Do everything on your own.

There is a new media colleague who encountered great problems some time ago.

Her mother slipped in the shower and was taken to the hospital.

Just at this time, there are several topics at hand that need to be promoted at the same time, and it is urgent.

She said that it was really hard during that time, thinking about her mother and having a job in her mind. She can't be timid or frightened.

Running at two ends every day is so busy.

She also thought about asking her colleagues for help. As soon as she opened her mouth, she learned that her colleague was going on a business trip. At this time, she understood that everyone has their own work to do and their own lives to live.

No matter how hard it is, you can only rely on yourself.

Mother was lying in the ward after the operation. She turned on the computer to write a manuscript and looked up from time to time to see if an eye drop bottle should be changed.

When I met her, she was haggard and lost ten pounds.

But at that time, she survived all the difficulties.

Everyone will experience dark moments, when you will find that there is no one behind you.

There is such a question in The Ferry Man:

"If fate is a lonely river, who will be the ferryman of your soul?"

The answer is: myself.

The harder it is, the more you have to survive on your own.

02

Everyone must have met such a person in life:

Blame all the misfortunes in life on the family and complain that parents have not created good conditions for themselves.

Then I gave up on myself and muddled along, never thinking of changing my destiny on my own.

Some people were born in Rome, some people will never walk to Rome in cloth shoes, and some people were born without feet.

Fate is never fair, but no matter how low your starting point is, only you can pull you out of the abyss.

Xinhua News Agency once reported a disabled person named Lu Hong.

Lu Hong was born in an ordinary family. 10 months old suddenly had a high fever and was diagnosed as toxic encephalitis. Although he saved his life, he left a serious sequela-cerebellar command nerve disorder.

As an adult, Lu Hong still can't pronounce clearly and walk unsteadily.

Unforgettable for Lu Honghong is that his father was hospitalized and chose to give up treatment, leaving the money for treatment to his disabled son.

When his father died, he grabbed Lu Hong's hand and said, "Dad is leaving, and I can't help you anymore. I believe you can support yourself by yourself. "

Liu Hong doesn't want to disappoint his father. In order to survive, he ate everything, sold newspapers, opened a telephone supermarket and opened a record store. ...

Later, Lu Hong met a net friend in the later stage of TV production on the Internet, and learned from him how to edit videos and make electronic photo albums.

Later, by chance, Lu Hong met a retired professor who taught photography in a university.

The professor was moved by his story and taught him photography, so Lu Hong opened a photo studio.

To catch up with the rise of e-commerce, Lu Hong opened an online shop, which is responsible for making photo albums and albums.

From 20 15, a small workshop with only five or six people gradually grew into a professional production team.

So Lu Hong set up a processing factory, and now the orders are constantly flowing, and the income is over 10 million.

Now Lu Hong is an expensive boss. Of the 42 employees in his factory, 24 are disabled.

God gave Lu Hong a bad hand, but he changed his life himself.

There is a good saying:

"In the seemingly unbreakable net of fate, there are always fish that are unwilling to be mediocre."

Don't complain about fate, it's useless to complain.

Only by gritting your teeth can you become a fish trapped in any abyss.

03

Being born in an ordinary family is a high probability event.

It is the fate of most of us to have no background and a low starting point.

But in the end, what kind of life we can live and what kind of height we stand on depends entirely on ourselves.

One of my female classmates, with a very ordinary family background, joined a state-owned enterprise as a clerk after graduation.

The work of state-owned enterprises is very stable. She has been working for two years.

I couldn't see the hope of life, so I gave up my job in a stable state-owned enterprise with low income and switched to sales.

Entering a new industry is like a blank sheet of paper. Without experience and advantages, you have to work hard.

When there were no clients at first, she kept calling for clients.

I work more than ten hours a day and make hundreds of phone calls just to find two or three target customers from these hundreds of people.

After coming home from work, I continued to recite products and words in the rented room.

Colleagues laughed at her stupidity and said that she would not work hard for such a small salary.

Only she knows, the only thing she can rely on is herself.

Many things happen. When she joined the company in the second month, she got a salary of 8,000 yuan, which is twice the civilian salary of state-owned enterprises.

After the probation period turns positive, she can go into battle in person, communicate and cooperate directly with customers, and no one needs to take care of her.

A year later, the monthly income rose to more than 20 thousand.

At the age of 28, she paid the down payment and bought a house by her own efforts.

Actually, so am i. My parents are farmers, and I have no education or background.

After graduation, I bought a house in the city and settled down without asking for a penny from my family.

People with ordinary backgrounds like us, since they can't spell their parents, can only spell themselves.

Yu wrote in "Lend me my life":

"The road of life depends on your own step by step. What can really protect you is your own life choice. "

Children who have no backers should make their own backers;

Children with no background want the scenery of live high.

Step by step, bite by bite, cramp and skinned to be reborn.

04

In ancient Greek mythology, there was a kind of "Sphinx" monster called Sphinx.

It squatted at the gate and gave passers-by a question:

"What walks on four legs in the morning, two legs at noon and three legs at night?"

The answer is-people.

From infancy to adulthood and then to old age, this riddle tells a person's life.

A person's life is a process from crawling to supporting himself.

If you don't come from a rich or expensive family, you can change your destiny and live gracefully by yourself.

If you are not satisfied with your work, upgrade your skills and strive to enter a better track;

If you are at a low point, don't expect anyone, let alone complain. With your wisdom and sweat, you can get the richness and taste of life. ...

Life is a lonely journey, and no one can walk for you.

From today on, listen to me and do everything on your own.