Xuzhou photography birthday

A boy in Xuzhou has a birthday. Originally, he and his mother had decided to put Pikachu on the birthday of the cake, but at the birthday party, he found that the cake was not Pikachu, but a textbook picture. He leaned back in his chair sadly and began to cry. Mom said that because the final exam is coming soon, I hope my children can study more at this critical period.

There are two main reasons why the boy reacted so violently:

1, the mother's promise is not fulfilled, and the child is not respected. The boy likes Pikachu, so his mother promised him to put Pikachu on the cake, so the child was full of expectations until the birthday party. Who knows that when he saw that the textbook picture on the birthday cake was not Pikachu, he was very depressed. He felt that his parents could make their own decisions and didn't respect his opinions at all. He couldn't hold back his inner sadness any longer, so he cried.

2. The psychological pressure brought by textbooks is too great. Nowadays, children's textbooks are difficult to understand, and the exam questions are numerous and profound, which makes them difficult to understand, and the academic pressure is increasing, so he wants to relax on his birthday and let himself forget the academic pain for the time being. Who knows that his mother showed him so many textbook-style pictures on such a happy and relaxed day, and his long-suppressed emotions suddenly broke out, and he leaned back in this chair and burst into tears.

This incident gives parents two inspirations:

1. Parents should set an example of honesty and trustworthiness for their children. Many parents think that they are adults and their children should listen to themselves, so they don't obey the rules at all, but they ask their children to be honest and trustworthy, otherwise they will start verbally abusing their children. These are all wrong practices. Just like the mother in this case, she should dress her children in Pikachu according to the original agreement and make them happy on this happy day.

2. Don't put too much academic pressure on children. Parents always want their children to succeed and don't want them to lose at the starting line. Therefore, in addition to the academic pressure given by the school, parents will also give more academic burden to their children who return to China, which is also an important reason for their poor psychological endurance and extreme behavior. Therefore, parents should pay more attention to their children's personal life and emotions and bring less academic burden to their children.