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What if my son always plays with his mobile phone when he comes home and ignores his parents?

I believe many parents will have the same worry. Children are always addicted to mobile phones. How should parents intervene and guide them? As parents, we should try our best to help our children enter the real world, let them gain life experience that they don't have in class or on mobile phones, absorb knowledge and skills that they don't have in mobile phones, stimulate their thoughts and feelings, immerse them in activities and develop good behavior habits.

First, give children time and guide them to be masters of life and study.

Guide children to learn to arrange their own lives and participate in housework. Make your own holiday activities such as weekends, winter and summer vacations, plan your own time, and master your own diet, schedule, study time and entertainment time.

Parents should let their children develop the ability to live independently, and their independent consciousness will gradually develop fully, reach the level of independent life, learn to evaluate themselves, overcome difficulties and make continuous progress. Let mobile phone time be only a small part of a day's life, and live a full and happy life every day.

Second, encourage children to exercise more.

Exercise produces dopamine, which can improve people's interest in happiness and help children's physical and mental health development. According to children's age and physical condition, choose daily exercise items, and persistently develop exercise habits, such as swimming, running, race walking, mountain climbing and ball games.

Encourage children to watch more sports games, develop exercise habits and persevere.

Third, encourage children to read widely.

Master the reading method and choose the magazine that suits you. Guide them to read aloud, silently and browse, and learn the skills of completing holiday homework independently on the basis of textbooks.

Develop the habit of reading and keeping a diary every day, record what you think every day in the form of a diary, and reflect on your gains and losses of the day.

Fourth, encourage children to get in touch with nature.

Go to nature to play and study. When children have a holiday, parents take time out to play in the natural environment and enjoy the natural scenery.

Learn everything on the earth, fishing, catching insects, collecting samples, learning photography and so on. Especially learn to observe and think, ask all kinds of questions, and gradually exercise your keen mind to observe and think about nature.

5. Parents lead by example.

Don't think I'm a parent, just like me! Parents should not play mobile phones often in front of their children. Many habits of children are learned from their parents. If children are not allowed to play, and you enjoy playing there, will children feel that "only state officials are allowed to set fires, and people are not allowed to light lamps"?

Therefore, as parents, we should set an example, buy some books we love to read and read them with our children!