The choice between dream and bread

Miss Wu, I'm not unreasonable, but my misfortune, alas, is all your fault. ?

After the speech, a young lady came up to me and said this sentence. For a while, I was in a trance? No way. What do I have to do with her misfortune? After being stupefied for a few seconds, I began to suspect that this dignified young woman had mental problems. However, apart from the faint sadness between the eyebrows, I feel that her eyes are no different from ordinary people.

What does your misfortune have to do with me? I decided to get to the bottom of the matter.

My husband is your reader. What? Originally an office worker, suddenly one day, he resigned and said that he would pursue his dreams, do what he wants and pursue his life like you. ?

And the result?

She said:? He has been unemployed for two years now. At first, he actively developed his interests and took photography and sketch courses. Later, he didn't see what he had learned, what expertise he had cultivated, or where his dream was. Now I only see him chatting with netizens online every day, drinking afternoon tea and singing KTV, and staying up late at night? I'm the only one who supports the expenses at home. I am also a reasonable person, afraid to talk about him, hurt his big man's self-esteem, or become a killer who hinders his dreams. I think if he continues like this, he will only be out of touch with society and family. What should I do? Say that finish, she sighed heavily.

Her predicament is really tricky. At the moment when she sighed, a heavy sense of guilt weighed on me. I don't think I'm completely right.

Do you often write when you sign? Chasing dreams? Four words. For me, it is my attitude to pursue my dreams and pursue them in time. I always hope that in the limited time of life, we can have fewer shortcomings and more sense of accomplishment and happiness. It's just my fault. Right? Chasing dreams? These words are not explained enough. ? Chasing dreams? It has its complexity in practice, especially when dreams conflict with bread.

When we see a person who really pursues his dream and is willing to earn less and get more discounts, we all admire him. I know several friends who are good at drawing. They used to work in well-paid newspapers and advertising companies, and later they all decided to leave the track of office workers and go back to being painters. At this point, I won't need it anymore? Painting can't be eaten as a meal? Pour cold water on them, but bless them: pursue their dreams. ? Facts have proved that they can all draw a world with their own talents.

I don't think dreams must be against bread. I just want to pursue my dream, but many people have won bread with their dreams.

Of course, sometimes we are gambling with reality, and we always have to rely on luck. Bad luck, is it like Fan? I couldn't even sell a painting before my death, and I died of depression.

Actually, where is it? Being tall is not bad luck. At least he has a posthumous title, and it is loud and bright, which is not a good memorial tablet that every artist can appreciate. There are countless painters who have painted all their lives, but they were down and out before their death, and even forgot their names completely.

Chasing dreams is a gamble in itself, but it is not a simple gamble. The higher your talent, the more comprehensive your ideas, the impeccable your skills, the more experienced you are, the harder you work, or the better your popularity, the better your chances of winning.

Only you can judge whether it is worth it or not. If you win, you usually have to thank many people who know how to appreciate yourself; If you lose, there is no reason to complain. Anyway, I'm sure everyone is determined to pursue their dreams, because we always have to do something valuable in this life, although others may make some noises? Care? Noise hinders the dreamer, but you are responsible for your own life. The question is, are you pursuing a dream, an ideal or a daydream?

It's not that I haven't poured cold water on others, because everyone's situation is different.

Do you think I should quit my job and become a professional writer? A bank clerk once asked me. I just want to write at home. Printing books is like printing money, which is better than being a passing god in the bank now. ?

How many years have you decided to write? Have you started writing? I asked.

I'm too busy now. I'm going to resign before I start writing. ? He said,? I used to write a good composition and was praised by the teacher. ?

I think you'd better think about it. ? I can't help saying,? Because the reality is not as simple as you think. ? I admire those? Decided to resign after affirming his dream? Dream catcher, but afraid of those? Quit your job to test your dreams? Paranoid. Because the latter thinks too simply and does too hastily, the possibility of realizing his dream is really too small.

In fact, this photographer is a successful electronic upstart. When he gets a huge bonus every year, his photography works have a unique style. A friend who became a painter was already a good painter when he was an office worker.

Those who succeed in opening cafes or restaurants have never learned the business instructions before opening them, but only taken cooking classes to make up for it. They have spent year after year investigating and trying, just as seriously as Shennong tasted a hundred herbs. No one has successfully pursued his dream, has he? For a while? successful

I don't know how much wisdom and ability I have accumulated before thinking about it. When most people come home from work, watch TV, sleep and talk on the phone, these real dream catchers are still trying to dig wells for themselves in order to have fresh water to drink in the future. We only figured out how much bread he could get after his success, but we accidentally ignored their sweat.

Pursuing dreams is a process and a living habit that must be gradually established. Who says you have to give up everything to pursue your dreams? Don't complain that dreams and bread interfere with each other. In fact, what hinders you from pursuing your dreams is not the tasteless bread you eat at hand, but your laziness.