There are thousands of roads in the world, why choose the difficult one?

Mr. Lu Xun said: The struggle of you young people is based on the inevitable arrival of "light";

But I have no hope for the future. "Darkness" is just causing trouble.

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In the Analects of Confucius, Confucius said, "Knowing that you can't do something, do it yet." Some people think this is persistence, and some people think it is a kind of stupidity.

Falling in love with someone who doesn’t love you, knowing that there will be no results but persisting stupidly, some people think you are stupid and unworthy, while others are moved by your true feelings, the story is written and conveyed, Become what others call infatuation.

An artist devotes himself to a favorite pursuit, but makes life difficult for himself and his family. You say this is art and it is great, but your family must bear this tenacity. Is it right or wrong? You also said that without these persistence, there would be no inheritance of art.

So how to distinguish right from wrong.

In fact, many things cannot be judged by whether they are correct or not. Choosing which way to go is an attitude and a position, and the position is related to faith.

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Everyone thinks that the road they are taking is the most difficult, and they all envy other people’s lives. This is a false proposition.

I envy those people who are good at taking photos. I feel that just by taking a random photo, they add the bonus of beautiful pixel photos to their circle of friends, and their style immediately rises to several levels. So for a time everyone thought that having a photographer husband was a very happy thing.

But one day, Dabai came home from filming for 12 hours a day and told me that he couldn’t lift his arms and his waist began to ache. He didn’t eat dinner, and he had to be reminded to take pictures when he got home. Sometimes he even got The rewards are far lower than his efforts. What he is waiting for is to be recognized by the public one day. He is very sad in his heart. This road is difficult and full of competition.

I envy the sales managers in our company who make tens of millions in sales a month. Some of them are well-dressed and can see the good news announced within the company every day. They have contracts one after another, one after another in a year. She can arrange several long-distance trips for herself, and her colleagues are envious of her. Calculated, the interest earned from financial management in a year is higher than her monthly salary.

But one day when I got home from work very late, I saw that excellent person still in front of the computer sorting out financial news, updating her customer information, printing relevant product information, and sending it to the corresponding people, every month Under the pressure of huge performance and busy with her small business all the time, you will sigh, yes, she deserves it!

I have been doing marketing planning for so many years, and I often think about why not open an advertising company myself. I have creativity and resources, so why not? Until you actually participate in the execution, you will find that the construction is done in the middle of the night, and design inspiration often bursts out in the middle of the night. You can't change a plan after bidding, and you can't change it again. Contacting different suppliers takes the risk of various unexpected situations that may occur on-site. The money earned from staying up all night may be deducted by Party A the next day.

In fact, what we envy are industries we don’t understand and positions you can’t do.

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In the past, we have done some interesting and different activities for everyone. We have been readers and we have done concerts, which have been well received and collected. Got some great advice.

Others often see the circle of friends and say, wow, your life is so exciting! Wow, it feels like you know so many people! Wow, you have such an attitude!

Frankly speaking, there are aspects of pride and vanity, but it is also a requirement and pressure on myself to be better. This pressure seems to push myself to keep moving forward, to be more creative, and to make more breakthroughs. . Although others may not see the effort and pain you put in behind it.

For example, we have recently prepared a "Slash Star Life Festival". This product was conceived years ago. At the beginning, we hoped to gather some interesting and skilled people and connect more people through them. Interesting things. The word slash youth represents that you have multiple identities, and it is also a label that modern people can use to improve their recognition.

The fantasy was wonderful at first, but in the actual design process, I still encountered many difficulties.

What kind of people are invited, what content is unique, and what kind of crowd we want to attract. There are so many events now. Why should others choose you? How to control the flow of people, including where the venue is and how to hire guests are all difficult.

I still clearly remember the despair of having to scrap my plan and start over again last week. I pulled my colleague and said, let’s go buy a cup to calm down the panic. I dreamed about it at night, so much so that my aunt put it off for several days.

At this time, people still become less confident, and I still doubt myself.

Did I make the wrong choice?

Why should we engage in such an event when we can obviously sponsor a ready-made event and do business casually.

Why choose the difficult path instead of taking the easy path?

I just vaguely felt a voice in my heart saying: Don’t quit.

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The master said that people have an instinct that when they are in pain, the body will unconsciously maintain the least painful posture. Then most history repeats itself because people unconsciously choose the easy choice.

It goes against nature to choose the hard road, because unless you are content to just go with the flow, the only way to go is the hard road.

Taking a difficult road at least shows that you still have something you want to do, doesn’t it?

When I worked hard for 24 hours and the plan made a breakthrough, I cherished the inspiration and excitement that burst out in my mind, and the happiness at that moment. When others feel happy because of your activities and gain something from it, a sense of accomplishment will arise spontaneously. It has nothing to do with success or failure. It is an attitude and belief, and all the pain in the past will be relieved. .

When one day my eyes become dim and my teeth become bald, I will still feel lucky.

At that time, can we be proud to say that I tried and never gave up. We used to be cool too.

Garcia Márquez said: Life is not the days we live, but the days we remember. Days we relive in our memories for the sake of telling them.

When you encounter those things that crush you, remember to pick them up and put them in your heart, and re-establish your own system. All of this, overcoming the difficult road, is growth.

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Since there is light in my heart.

Then go try it.

Thank you all for your continued support, and I hope you will continue to give us more advice in the future.