Being cheeky is an ability, and being shameless is a shameless incompetence.

I remember a saying, "The world was born after 80s and 90s, but in the final analysis, it is thick-skinned."

Recently, I heard from my childhood that he had caught up with the class flower in his former college class and was going to get married. How to describe little A? This man looks ordinary and comes from an ordinary family, but he is thicker-skinned than others. Knowing this, the students sighed in succession: Alas, these days, people with thick skin have high ability! .

After living for more than 20 years, Lao Mai always feels that his life is poor. Is your face too thin?

My own understanding of cheekiness is to be humble to others and save face for myself. And some people's understanding becomes shameless. As long as you don't refuse, they can really have the cheek to harm the interests of others for their own selfish desires.

The difference between the two is that you are cheeky and ethical, but shameless and have no bottom line, just like paparazzi.

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I have heard many cases of women losing their families, and it is the first time for men to lose their families.

Sister C's boyfriend is unemployed and usually lives on a credit card. He said he would pay her back when he found a job and made money. We seem to have heard a lot about this stalk: wait for me XXX, XXX.

Sister c's family is relatively good. She opened a shop outside and earned a good income. Once, the male ticket went to a bar to drink. She brushed Sister C 5000 yuan and questioned the male ticket afterwards. Instead, he said angrily, if I hadn't brushed you 5000 yuan, it wouldn't be worth buying a LV.

Lie in the trough! ! ! As a man, you can say such a thing. You can spend your own money how you like. No one will stop you. You spend other people's money. Such a person can only live half an episode of a TV series, which is so fucking shameless that there is no bottom line.

Finally, Sister C broke up. At the age of 30, he lost his youth to love rat.

People are shameless when they reach a certain level. Like love rat, they will use your feelings for him to refresh your bottom line again and again. You argue with him about morality, but you are even worse than fart, and finally you are ashamed.

Whether it's love or friendship, don't be soft-hearted when slapping. Tear it bravely when it's time to tear it. To be soft on Ta is to be cruel to yourself. Don't let your kindness become a good card and break your heart.

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Lao Mai has done some photography before, set up a studio and often takes some photos of himself in a circle of friends. As a result, friend A said: Brother Mai, help me shoot a product. Recently, Taobao is in a hurry to get new products. Friend B said: Wheat, go to the mangrove forest to take some photos for me at the weekend. Friend C: Brother Mai, help me fix a picture. The company is in urgent need.

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Every time this happens, my heart is always full of Ma Benteng, yes, grass mud horse. They always think that taking pictures is very simple, and pressing the shutter to retouch pictures is just using ps. I just want to tell TAs that I have been studying photography for at least 2 years, and I use not only ps, but also CR, LR…

I used to help, but later I refused. As a result, the TAs were very unhappy and said: When you are a friend and trust you, you will be asked for help. It's mean of you to ask me to give you so much money.

You may not respect me, but please respect my major. I make a request to help me plan a copywriting activity. Aren't you a copywriter dog? Is it okay?

I lost a few friends for this, but it doesn't matter. Telling the truth, people who are embarrassed to embarrass others are not necessarily good people.

There are too many similar things in your life. You think of others and work hard for them, but you don't get any gratitude from them. But he thinks you are honest and kind, and he thinks he can push his luck; If you give him face, he can really be shameless.

Thick-skinned is an ability, kindness is a choice, and shameless is a shameless incompetence.