When you are not strong enough, there will always be a lot of bad people around you.

In the decades of life, ups and downs are normal things. Wealth in the mountains and distant relatives, poverty in the city and no one cares about it.

I listened to it early when I was very young. However, only those who have truly experienced downfall and hit rock bottom can appreciate the warmth and warmth of human relationships.

I saw an interview video of Huang Jingyu a few days ago. In the video, Huang Jingyu talked about his experience of being quiet for a while after becoming famous.

He said that when he becomes popular, many people will suddenly come to you and be friends with you. Post a post in Moments and there will always be many comments and likes.

But after the silence, some people stopped replying to your messages, some started to ignore you, and some started to stay away from you automatically.

When mentioning this past incident, Huang Jingyu not only shed tears on the spot, but also felt sad.

But in fact, all walks of life are similar. Rather than saying that "the world is in trouble," it is better to say that this is the nature and cruel reality of adults seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages.

The older you get, the more you understand that adult social interaction has its own hidden rules. Only by mastering the rules can you be at ease.

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Regardless of whether Huang Jingyu is like this alone, when you are weak and worthless, there are many bad people and villains around you. In fact, many people have them too.

I watched an episode of "Thirteen Invitations" a few days ago. Xu Zhiyuan went to the set to interview Wang Baoqiang. Wang Baoqiang was directing his new play, and Xu Zhiyuan took the opportunity to guest star as an extra.

After one day of filming, Xu Zhiyuan lamented the hard work of the extras. They spent most of the day waiting and repeating.

Wang Bao emphasized that he was the "King of Trickery", and that was how he stepped out of the trivial role step by step.

Because of his body shape and appearance, someone told him bluntly: You can't make a movie at all. You have no innate conditions, no talent, and no professional training. Your appearance is also a flaw.

When he was an extra, he had "limited acting opportunities" and he was not used in many scenes. He was only used in big scenes with hundreds or thousands of people.

Others earn 20 yuan a day, but he can only get 15 yuan. Being laughed at and ridiculed is normal.

Faced with the attack, Wang Baoqiang said that he could understand it, because at that time, there was nothing outstanding about him that could lead to success.

Wang Baoqiang, who seems honest and dull, actually lives a very transparent life. He said to Xu Zhiyuan: "Do you think they are wrong? They are not wrong either. They are just very practical."

Everyone knows the subsequent story. Wang Baoqiang relied on his super determination and perseverance to become a first-line actor with a box office of tens of billions, and created classic roles one after another.

Nowadays, he no longer has to be yelled at by others. No one dares to laugh at him in person. Good scripts and good resources come to him proactively.

All these changes come from the transformation of one's own strength.

Ji Xianlin, a master of traditional Chinese culture, once said: "Bad people will always exist, and there can be no large-scale fairness in society.

Show off your muscles and ensure the peace of your own small world. It can be done."

Yes, when you are weak, the world is dark and cruel. Instead of having time to complain about the unfairness of the world, it is better to recognize your reality like Wang Baoqiang and strive to grow stronger.

Because only when you become strong will the world be kind to you; and when you are at your weakest, you will have the most bullies and you will be most easily wronged. ”

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In the popular TV series "Only Thirty", the woman who impressed everyone the most is none other than Gu Jia; he is beautiful, extremely capable, and stays at home for his family. Although she was raising a child, she was never out of touch with society.

But in order to survive, she had to bow down to others and struggle to squeeze into the circle of rich wives that was not suitable for her. Originally, she thought,

As long as you put in the effort, you will be rewarded. Unexpectedly, one of the rich ladies set up a trap to get money out of you.

Too many people feel sorry for Gu Jia, including me. But think about it. Think about it, isn’t the plot of the TV series alluding to reality?

No matter what industry, the people at the bottom are always the most exploited and the most angry.

This society is too realistic for you. Without a high status and a sufficient financial foundation, you will only be trampled and marginalized by others.

When you are not strong enough, you will be surrounded by bad people, bad things, and endless troubles. < /p>

The way society is now, if you don’t have enough voice, you will not be treated equally by others, let alone find your own fairness.

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< p> Fairness in the world is never given to the weak. Only through continuous efforts and continuous improvement year after year can we get the fairness we deserve.

Because of "weakness", Gu Jia's. The ability to counterattack is limited, and there is no cost or hidden danger, so why not do it?

Isn’t it heartbreaking?

Not because of “weakness”? Stories of being treated well don’t just exist in movies and TV shows, they can be found everywhere in reality.

For example, Huang Lei, when he was a newbie in the industry, he didn’t even have a name. At the shooting scene, the photographer only called him by his character: "That prostitute, go this way."

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For example, Yue Yunpeng, when he was a hotel waiter, was insulted by a customer on the spot because he miscalculated the price of two bottles of beer.

Writer Guo Jingming once summed up the operating rules of all things in a simple and crude sentence. He said: "What kind of goods we have depends on how the world treats us."

This sentence The meaning is that the level of personal value and ability determines the way others treat us.

The weaker we are, the darker the world becomes for us.

So: Only when a person becomes stronger can he have the right to choose, the qualification to be taken seriously, and the most powerful and authoritative counterattack.

Otherwise, no matter where you escape, you will find that there are many bad people there.

When many people encounter unfair treatment in society, they always complain that people's hearts are too bad and the society is too dark. In fact, it is not that the society is too dark, but that you are not strong enough to get what you deserve.

Too many people bully the weak and fear the strong. If they see you weak, they will trample on you unscrupulously.

Only by strengthening your own strength can you get the respect you want.

Even if you are weak now, don't feel sorry for yourself. Instead, accumulate strength and make yourself stronger through unremitting efforts.

The world will be friendly to you only when you are not a soft persimmon who can be manipulated by others and stand in front of everyone.

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