The three best states of life: unexpected encounter, self-evident, and healing without medicine

There will always be dissatisfaction of one kind or another in life. We are always growing up, but at the same time we are constantly losing. There should be few people on this train of life who will accompany us from the first stop. Walking to the last stop, many people always come and go in a hurry in our lives. You meet in a clear and windy afternoon. Suddenly one day without any warning, you will meet again at dusk. Leaving in the evening, life may be full of partings and less of reunions, but you have to believe that there are also happy moments hidden behind imperfect life. I hope we can take these three states below and tell them in the darkest moments of life. There is still light in your life, there is still hope in life.

Talking about an unexpected encounter

An unexpected encounter should be the highest configuration in love and friendship. You are searching half the world for nothing more than wanting to Find a lover who can place your love on you, and have a like-minded friend. Maybe this person is hiding next to you, and you will meet him/her by chance at a moment when you look back. Ah, at that moment it is like two chemical substances interacting. A violent reaction, it turns out that this is the feeling of mutual attraction. The person in front of you will make you feel that life is worth it.

Mr. Qi and Miss Y fall into this category. Both of them have good educational and family backgrounds, but they have not been going very smoothly in love. The two met at the airport. They were going to the same city, Lijiang. Perhaps it was because the two of them had so many similar topics in many aspects. During the next week of travel, both of them quietly changed their itineraries for each other. Mr. Seven's favorite pub is actually the place where Miss Y must go every time. The boss knows both of them well, but this time he saw two people appearing at the same time. Mr. Seven can play guitar, Miss Y likes folk music, and he likes Japanese literature, she loves Haruki Murakami's articles. One likes traveling, and the other likes photography. You see, there is always someone who will cross the vast sea of ????people and give you a big hug, or when you feel depressed, there is someone who can help you. You light up a lamp in the darkness and light your way forward.

Having a few old friends who are self-evident

Only when you grow up do you realize that no matter how much you say something, it will still mean nothing to the other party, while some words Even if you say nothing to a person, he or she can understand the sadness behind your smile. Xu Zhimo said: Understanding is more important than love, and understanding is the gentlest confession in the world. You don't say anything, I know everything you want to say.

There was a period of time when work was particularly hard. The boss added a lot of extra work for no reason and had to work overtime until late at night every day. My father happened to break his ankle while riding a bicycle at this time, and my grandmother also moved in because of her old age. Hospital, I often run back and forth between two hospitals and units, which makes me exhausted. I will shed tears on the last subway late at night. Fortunately, my friend Lily is here. She is a quiet person when I complain on the phone. A listener, at midnight when I was crying, she was like a calm wise person. She was not impatient and used gentle words to temporarily rescue me from the abyss of misery. She did not tell me the truth of life, but spoke calmly. Tell me in any way, I understand, don’t be afraid, I will accompany you.

The ultimate struggle in life is: a strong body

The body is the capital of revolution. Don’t indulge your desires when you are saving energy. You must know that the night you stay up will not A moderate lifestyle is overdrafting your health in advance. Health at the age of 18 and 20 means you can squander your youth wantonly. Disease seems to be thousands of miles away from you. Getting sick is someone else’s business. But after the age of 35, you can suddenly You understand, health is like a savings account. Your usual exercise, regular work and rest, and good attitude are all deposits into this account, and those that are contrary to it are all subtractions from this account.

It is impossible for a person not to get sick in his life, but he can recover from minor illnesses on his own. If he has a serious illness, he does not need to go to the hospital for testing. Being able to recover by taking some medicine is the greatest happiness. Guo Degang once asked in a cross talk: a What are famous painters fighting for? Another person said: Who is fighting for fame? Guo Degang said: Who is fighting for longevity? Although it is a joke, it is an indisputable fact. Without the body, there will be no one. everything.

May we have an unexpected love in our lives, a friend who understands you instantly without too many words, and a body that can withstand the wind and rain.