Jing Li & Yanling: Is this probably the most beautiful love in the world?

On September 2018 15, Jing Li and Yan Ling held a Chinese wedding in Pushi Ancient Town, Xiangxi. The wedding was very lively, and the fairy couple finally got married.

Now, they have been married for a year and are still happy and sweet. In their spare time, they read and travel together, walk and pick flowers in the fields of Shan Ye, and turn their days into poems.

They * * * run online celebrities in the ancient town of Pushi, western Hunan, and it is often hard to get a ticket. Many people say that they "met" Samui in Pushi ancient town just to see Jing Li and Yanling and their beautiful love.

Many people say that they have read Jing Li's article "Dear, thank you for giving up the whole world to come to me" and believe in love again.

But love is not a fairy tale. Jing Li and Yanling's happiness is also earned by them step by step.

1. Take care of yourself before love comes.

Good love needs to wait, but before love comes, change yourself into what you like.

Before meeting Yan Ling, Jing Li was a young writer and freelancer. She published three books, edited four official WeChat accounts and had 10+ fans. I used to be a signing writer who read tens of millions of official WeChat accounts at ten o'clock, and I like traveling, writing, photography and reading.

Before knowing Jing Li, Yan Ling was a global traveler and freelancer, and published the best-selling book Go! Going to the most beautiful place in the world, it took a person eight years to travel to more than 65,438+000 countries in the world, crossing the American continent from the North Pole to the South Pole, and enjoying travel, writing, photography and reading.

Before meeting him (her), he (she) has knowledge, a pattern, his own preferences, enough self-discipline and diligence to persist in their dreams and work hard for them.

Fate often does not live up to the hard-working and kind soul. It is this similar three views and hobbies that doomed Jing Li and Yan Ling to meet.

When love comes, be brave to be yourself.

20 17 The night of writing at my desk on September 6th. On Jing Li's WeChat, a reader friend suddenly left a message, "I'll send you a man's micro-signal. His name is Yan Ling. Look, maybe you met by chance. "

Jing Li added Yan Ling's WeChat and looked through Yan Ling's circle of friends.

It took five minutes to make sure that this person would be her life partner. She said to Yanling: If you like, we can have a warm home.

Jing Li said: After a long time, I still thank myself for being brave at that moment.

Yanling was also attracted by this excellent girl and decided that Jing Li was the one he had been waiting for. Four days later, he decided to sell the house in the city and spend the rest of his life with her in a small town in western Hunan, which surprised his friends and he met a liar.

Many times, it's not that we haven't met love, but that when love comes, we are not brave enough. Like Jing Li and Yan Ling, we have never met before, but we made the right choice in just a few days. It really takes courage.

3. Good love has no utility.

The real happiness of a woman is not that a man gives her material wealth, but that he gives her heart and soul.

Jing Li didn't consider whether Yan Ling had a car, a house and a deposit when she was identified as her life partner. In her words, all you have to do is give me your love and we can create a home together.

Compared with today's fast food love, Jing Li and Yan Ling are really soul mates. Both of them pay little attention to material pursuit and pay more attention to spiritual communication. This love is equal from the beginning, so it will last for a long time.

In real life, some people marry into the rich family for money and material things, but once they enter the rich family, they know as much as the sea, and finally they end up with both money and people. Who can they blame? How can you expect feelings when you are utilitarian from the beginning?

4. When you are in love, work hard.

"A person is like a rainbow, you will know when you meet him." Good love is the cornerstone, but more importantly, two people work together.

Every Valentine's Day, Jing Li personally writes a love letter to Yan Ling. Today, with the development of the Internet and electronic communication, it is really hard to get.

And Yanling is also the greatest tolerance for Jing Li, accompanying her to every place she wants to go and satisfying her every wish.

When Jing Li is reading and writing, Yanling will silently pour water for her, cut the fruit into beautiful dices and give it to her. When Jing Li shares it with readers, Yan Ling will take photos for her. They haven't been apart for a day since the day they met.

Of course, there will inevitably be contradictions in their lives, but every time Jing Li will say, "You are so handsome, you are right."

In fact, in a happy family, there is no need to argue about who is right or wrong. Arguing can't solve any problems at all, but alienates the intimate relationship. Knowing how to make concessions and understand each other is the way to survive a happy marriage.

5. Complement each other and be a unique partner?

? Life is so long, you will always meet the right person. But if you meet, it may not last forever.

Even if you have the most beautiful love, don't forget each other's growth.

Although Jing Li and Yanling are now? Very happy, but they are not immersed in the world of two people, and have never asked to get along with each other, but work together to perfect each other.

Jing Li published his fourth book after marriage. Now, in order to prepare for the fifth book, Yan Ling and Jing Li will take Qi Mei as an example, and they will also share what they have seen and heard around the world at the new book launch conference in Jing Li.

Good love is always evenly matched. If either party stops, there will be problems in the relationship.

Chen's "I support you" in the first half of his life not only ruined Luo Zijun, but also ruined their marriage. Smart women never cling to men, but "hello, I'm not bad!" "

Like Jing Li and Yanling, one read thousands of books and the other took Wan Li Road. Hand in hand is the most beautiful appearance of love.

"I hope to have years to look back and grow old with deep affection." All the family ties in this world are worth waiting for. May every couple be as happy as Jing Li and Yanling!