What does it feel like for a husband and wife to treat each other as guests?

After being together for a long time, the passion fades away, and the husband and wife become brothers. Holding hands is like a left hand holding a right hand, and there is no more heartbeat. Today I will give you three tips to keep your relationship fresh and rekindle your passion for each other. There must be a sense of ritual in life.

The most important manifestation is various important days, such as Valentine's Day, wedding anniversaries, birthdays, etc. On this day, you should give surprise and romance to your partner. Don't use being an old married couple as an excuse. The other person's identity is always your lover. The two of you were together because of love in the first place. So on this special day, there must be something that makes the other person happy. Even if it’s wild flowers picked by the roadside, a 520 red envelope, or two love movie tickets, these don’t cost much, but they can tell your lover directly and passionately that I love you. ***With the same goal, we can look forward to the future.

In life, you must have a goal. Husband and wife are one body, so they must have the same goals and ideals, such as traveling at the end of the year, changing a car next year, and saving X million yuan. These are all very positive motivations. For example, my husband and I love saving money. Often in the dead of night, the two of us would hide under the covers and take stock of our small possessions with a calculator. Looking at the numbers above, his eyebrows curled up with a smile. At this time, each other is like comrades fighting side by side, and their relationship is particularly reliable and trusting. Record every bit of life.

I work in the photography industry, so I like to take pictures. I often take pictures of my happiness with my husband with my camera. The same cup of milk tea I drank while shopping, the couple's slippers I just bought, and the Internet celebrity store where I checked in when traveling. In my camera, he is the only male protagonist. After a while, I will print out these photos and organize them into a book. I can look through them with my lover when I have nothing to do, recall the interesting things at that time, complain to each other, and then look at each other affectionately. At that moment, each other can feel the importance of the other to them.

It is easy to fall in love, but difficult to stay together. If you want a long-lasting and sweet love, you must put some thought into managing it well. I hope you can grow old together with the one you love and have deep love as husband and wife.