The great rule of dating men.

One of the rules: My friends are all over the world. Our question: under what circumstances do you usually meet women? 57% were introduced by friends, 3 1% were in bars or parties, and 12% were at work. They said, "I like to know the opposite sex through friends. I feel very safe. " David, 27, who works in the securities department, said. But if you are tired of the old-fashioned way of introducing friends, don't forget that bars or parties are also good places. David said, "I don't mind making friends elsewhere." You can't say anything on a date. Rule 2: Your appreciation is the question that he will always love us: What does a woman say that attracts you most? 5 1% "Your eyes are really beautiful" and 33% "How about I buy you a drink?" 16% "Have we met somewhere?" They said, "Sincere praise can increase my confidence and relax me." 26-year-old lawyer Han Jin said. A woman's praise for a man implies that she is cute, interesting and approachable. Rule 3: Clever sexy hints are very effective. Our question: What is your most satisfying part about today's date? 59% of women are sexier than before, 27% of men can open more hearts to women, and 65,438+04% of women are more responsible for money than before. They said, "Once a woman shows her sexy side, everything becomes great." Cheng Tao, a 26-year-old law student said. Peter, a 28-year-old real estate developer, added: "I like confident women to show her femininity. I am fascinated by those little tricks that inadvertently fiddle with my hair or change my legs. " Rule 4: Small faults are sometimes cute. Our problem: A girl you just met called you mindlessly. Honestly, you think she's ... 98% cute. Obviously, she is a little nervous. I'm flattered. 2% is terrible. She sounds insane. They said: it's no big deal to show clumsiness, and sometimes it's even charming. You must send out emotional signals continuously but irregularly. Men always care whether girls pay attention to him or not. But if he is indifferent to your signal, don't call him again, because calling him again is beyond the boundaries of cuteness. Men must read: dating skills of new good men must read: we only date such men. Rule 5: Don't hesitate to ask him out. Our question: How do you feel when you just talked to her on the phone and she asked you out? 5 1% is usually not the case, but if it is really good, 49% I like it, my pressure will be much less, and 0% I don't like it at all, and I will be scared away. What's the last thing you like to hear on a date? They said, "I don't know if she likes me or not, until one day she called me and asked me to have dinner." 29-year-old painter Wang Youbin said. "I'm glad she did ― I'm crazy about her. I never thought I'd get this chance." Rule 6: "I am busy" = I am not interested in you. Our problem: she is crazy about you, but you are not cold at all. What do you think is the best way to refuse? 49% I told her that I was busy recently, 46% I didn't call her back for a few days, and 5% I only dated her on Sunday nights. They said, "If I'm not interested in a girl, I'd rather send her an email than call her." The 27-year-old private owner said. Rank, a 33-year-old teacher, added: "Reducing contact is the best hint. It only takes a few minutes to make a phone call. If a man likes a woman, no matter how busy he is, he will take time to accompany her. Rule 7: Food+movies are the first choice. Our question: What program do you choose for the first date? 72%*** have dinner, then watch movies, 27% go hiking or do sports, 1% listen to poetry reading. They said, "Dinner and movies are the best choices. "Wei Zi, a 25-year-old engineer, said," If you feel good when eating, and there is no awkward silence, a dim cinema is a good place to enhance your feelings. If you are uncomfortable while eating, the cinema can let everyone relax. But if you go hiking or exercising, you can't escape if you want to. Rule 8: arouse his interest. Our question: What is the best help for a first date? 7 1% chatted happily, with laughter and no awkward silence, 18% sexy body, 1 1% her clothes and makeup showed that she had made careful preparations for the date. How to order when dating a man? They said, "Every man dreams of finding a woman to talk to, so it is very important to have a good chat. "Paul, a 22-year-old musician, said," If the other person can ask some interesting questions and tell some small jokes, I will be satisfied with talking and laughing all the time. "Rule 9: Never be Sister Xianglin. Our question: What do you dislike the most about the first date? 55% kept talking about herself and her problems, 26% kept asking questions about my family, income, past girlfriends, etc. 19% She was drunk. They said, "I hate it when a first date turns into a complaining meeting. "Jenny, a 28-year-old editor, said," Before talking about heavy topics, I'd rather know her basic situation-her work, her views on life and so on. "Don't be too curious about him." Asking questions all the time makes me feel like I'm being interrogated. "Qi Teng, a 32-year-old designer, said," Real dialogue is the best. Rule 10: let him pay the bill. Our question: Did you pay for the first date? 79% did, 2 1% did, unless she asked to go Dutch, and 0% didn't, hoping that she would pay her share. They said: "It's a good thing that women are willing to pay the bill, but I hope I can pay the bill like a traditional man and let her know that I treat her not only as a partner, but also as special." The 26-year-old photographer Gerry explained. Why should chivalry disappear? Although the society is constantly developing and changing, men still want to keep their traditional image and be protectors. Rule 1 1: Tell him you are ready. Our question: If you have a chance to change one thing before your date tonight, you want it to be ... 78% confused. I don't know if she wants me to take further action. 16% pressure. I'm worried about whether we are in tune. 6% is too expensive. It is always men who pay the bill. They said, "I hope girls can hint when it is most appropriate to act." Philip, 24, said. The hints a man wants you to make include touching his arm during conversation and smiling at him during eye contact. If a woman gives me a sweet smile at the end of a date, I think she has sent me a signal: I want to have further contact. "Feng Qing said. Rule 12: Prejudice Our question: How about women taking the initiative? 68% we will accompany you, 30% is good, as long as I don't think she is too domineering, 2% I still like men to take the initiative. They said, "since I have no idea about a woman's sexy signals, it will be very helpful for her to take the initiative." 22-year-old accountant Yi Xue said frankly. How can you get rid of high heels without making him think you are forcing him? "Give me a signal that she wants more than just chatting. "Rule 13: Establish your own sex steps Our question: If a woman wants to fall in love with you seriously, how long should you prepare? 58%. What does it matter? If we really get along, the intimate contact on the first date will not reduce my respect for her. 2 1% I think three dates are better, and 2 1% is more than six dates. They said, "If we get along well, I don't want to contradict her opinion." Wen Rui, a 28-year-old banker said. A few people think that a good girl has to date at least three times before she can make out with a man. "If she wants to go to a hotel on the first date, I will be scared away. Peng Yingjie, a 23-year-old musician, said. Rule 14: there is no harm in blowing pillow breeze. Our question: What do you think if she swears in bed? 66% The more she talks, the happier I am. 26% is nothing. As long as I talk first, I won't have a heart attack when she talks. 8% will embarrass us both. They said: "men will relax when they hear these words, which has no special significance." "When is the best time?" If we hadn't been together twice, she would have said these words to me, and I would definitely abstain. Mida, a 28-year-old musician, said. Rule 15: Keep personal files in order. Our question: Do you think how many lovers she has had before is not outrageous? 62%1~ 5,29% 5 ~10,9%1/above. They said, "If a woman has had too much experience, it will make me feel nothing special-I wonder if they are better than me." The 27-year-old painter Gino said. Some men do not want women to have too many boyfriends. So if you have more than five boyfriends, don't say anything when he asks you, just smile slyly.