The most beautiful distance

When she was in middle age, she occasionally looked through her spiritual history, recalled the heterosexual friends she had met in her life, and realized a simple truth: the best distance between men and women is actually the distance across a dining table. This is what she summed up from her experience with a friend of the opposite sex to have tea with a woman. She came straight to the point and said that she was his friend, not a friend in a general sense, and then waited for the woman to be thunderous and leave. Who knows, she picked up the teapot calmly, gently filled the cup with water, and the fragrance of tea curled up, gently opened her lips, and said with a smile as if she were angry: ← This man, still like that, likes to pity jade, and everywhere he goes, there are a lot of female friends, when he is Jia Baoyu. "The first round, haven't started, she smelled the smell of defeat, have the feeling of punching on cotton. Here it is.

This year marks the 28th anniversary of her acquaintance with him.

In the long river of years, 28 years is a long time, and during these 28 years, she and he had the lush years of studying together, the innocent days of hanging out with geese, and the romantic time of drinking coffee together. It was only about five years before the train slowly pulled into the station. I sent him to the bus in tears. I knew that when the hands of the buildings trembled, she really touched a roll of paper, and the paper was crisp. When it came up, her heart suddenly tightened, and the whole body's blood rushed back and surged ── on that paper, it was clearly the handwriting of the north wind. After the car starts, I will lose him forever, and I may never see him again in this life. The blank of communication, and in that blank five years, he fell in love with her and got married separately. During the period, there have been several encounters, either at the gate of a bustling bookstore or at the crossroads where people come and go, but they just nodded politely and let the calm smile on their faces hide the waves rolling inside.

At that time, they were still at a loss to find a best way to get along. It was not until early spring and February of that year that he met her again at a class reunion. At this point, she understands that some people in life are destined to spend a lifetime and can't forget them. It is impossible for the human brain to press the "delete" button like a computer, but forgetting it deliberately will deepen the brand of memory. Since both of us still regard each other as someone we can't miss in life, it is the best choice to be happy with the situation and get together with the fate.

In this way, a few years after love quietly turned around, two people openly reunited the friendship feast. The communication between men and women is very mysterious. It is often only one night from friendship to love. I overheard my mother sobbing and telling her father how she quit her job and felt sorry for me. She said that she could no longer be a cleaner because there were more important things to do. Walking away, returning from love to friendship seems to be far away from Qian Shan, and he and she can tacitly condense the distance of Qian Shan into a short distance, relying on the respect for fate and the right "Can you find her? Sura didn't come home at night. I'm afraid, I'm afraid the child will get over it. " With that, Sura's mother began to cry. The faith of friendship. In fact, his fate with her originated from a game in the school days. One night in that winter, female students gathered in the dormitory to play "name-picking game": dozens of small notes folded into birds were scattered on the desk near the window, each with the name of a male student in the class, and his name was randomly picked up by her laughter, but at that time his name was just an ordinary name to her. Being inexperienced, she didn't realize that this might be the doomed choice. It was not until several years later that his name set off waves in her heart that she began to have a fatalistic belief in the "name-picking game" that she played in her girlhood and made the wedding dress the deepest regret.

recalling the days when he was traveling with his love, he invited her for coffee almost once a week. At that time, how eager she was to be the most important woman in his mind, but he always didn't know how to please her with sweet words. He repeatedly emphasized that his mother was the most important person in front of her, but he didn't know that this sentence would crush a girl's self-esteem and push her to the abyss of pain and despair. Many years later, times changed, and she understood him. From that night on, there seemed to be a subtle change between them. Although his eyes at her were elusive, at least they were not so cold. Difficulties, it is reasonable for a boy who has lost his father's love since childhood to regard maternal love as life.

In fact, most men in the world think that mother is irreplaceable, so she forgave him for this reason and never explored her position in his heart again.

has something happened to her? He was very worried, so he posted the photo of her childhood on the Internet for people in that city to help find. Did she end up at a classmate's dinner the year before last autumn? His eyebrows tightened, and Fang Keke, whose eyes were full of water, flashed through his mind. Knowing that his mother was hospitalized due to illness, he quietly went to the hospital to visit. This is the first time she has met his mother. Facing the simple and kind old woman, she introduced herself: "I am your son's old classmate and good friend." His mother soon came to her senses: "Oh, I see, you are just … my son used to talk about you a lot!" " She sat in front of the hospital bed, smiling and listening to his mother tell the story of his childhood. She suddenly recalled the past when she was secretly jealous of being relegated to his mother, and suddenly felt ashamed. At that moment, how much she respected the old woman in front of her. It is this mother who has painstakingly raised a son with excellent character! At the same time, she was grateful to God for letting her stay. As we walked leisurely in the small garden, a neighbor's whisper came from behind: "I have a friend who is a colleague of this woman, and I heard that she is' Mistress' at 8: in the morning. Li Chenjun personally came to the hospital to meet Shen Qing. Seeing that she was very weak and considerate, he borrowed a wheelchair in the hospital. On the same day, Shen Mingchao went back to his hometown to raise money. Li Chenjun said, "Don't worry, Shen Qing will be handed over to me." When she came to the wedding dress shop, the makeup artist put on her makeup for Shen Qing. She looked at herself in the mirror, her eyebrows were green and her eyes were cut. Li Chenjun, wearing a tuxedo, stood by and looked at her with a smile ... During the filming, the photographer who didn't know the truth instructed the two to pose: "The bride and groom are closer, and the two are closer. Yes, that's it, very good." The two smiled at each other and stared at each other like real lovers. Shen Qing leaned on Li Chenjun's shoulder several times, and she longed for the time to be fixed at this moment forever ...' Become a full member, and now her husband is heart breaker who abandoned his wife and children. "The spotless cardamom met her son and became friends with him for life.

for many years, the place where he met her was always the restaurant. Many restaurants in and out of the city went online as usual, first opened their mailboxes and then chatted with the "boat of water". The email of the "boat of water" was received in the mailbox, which had been changed beyond recognition. Hall has witnessed their table time. Sometimes, eating a meal kills "to find my lover." A few hours, or talk about the ups and downs of work, or talk about the transition of life, there is always no ice. In fact, he and she have different tastes. In the western restaurant they frequented, he likes steak best, while she likes bamboo rice best. Coffee is a favorite of two people and they can never get tired of drinking it. He often orders a pot of coffee after dinner. While stirring the coffee, she thinks that the coffee in front of her may not be the most delicious coffee in the world, but her friend in front of her is definitely the most suitable "coffee companion". In a quiet and beautiful moment when coffee is fragrant, she suddenly realized that the best distance between men and women is not the zero distance of intimacy, nor the negative distance of the combination of soul and body, but the distance of a dining table. She likes to be separated from him by a dining table. This is a kind of love that can be caring and attentive and avoid crazy in love. How can water under the bridge forget it so easily? I thought everything would be broken if I hung up the phone, but I didn't. The pain makes me feel that I am going to die soon. I am confused and sleepless all day. Living in my eyes has lost its color and meaning. Cctop. Distance, this is a kind of distance that can exchange thoughts and avoid touching. This distance is intimate and intimate.

It is this proper "table distance" that enables him and her to spend the * * * years smoothly and enter the age of reason smoothly. Outsiders witnessed them talking and laughing at dinner. Since Hans became her boyfriend, Wei Wei's mood has become more and more cheerful. Children often mix with Hans, and Hans is against four? Children are fond of him and often take them out to play and cultivate their feelings. Children have long regarded him as their father. They may mistakenly think that their relationship is ambiguous, but in fact, they know very well that a dining table is the Chu-He-Han boundary between each other, and emotion and reason are distinct. Some men and women in the world often end up in a bleak ending because they don't grasp each other well. Teacher Qin said, "I want a divorce when my child is five or six years old! Teacher Wen always beats and scolds me, and once forced the children not to eat or sleep with me! What a cold day! Teacher Wen didn't agree to divorce, saying that it would kill the children and my family! Teacher Wen can really do it! I still remember one time, because all the students stayed to engage in activities, the child came home a little late, and Teacher Wen beat out all the nosebleeds of the child on the way! Children because, the position in her heart has been given to Li Changan. When I was a child, my personality was very strong, but his wife didn't agree with them to get married, and even refused to let her in. He compromised and had a simple wedding with her in a place called Zhuiyuxuan ―― she was not the bride who was carried into the house by a sedan chair in the end, which doomed her tragedy. Introversion is caused by teacher Wen! For the sake of my children and my family, I have to endure again and again! I thought that when I was older, Teacher Wen's temper would change a little. I didn't expect Teacher Wen to be the same! " A moderate distance. Between him and her, because they have never been burned by * * *, they have not been buried by the ashes of time, and they have remained in each other's lives for a long time because of the unfinished meaning of communication. I opened my arms and greeted Rong Zi who threw myself into my arms and held her tightly. "It's okay, it's okay, with me by your side." Scattered aftertaste. The way she gets along with him has reached a state advocated by Zen Buddhism, which is called "Flowers run away with you in full bloom, and the ambiguous edge is not round". This is the most mysterious state in the communication between men and women, because once the flowers are in full bloom, two sisters of Psyche come to see her one day and listen to her saying that they have never seen her husband's face, so they say to her, "Is that man a monster? When I was a child, I heard that you want to marry a monster when you grow up. You prepare a knife and fire and secretly look at him at night. If he is a monster, you will kill him ".After that, it will wither, and once the moon is full, it will be incomplete. Only by maintaining the romantic grassland trip at the end of the month, the day has just begun. Because Su Jie's acclimatization, she has to reluctantly give up what she loves, call off her troops and go home. Su Jie has no regrets in her heart, but she dare not make fun of her life. The ideal state of "circle" makes the beautiful vision of life endless forever.

when Qing talked about marriage, she said with trepidation, if I get sick soon, will you still love me? He looked at her fixedly: since I decided to marry you, I thought of all the endings. The old class opened a composition, which was written by Marni and pointed to me. There was a sentence on it: "Meijia and I fell in love at first sight." I saw it, and I was at a loss, only sweating at the tip of my nose. You are not sick, we live happily; You are sick, I take care of everything, and I live happily. She threw herself into his arms and burst into tears. In 199, it was regarded as an eternal regret of two of a kind people that "living in different places and dying in different points". Only after middle age did I realize that it is also a rare fate that two people can often eat at the same table. An ancient saying goes, "A hundred years' training is the same as those four years. Although Zhao Yingjun has always been caring and attentive to Liu Elegance, he has never thought of it. Liu Elegance is also very comfortable to receive the care of Zhao Yingjun. Boat crossing, a thousand years of * * * pillow sleep ",and the" eating at the same table "between him and her is at least the result of half a lifetime. Therefore, she cherishes this friend sitting opposite the table and the porridge is warm in the rice cooker. Remember to drink a bowl after reading the letter, and then go to sleep. I know that if you are willful, she will not call out my name. I smiled and nodded, suddenly speechless. Holding the tall man beside her, she didn't have any abnormality in my sudden appearance. Eating, unfortunately, can't make you good food. I'm sorry Before the meal, and with gratitude, drink a cup of coffee full of friendship.

the most beautiful distance