Announce your girlfriend in a circle of friends? Did she agree?

1 On the eve of the Double Ninth Festival, parents participated in the "Golden Wedding" organized by an organization and took several groups of wedding photos, and the expenses were borne by the organization. When my mother was that old, I wore a wedding dress for the first time, put on makeup for the first time, put on lipstick for the first time ... I followed them when they put on makeup. When the photographer took pictures, I also took a lot of pictures with my mobile phone and camera.

Originally, I wanted to send a WeChat circle of friends, but I thought about it. My parents certainly don't like me drying them. So I only sent the photos to the "family" group.

When I got home at night, I got a call from my dad: Your mother asked me to call you specially to tell you that the photos you took today should not be posted online!

It is really "knowing a woman as a father". My dad knows me better, knowing that I often have breakfast in my circle of friends and like to write something. I'm afraid I'll send their photos too, so I'll call them and tell them.

I quickly said "no hair" to reassure them. I am also secretly glad that "fortunately, I didn't send it", and I quickly went to the "family" group to tell my sisters: Don't send my parents' wedding photos to friends.

Sun yourself, take a selfie, I think OK will do. However, if you put photos of friends, family and colleagues in a circle of friends and send them online, it is best to get the consent of the other party. This is the least courtesy.

If you can say hello in advance when sending photos of others, will you let others get your respect?

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Many years ago, I read an article about Nanqiao in the Tribe Hall. Scholar and columnist studying in the United States, and author of Ah America, etc. It is also the translation of more than a dozen books such as There are Trees in Brooklyn. This article is about his parents having a meeting in his son's school. He said that he took photos, but because there were other children on it, it was not convenient to put photos on his blog, and it was not convenient to take photos of "other people's children" unless his parents allowed him.

Therefore, when traveling abroad, some fellow tourists will take pictures of cute blond foreign children or take photos with others without their parents' consent. I am quite worried and embarrassed. Fortunately, most of the parents of those children are smiling.

Our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law (every family has a daughter) got together the other day. Cui Cui said that her mother always told her never to put her daughter's photos on the Internet. Being a grandmother is probably due to security and other considerations.

I have read the news that the German police issued a notice on Facebook, advising parents not to send photos of their children to social platforms, in order to prevent and stop their children from committing crimes. Some experts also pointed out that parents may think their children are cute, but after a few years, grown-up children may not think so, and some photos are likely to make them fall into "endless embarrassment." For example, if a child is photographed nude, which child wants to see the kind of photos exposed by his parents when he grows up? It may be worse for parents to disclose their children's names, addresses and birth dates.

Every time my daughter sees me taking pictures with my mobile phone, she will cover her face with her hand and prevent me from taking pictures. You know, not everyone likes to let others bask in their own.

If she is in the photo I sent to my circle of friends, I will say hello to her in advance: I want to send this photo to my circle of friends, huh? ! She said she couldn't send it, so I stopped sending it. Respect her opinion.

You know, children are not the property of their parents, and they also have their own rights, including using their own photos.

So is the photo of your girlfriend.

This kind of argument is everywhere on the internet. TAs say to girls: Don't be silly! Your boyfriend doesn't announce in the circle of friends that you just don't love you!

Listening to this, is it like those uncles and aunts who don't know how to tease children: hey, little friend, your parents like your brother, but they don't like you because you are not your parents' own!

Others don't know what they are thinking, and tell the girls in an "absolute" tone:

There are only four reasons why your boyfriend doesn't announce you in the circle of friends or space-he thinks you are ugly, has other objects, is giving other women a chance and doesn't love you at all.

who the hell are all these people？ ! How can a girl believe it? ! Afraid of the chaotic rhythm of the world? !

Then a girl really asked me: I talked with my boyfriend for more than half a year, and he never sent me a photo in a circle of friends. His classmates and friends think I don't exist ... doesn't he care about me at all? Don't love me? !

I'm speechless. I think times are changing really fast. When our generation falls in love, it is a general shy state of "I am a girl how to tell him …", for fear that others will know!

Falling in love or getting married is a matter for two people. If you really care whether he announces you in a circle of friends, shouldn't you communicate directly with your boyfriend? Instead of asking an outsider, you can't judge whether you love or not according to the online statement. Many contradictions in love and marriage are actually due to not talking about feelings with each other.

Not all girls like their boyfriends to bask in their circle of friends, do they? Boys often have no detailed ideas. Girls in love love blx. This argument that "your boyfriend doesn't announce you in the circle of friends, which means he doesn't love you" is a poisonous chicken soup that sows discord!

Girl, how insecure are you? Will believe this.

If you are a girl and like to let your boyfriend send your photos to a circle of friends, you might as well tell him directly; It's best for your boyfriend to get your permission to take pictures of you.

If you are a boy, it is best to get your girlfriend's permission to announce your girlfriend in a circle of friends. If she doesn't like it, don't dry it.

Lest we break up one day, we have to delete the photos of our previous show of love. In this case, are there still few entertainment circles? Some photos are really likely to make you regret your intestines and fall into "endless embarrassment". Stop drying.

Sunbathing doesn't mean loving or not. If you can judge whether you love or not by this, it is really too shallow an emotion, and it is not even worth maintaining.

Remember the fable "Father and son carry donkeys"? "Father and son go out, son riding a donkey, bandits; Father is riding a donkey, and people are condescending; Father and son are the same donkey, and everyone is arrogant; Helpless, the father and son had to carry the donkey. "

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This story tells us that we should stick to ourselves, don't listen to others, and don't follow blindly. Otherwise, just like the father and son, they are at a loss for the outside voice and have to lift the donkey and become a burden.

A mature person will never use whether to post photos in a circle of friends to verify and judge the relationship between two people.

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