role-playing, people don't play real roles. Therefore, embarrassment is avoided. People can also let go in the role.

Role-playing is effective because the emotions it causes are real. In other words, in role-playing, any feeling you give the other person is as strong as what they feel in real life.

What should I do if I can't find a topic for first aid? 2. Talk about the topic of first aid in the topic of first aid.

1, imposing fatalistic solution

In fact, there are many options for chatting with girls. If you talk about girls' favorite topics on many networks, such as photography, music and movies, it will be easy to talk about topics without being familiar with them.

At this time, we can use fate as an excuse to start a topic, such as asking a girl what constellation she is, what animal sign she is, and reading her palm. Then, no matter what it is, we will pull it to fate, suggesting that we may be girls' fate. Of course, if you just tell the girls directly, it won't work. At this time, we need you to use a humorous way, such as:

Boy: Actually, fate has come and it can't be stopped.

Girl: Maybe (cold response)

Boy: Fate has really come. You can scold him severely (creating mystery).

Girl: Why? (curious)

Boy: Tell him how you waited for him for so long to show up and hit him a few times.

Girl: Haha

Stimulate girls' emotions in a humorous way. When the girl's mood is driven by you, there is naturally no ice.

2. Your little ambiguity is the promoter.

We should understand that the purpose of chatting with girls is to attract girls, so we should try our best to attract them in the choice of chat topics and create some ambiguous small topics, but we should understand that attraction is mutual and unilateral flattery is useless, so when providing ambiguous topics, we need to use push-pull chat skills, such as:

Boy: I have a secret. Do you want to know?

Girl: What is it?

Boy: I dreamed of you last night.

Girl: Yes, what did you dream about me?

Boy: I dreamed that you chased me and said I owed you money.

Girl: Haha

Start the topic with a secret, make the girl curious and tell her that she dreamed of her. Although the topic of dreaming about girls here is ambiguous enough, it is easy to expose the sense of demand. At this time, you should change the subject and tell the girl that you are interested in her because you owe money and make a contrast, but you are not very hungry. Extending topics can also bring relationships closer.

Second, chat ice first aid chat skills

1, topic subdivision after the beginning of the question

If you want to start a conversation with a girl, you need to create a topic. There are many topics, but there are many reasons why you don't know how to say them, because you don't know how to start, or your opening remarks contain too little content to arouse girls' interest, such as:

what do you do every day？

What do you do at work every day?

Where do you usually like to play?

The "daily" and "daily" at the beginning of the question here cover a wide range. When a girl replies, she can't find the key points in your words, and the reply is extremely simple, which easily leads to less information for girls, so it is difficult for you to extend it with girls' words, which leads to silence.

The correct way is to subdivide the topic and guide the girls to talk more at the beginning of the chat, such as:

Have you been busy recently?

How's work recently?

What made you think of going to xx?

This way of asking questions is to let girls reply to your information as much as possible, and "force" the other party to give some specific information, which can be used to continue the conversation.

2. Take declarative sentences as the topic content to increase interactivity.

In the process of chatting with girls, it is actually a process of information exchange, but in order to make this process of information exchange not too boring, you need to increase interaction in the chat, and interaction is not a question and answer. Many people are prone to these situations in chat, such as:

Boy: Are you busy these days?

Girl: Yes, very busy.

Boy: Then you are really a hard worker.

After successfully opening a topic, girls are eager to evaluate their answers after replying to the message. Without substantive interaction, the topic can only end without interaction. If you don't find the topic in time, it's easy to be silent.

The correct way is to evaluate the girls' answers, and then ask questions to open another topic, such as:

Boy: Are you busy these days?

Girl: Yes, very busy.

Boy: Then you are really a hard worker. Will your boss give you a raise?

Girl: Hum,no..

Boy: Your boss is so stingy. Have you ever resisted?

Constantly establish an information chain, and constantly expand topics according to the content of girls' reply information. As long as there is a topic to talk about, there will be no ice.

What should I do if I can't find a topic for chatting and silence? Chatting is silent on the topic of first aid, and girls can do this without a topic.

1. Break the deadlock with her guess.

Everyone is curious about what others say about themselves, so if you say something about her, you can attract her attention and make her curious. The topic can continue. Of course, these guesses should be on the bright side, and you still have reasons to say. It doesn't matter if there is no normal reason, as long as you can make it up to make people believe.

2. Use suggestive questions to break the deadlock

If you really don't know what to say, let her give you some advice. For example, if you want to buy clothes, let them recommend you; I want to send a female friend, ask her what she thinks is better, and so on. Of course, asking questions is not to embarrass her, but to continue the topic, so it is better to find questions that she is interested in and understand. As soon as this topic is connected, we have a lot of room for operation and continue to chat.

In a word, most chat silence can be broken by asking questions, but this method is only suitable for emergencies. If you want to make the chat atmosphere better in the back, it still depends on your personal ability. Asking questions all the time will only make people bored. Therefore, after breaking the ice, we still need some attractive topics to keep the chat hot.

These topics are also quite easy, starting with girls' hobbies, starting with the latest popular movies, and starting with a little self-deprecating or hurting her.