Why do people in big cities feel lonely

< strong > People in big cities feel lonely for the following reasons: 1. The development of industrialized society is inseparable from the process of urbanization, but in the process of urbanization, people's feelings will encounter new problems. Now most people are in the city, but their hearts will become more and more lonely. I think this kind of loneliness is from the city to loneliness, and its composition is also unique with the city.

2. The most basic cause of urban lonely patients is the urbanization of space. The most expressive place of a city is that in order to make effective use of space, the space for human activities has to be highly developed. This has also caused human activities to be bound by the unit, and the most intuitive example is the pigeon house in Hong Kong. When human behavior is bound by space, even the body is separated by a wall. There is an old saying that a distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor, but this completely closed space development direction first destroys the communication between people and neighbors. Once a person has no direct communication object, his psychological attitude and thoughts cannot be released, which is the origin of loneliness.

3. Talking about the basic reason of urban spatial loneliness, I think the deeper reason is the capital gap brought by industrialized society, which leads to more class differentiation. This is also one of the reasons why many otaku and otaku and modern and contemporary groups don't want to have love, because most of human emotions or other activities are based on a certain economic foundation. The sense of gap brought by the city will make most people at the bottom feel inferior and think that happiness belongs to others, so they stay at home and are unwilling to contact people, further marking time in the social field. In rural areas or in the original living environment, at least the people around them are similar to their own families, and people will not feel inferior and unable to communicate. This is also the reason why many people think that childhood friends are intimate and become more and more greedy when they grow up. Therefore, under the magnifying glass of the city, people are increasingly unable to communicate and even feel inferior. This is another reason and manifestation of urban loneliness.

Another manifestation of urbanization is that people seem to be more and more concentrated and there are more and more people, but this is actually only a physical concentration, similar to the sand on the beach, which looks dense, but there is no communication at all. A simple example is that in crowded places, people are more like surging tides, while individuals are more like every drop of running water without any intersection. Loneliness will be more intense in the gap between a huge crowd and a few people who can communicate.

3. The development of urbanization and network society, for example, makes people depend on the network, which indirectly lengthens the distance between people. Although the network has the propaganda language of increasing distance, back to reality, everyone in the urban space is essentially separated from others by Wan Li. Virtual can never be lower than reality.