The funeral process of Shanghainese

With the post-80s entering middle age, most of them are small family structures. When relatives and friends die, maybe the old people at home are not interested in dealing with white things and death. Here in Shanghai, how to deal with the aftermath quickly, simply and conveniently, and sort out the main processes and elements.

The one-stop service is also in line with the internet-based handling of such incidents in the future, for reference only.

"advance notice"

First, make a proof.

When a family member dies, all the prerequisites are to issue a "death certificate". According to the location of his death, the treatment location and process are slightly different.

1, died at home. There are two ways to apply for a "death certificate"

1) Go to the neighborhood committee where you live and issue the death certificate of the residents at home.

2) The medical staff who call 120 and 120 will issue a death notice after the rescue.

1) and 2), and then go to the nearest community health center or medical hospital, and ask the doctor to issue an inference of the death of the residents.

2. Died in a hospital or nursing home. The resident's death inference is written by a doctor in a hospital or nursing home.

Tips: I got the inference of residents' death and made 5 copies.

Second, if you need to spend the night at home, you need to prepare the following items.

1. Dress for the deceased: Let the deceased walk the last journey cleanly.

2. Decorate the mourning hall: three feet of white cloth, incense, fruit, cakes and flowers.

Third, contact the funeral etiquette company.

1, you can consult your experienced elders and ask them to recommend you.

2, review the search through train, it is recommended to choose a etiquette company near the funeral home or near home.

It is recommended to choose a one-stop train because it is convenient. . . Of course, from the perspective of cost, it is also excellent to be able to organize your own funeral.

Lazy to choose dragons, get the "Resident Death Inference Book", synchronize the number of death certificates, and the etiquette company will arrange funeral homes to invite the deceased.

3. To choose a one-stop train, you only need to have a brief understanding of the process, service items and funeral commodities involved in the funeral ceremony.

The preparation list is as follows:

1) To participate in the gift list, you need to confirm the relationship with the deceased and the correct spelling of the name.

2) Confirm the time and quantity of gifts, which is related to the size of the auditorium.

3) Tie a flower basket, and prioritize: ordinary immediate family members or important relationships, big flower baskets; Small and medium-sized flower baskets and other collateral in-laws

Other relationships can be tied together.

4) The number of replies is generally calculated according to the head count, and there may be a slight difference between those who participated in the gift giving and those who did not.

5) Eulogy or thank you. If there is a company leader present, the leader will read a eulogy, and relatives will generally read a thank-you speech.

Fourth, negotiate with the etiquette company about the configuration specifications and materials of the gifts needed for the funeral.

Basically, the one-stop company will lead you to confirm every configuration or material according to the process. If you have completed the third preparation above, you only need to reply step by step and choose the goods or services with appropriate prices according to the funeral budget.

1, book gifts for your funeral home, including body preservation, makeup, ceremony hall layout, funeral banquet, etc.

2. Prepare funeral supplies of your choice, including filial piety cloth, black gauze, shroud, birthday quilt, four small pieces, mingbi, various scriptures, daily preferences, paper version of RV appliances, urn and gifts.

Verb (abbreviation for verb) holds a farewell ceremony.

Choose one-stop service, and the staff of the big gift (farewell ceremony) will also give guidance in every link of etiquette.

And arrange to store the cremated ashes: collect the ashes, the Certificate of Ashes Storage and the cremation certificate.

Six, buy a cemetery, burial:

It is said that the cemetery can only be bought after cremation, because there are already old people at home, and burial can be arranged as long as it is Qingming or winter solstice (according to local customs).

Seven, about the tradition of doing seven.

It is said that there are many practices now, such as breaking it seven years ago in the lunar calendar; There is also a quick rest on a Monday. It also reflects the busyness of modern people.

"conclusion"

The advantage of choosing one-stop service is that this etiquette company will also provide the community with synchronous operation progress, clear division of labor for everyone, on-site photography, remote ceremony for relatives who can't attend, one-month ashes storage and irregular Buddhist ceremony service.