Love you all over the world, body and soul equally

Love you all over the world, body and soul equally

01

The life of young people is actually very tiring, with fast pace, high pressure and tight time. , the tasks are heavy, and I have to trot around the office. I have many cases in my hand that I have to check repeatedly and follow. Plans, reports, summaries, and progress reports come one after another, which is suffocating.

I come very early in the morning and go back very late at night. Time is either on the subway or evaporates on the way there. Even lunch is too slow for fast food.

I am so busy every day that I have no time to chat with my friends and fall in love.

The originally noble singles have become singles who are a bit like dwarves.

The family was also anxious, so they arranged a blind date.

I thought blind dates were just a quick fix, where two inappropriate people are brought together to talk about their own misfortunes and how unfortunate they are.

In the past, in order to avoid going home after work, I would go to the bar downstairs and order a glass of wine. There were all kinds of people gathered here, including senior executives and white-collar workers, bosses and partners, and petty bourgeoisie. It was a lively place. The fragrant scenes are addictive.

Those women who are full, active, confident, cunning, and ambitious are so full of life when faced with men, and those men are the same, focusing on the woman's body, not the connotation, and they are all attentive and flattering.

Situations full of transactional atmosphere, hugging each other, and making love to each other were disgusting and disgusting, and later they simply stopped going.

People’s depravity is not a moment, but a long-term mental illness. Depraved people are not worthy of love. They only need to vent their bodies to each other. As for who is good-looking, that’s all.

02

When I think of it, the love I had when I was a student is not delicious at all.

Everyone’s understanding of love is just like finding a job that requires work experience. Find someone, practice ventriloquism, find out about men’s and women’s bodies, explore piston movements, fight a tough battle with hormones, and then compliment everyone you meet. Lots of love experience.

Wen Xi’s story has always been reluctant to be mentioned.

She is my classmate in college. She is good-looking, has a good figure, and is fashionably dressed. She is a single parent who lacks father's love. When I first entered college, I was spotted by a male classmate who was studying Chinese language in my junior year. He insisted on writing a paper letter every day, a handful of roses every day, and a box of customized pizza every day.

Within a few days, Wen Xi’s iceberg was melted by the other party’s warmth. In fact, the male classmate with a Chinese language background was originally very romantic, and he relied on the works of Xu Zhimo, Zhang Ailing, Zhu Shenghao, and Liang Sicheng to support the scene. , and Wenxi couldn't bear the sweet words of concern, so she fell into tenderness.

Wen Xi gave everything she could, including her young body.

The generous pocket money given by my family was all used to supplement the room fee, meal expenses, and entertainment expenses.

When the economy was seriously overspending, he even lowered his taste for one person, put on the worst cosmetics, and wore cheap clothes. The love for him is getting deeper and deeper, and sometimes Xiangsi can secretly draw a sketch of him in the textbook.

But after his senior year, the male classmate entrusted someone to hand Wen Xi a letter. He didn't even give a formal breakup explanation, and he disappeared without a trace.

The content of the letter: I just like your body, and I feel that I really love you when we are in bed.

For Wen Xi, what she wants is a lasting relationship, while for her male classmate, what he wants is just to comfort Feng Chen.

One is in love with the wrong person because he is blinded by sweet words, and the other is in love with someone casually because he is lonely, empty and indiscriminate.

Maybe love is like this. If you like someone because you are young and beautiful, sooner or later you will fall in love with someone else or be forced to terminate the contract.

03

It is often said that office romance is unreliable. I think it is just scaremongering in film and television works and novels, which amplifies and exaggerates the material desires and lust of this society.

There is a close couple in the company who are both my colleagues and my good friends. Their love life is as poetic as chopping wood, carrying water, washing rice, and cooking.

Our love for each other is neither overly possessive nor ever abandoned. The style of Yun Juan Yun Shu and Qing Feng Xu has been together for more than three years.

Some people say that as time goes by, people are either rushing to get married or planning to break up.

But these two are really special.

Together, the two people’s desire for knowledge is greater than the desire of biology itself, and they study literature together, from "Jieyou Grocery Store", "The Lonely Novelist", "The Crowd", "The Little Prince" to "Stars" "Spring Water" and "The World as Will and Representation". Together we have experienced loneliness and vulgarity, and we have learned to distinguish between elegance and elegance, understand the desolation of the world, and understand the pure and warm feelings.

The two also have other hobbies that are harmonious but different, such as painting, calligraphy, photography, mountain climbing, bungee jumping, and cycling. Both of them cultivate their sentiments in their respective hobbies and improve their temperament and magnanimity. They have insights and things to say, depend on each other, and are calm and unhurried.

The wedding vows of the two people are also romantic: the rest of my life with you is also the rest of my life, your whole world is my whole world, and I love your unique soul as much as I love your fresh and exciting body.

The so-called meeting may not only mean meeting someone who seems to be satisfactory, but also looking forward to meeting someone with wisdom and connotation. You are so interesting, and I can stay with you until dawn while chatting, which is far better than just wanting to go to bed with you and take a rest early.

You can only meet the kind of people you meet according to the kind of person you are.

The most beautiful thing about love is the spiritual match. The physical height, fatness, thinness, beauty and ugliness are by no means strictly exposed to death, and cannot be rejected and rejected simply based on biological instincts.

Superficial people are not qualified for love and cannot experience that kind of coincidence and unexpected encounter.

04

Only today do I understand the words in "To the Oak": Love - not only love your majestic body, but also love the position you insist on, the land under your feet.

Translated: I love you, not only your body, but also your thoughts and stance, as well as your living environment.

Therefore, when I avoid blind dates, it’s not that I get nervous, stage frightened, or tremble when I see the opposite sex, but that I think it’s a waste of time. I spend more time on hobbies to enhance my taste, even if I just think alone for a while, It's a hundred times better than chatting boringly and boringly about the same people's livelihood topics at the blind date table.

Because I was desperate, I wanted to rent a girlfriend to go home to avoid the first year of junior high school and just survive the fifteenth year. But then I thought about it, and it didn’t make much sense.

First, it is a deceptive transaction, which is almost the same as those mentioned in the article. If you do this, you will look down on yourself.

The second is relief. Soul mates have to go through the test of the waves. I am lucky to get them, and I am destined to lose them.

The third is that it is better to take the time to forge your own soul than to do it in vain. I use a gold-plated body to exchange for the life of my partner.

People must have a creed of love. The creed of love I give myself is: I would rather be lonely and single for the rest of my life than settle for eternal life.

Because love itself is full of a sense of ritual, or love itself has a sense of ritual, and the sense of ritual promises a contract to the person we love and the thing we love, and the contract itself should be reverent and respected.

Frankly speaking, love means a sense of security, which needs to be guarded by the soul and practiced by the body. This is the collision and blending of two values ????from two worlds into growing old together in one world.

Throughout my life, I have been waiting for someone to protect me.

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