What should I pay attention to when toasting at a wedding banquet?

What should I pay attention to when toasting at a wedding banquet?

What should I pay attention to when toasting at a wedding banquet? Marriage is a major event in life between husband and wife, and basic etiquette should not be sloppy. The so-called no wine, no table, the toast in the wedding banquet is particularly important. But many people are married for the first time. I don't know what to pay attention to when toasting at the wedding banquet. Let me tell you something.

What should I pay attention to when toasting at a wedding banquet? 1 styling and makeup.

1, the makeup should be light but not strong.

Toast is a table-by-table chat with guests. If the makeup is too thick, there will be a strong sense of "mask" in such close contact. And many elders will think that heavy makeup looks inappropriate.

It is recommended that the bride choose light makeup and lipstick with color, which is clean and temperament; The groom also dressed up a little and adjusted his dress and hairstyle.

2. Don't wear a skirt that is too long and loose.

Sister Xixi saw a bride posting at the wedding before, saying that she chose a long skirt to mop the floor as a toast. As a result, I accidentally stepped on my skirt during the toast and almost fell down. Fortunately, her husband gave her a hand, which was embarrassing.

When choosing a toast dress, don't choose a dress that is too long (mopping the floor), and don't choose a dress that is too fluffy (such as a wedding dress) and a tube top style.

Keep walking during the toast. The bride is wearing high heels. If the skirt is too long, it is very easy to be trampled.

And even if you don't step on it yourself, the groom's elders next to you will inevitably not step on it, and they are likely to fall or even walk away.

In addition, fluffy dresses are not convenient to walk around. In particular, some wedding tables are arranged compactly, and it is also very troublesome to shuttle between different tables.

It is best to choose a toast with shoulder straps/long sleeves above the ankles, which is simple and generous. "Simple and convenient, easy to walk, supplemented by beautiful and easy to identify".

3. Don't choose long hair.

The most suitable hairstyle for toasting is curly hair with some simple hair accessories. This makes people look gentle and formal, and it is more convenient to act.

A low ponytail or braid is also possible.

4, the heel should not be too high

It is suggested that the heel height should be below 6cm. In the process of toasting, newcomers need to stop and go, and the comfort of shoes must be very important.

If you are not good at wearing high heels, you can reduce the heel height to about 3cm. It looks good, and it won't tire your feet.

Additional explanation

There are always many newcomers asking: Is it okay to wear He Xiufu or Longfeng Coat to propose a toast?

Left: He Xiu Clothes Right: Dragon and Phoenix Jacket

Answer in a word: Yes, but not recommended.

1, it's very troublesome to wear dragon and phoenix robes and He Xiufu, and it doesn't take you long to change clothes from the end of the ceremony to the beginning of the wedding reception. When you finish changing your style, you will delay the toast time.

There are many accessories for these two kinds of clothes. He Xiuli's dress is too long, and the dragon and phoenix coat dress is too narrow, which is inconvenient to walk and easy to fall.

3, wearing two kinds of clothes will wear a lot of accessories, jingling. Not to mention how tired it is to wear such a heavy headdress until the end of the toast; Just say, will you be embarrassed when you drop your headdress on the table or on the ground or even in the soup when you propose a toast? ...

Toast etiquette

1, the toast order cannot be wrong.

The order of toasting is generally-the bride and groom enter, the main stage toasts, and the table toasts.

When arranging wedding seats, the parents of the man and the woman often sit on both sides of the stage equally. The people closest to the stage should be the parents of both sides, then the elders, then the leaders, and then the relatives and friends at the second table.

When toasting at the table, you can toast in clockwise or counterclockwise order, and every table should be respected. It is best for everyone at every table to respect it.

Additional explanation

There are too many guests for one person to respect. In addition, many guests are almost ready to leave without your respect.

In this case, we can propose a toast to the later stage with the table as the unit.

Finally, don't forget to toast the chef, photographer, makeup artist and master of ceremonies, who are the hardest and most easily overlooked people at the wedding!

2. Remember the etiquette.

Etiquette is a point that most newcomers care about. After all, it depends on whether this part can reflect their elegant master style.

The etiquette that should be paid attention to in the wedding toast has been sorted into the following three items:

Toast posture

1, entry posture

When the bride and groom come in for a toast, they should be dignified and calm.

Walk with confidence and generosity, full of energy, and don't look around. Instead, smile, look straight ahead and move towards your goal.

When walking, the bride and groom should keep pace. The bride can follow the groom, maybe half a step behind him. The groom should remember to wait for the bride and not leave by himself.

You can also let the bride gently hold the groom's arm (don't use force) and the two of them walk forward together.

2, the main stage toast posture

When toasting on the main stage, first take off your gloves (if any). The couple stood shoulder to shoulder in the center of the stage. The two men hold their glasses with their outer hands and stand in a figure of eight to ensure that their faces are on the outside and do not block their faces.

Hold the glass to face height, hold the handle of the glass, and hold the bottom of the glass with your other hand when you speak.

Note: Don't use blue fingers and little fingers ~

3. Toast posture at the dinner table

The best time to propose a toast at the dinner table is after the guests have finished the cold dishes and the first course. At the same time, avoid toasting when guests chew food, pick vegetables or scratch their hair.

When toasting, the posture of toasting is the same as when toasting on the stage: everyone holds the handle of the cup and starts toasting. When clinking glasses with guests, clink glasses with one hand. The glass is slightly lower than the guest's, which is more polite.

Try to touch the guest's glass lightly every time you toast at the wine table to avoid damaging it.

Additional explanation

When toasting, always put the glass firmly on your chest, and don't hold an empty glass in one hand. This is a sign of disrespect for the guests ~

toast

1, stage toast

Toast on the stage is often just served, and the guests may already be very hungry. Therefore, before taking the stage to make a toast, the speech should be as concise as possible, and the longest speech should not exceed two minutes.

Give two examples: "Thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule to attend our wedding, and I would like to express my sincere thanks to you. We propose a toast to everyone! "

"I'm glad you can come to our wedding and give us your blessings. Thank you in this glass of wine, I hope everyone has a good time ~ "

2. Toast on the table

At the dinner table of honoring elders, parents usually follow the introduction of new people. At this time, newcomers must be sweet-mouthed, call their elders and say a few words of blessing, so that everyone will think that you are very polite and the scene is more warm.

If you are unfamiliar guests, you should also say some kind words before toasting, thank them for coming to your wedding, and bless you.

Toast time

When toasting, don't stay at a table for too long. After all, when you get married, there are ten or twenty tables, or even hundreds of tables. There are many tables waiting for you to propose a toast in the back ~

Other matters needing attention.

1, "fake wine" is prepared in advance.

Grooms must remember that you still have a lot to do after the wedding reception, and don't get drunk!

Don't drink too much like Kate's husband.

The wine at the wedding banquet need not be dry. Many times, just take a sip and the guests will understand. In addition, guests say they don't drink, don't just' persuade' them to drink.

When toasting, it is best to prepare more than two bottles of "fake wine" in advance, which is the responsibility of the best man and bridesmaid. Meanwhile, prepare a bottle of real wine. If there is no wine in the guest's glass, the newcomer should fill it for the guest himself.

Additional explanation

Fake wine mainly has the following three forms:

1, pretending to be white wine, you can use white wine to make cold white, or you can use pure water and sprite instead, but remember to deflate one night in advance;

2. Pretending to be red wine means pouring grape juice directly into a red wine bottle;

3, drinks replace wine, which is usually drunk by the bride.

The best man and the bridesmaid cooperate well.

You'd better give priority to those friends who can drink as groomsmen and bridesmaids. Even if the guests do come to persuade the wine, let the bridesmaid and best man help to persuade the wine.

In addition, which best man is responsible for pouring wine, which one is responsible for handing wine greetings and which one is responsible for drinking on behalf of the wedding, and it should be clearly distinguished before the wedding; The bridesmaid is responsible for handing cigarettes to the bride, who will distribute them to the guests; One is responsible for sending wedding candy; One is responsible for sending and receiving red envelopes.

You can also arrange a bridesmaid with a guest card to quietly remind new people of the name and identity of each guest, which will be more seamless.

The above are the matters needing attention in the toast organized by Sister Xiaoxi.

I hope your toast can be successfully completed ~

What should I pay attention to when toasting at a wedding banquet? 2 wedding toast etiquette

When drinking, you should generally say something like blessing or blessing, or make a special toast. The shorter the toast, the better. Wedding toast means that at a formal banquet, the bride usually gives the guests reasons for drinking.

You can propose a toast while drinking. Formal toast should be made at a specific time, and it is more appropriate to toast after the guest and host are seated, before eating, or after the main course and before dessert is served. The main thing is that it can't affect the guests' dining.

When drinking, especially when toasting or toasting, toasting needs the proposal of the host, guest or people present. When toasting, you should stand up, hold the cup in your right hand, and then hold the bottom of the cup in your left hand with a smile, so that your relatives and friends can see your personal happiness, look at your toast and say your blessings at the same time. It is suggested that after the toast, you should stand up with a glass in your hand. Be careful not to spill wine on your beautiful personalized wedding dress.

Raise the glass to eye level, say "cheers" and then drink it all at once or in moderation. Then look at the proposer with a glass in his hand, and the process is over. Even teetotalers should pick up their glasses and put on a show! This is in line with toast etiquette.

The order of toast at the wedding banquet and the toast etiquette of the newlyweds

No matter how far apart the wedding banquets are, newlyweds have the habit of toasting guests side by side. A couple put their blessings into wine glasses and respected them one by one, even the children. What we share is not wine, but a good livelihood. People who drink it are very happy. No one will refuse to be invited to the wedding unless there are special circumstances. First, there is great joy in life, expecting friends and relatives, neighbors and even the same thing to go to entertainment before it happens. Secondly, there is jubilation at the wedding banquet, and drinking a few glasses of wedding wine with a little jubilation is in line with China people's general psychology of praying for peace.

Toast order at the wedding banquet

The order of toasting at the wedding banquet can refer to the following process: first, the best man toasts the bride, then the groom toasts the bride, the bride toasts the groom, the bride's father toasts the two newlyweds, the bride toasts the groom's parents, and the groom toasts the bride's parents; Bridesmaids or bridesmaids toast the two couples, the groom's father toasts the bride, the bride's mother toasts the two couples, and the bride or other relatives or friends of the groom continue to toast.

At the beginning of the toast, the best man takes the lead in toasting the bride, if the people attending the wedding express their wish to toast the bride. The best man will signal them to toast one by one. When one person finishes his toast, he signals to another person that "it's your turn next". At this time, this person should stand up and prepare a toast. Because if family and friends don't propose a toast to the couple first? Wedding guests who are not so close to the host family may rush to propose a toast to the couple, which makes the wedding participants feel bad.

By arranging such a toast order table, we can turn chaos into order, make the toast process smooth, and give those who really want to toast couples but are shy and timid a chance to toast. This menu should be held by the best man, and the process of toasting is under his control.

The couple's chance to toast.

1. Toast is the highlight of the wedding banquet, and it is an opportunity for the couple to interact with the guests. When toasting, the couple should know the background of the guests in advance and pay attention to the order of toasting. First the main table, the parents of the woman and the man, and then the other elders? Then the second table. Not only every table should be respected, but also the guests on the table should be respected one by one. Don't be rude Usually, the time for toasting is after the cold dishes and the first course are finished at the main table, and the newlyweds start toasting table by table. At this time, many brides will change into cheongsam or cheongsam.

Don't make a toast too late, because there are many old people and children among the guests, and they are easy to get tired. Usually they are in a hurry to go home after dinner. Therefore, the toast should be arranged as soon as possible after the program is over and the wedding is halfway through. By this time, everyone had almost finished eating and drinking, and almost went home after drinking wine. Of course, newcomers should calculate the toast time according to the number of tables. Don't put off dinner until late because there are too many tables.

Dress for the new toast.

1. Generally, the clothes for toasting are dresses or cheongsam. Dresses suggest not to choose fluffy skirts, but try to choose slim ones? This will be more convenient in action, but pay attention to the chest to prevent exposure; Choosing cheongsam is not only conservative, but also elegant and slim for oriental women. Personally strongly recommended.

2. Be sure to wear high heels when toasting, because only high heels can set off temperament and make the bride more confident; But be careful not to sprain, step on clothes and fall down because of too many people, high heels and dragging skirts.

The above is the most professional wedding toast etiquette introduced by the wedding common sense channel for newcomers. I hope every new couple can be perfect at the wedding!