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However, if the care of children is left to the elderly, the couple can't afford to raise children, and the elderly will feel very tired.

Therefore, in order to take care of the feelings of young parents and the elderly, I don't know when a new way of bringing a baby appeared-"bringing a baby to sign in".

Aunt Yan belonged to the business backbone of the unit before retirement, but after retirement, her life suddenly quieted down, and she was completely uncomfortable. Coincidentally, at that time, Aunt Yan's daughter-in-law gave birth to a little grandson, so Aunt Yan has been helping to take care of her, and life seems to be full and happy.

In a blink of an eye, my daughter-in-law came back to work after maternity leave, and my little grandson was taken care of by Aunt Yan. The daughter-in-law also knows that she is distressed by Aunt Yan, so she discusses with her and comes to take care of the children every morning. After she and her husband get off work, Aunt Yan goes back to her home to rest, and gives Aunt Yan an extra 2,000 yuan every month.

Because Aunt Yan is close to her son's daughter-in-law's house, she walks to her son's house every morning during the day to take care of the baby. After the little guy falls asleep, she occasionally helps clean the house. Before the son and daughter-in-law leave work, Aunt Yan will will prepare simple and delicious meals for the young couple whenever she is free, or wait for the young couple to cook and eat together before going home.

In this cold summer, Aunt Yan seems to find a sense of fulfillment in her work in the busy day after day. At the same time, her son and daughter-in-law are also very grateful to their mother for her help.

In fact, Aunt Yan's situation is a typical "sign-in" nanny, following the law of going to work during the day and resting at night. There is little contact between them and there is no contradiction. Everyone feels very satisfied. No wonder many young parents like it.

Benefit 1: avoiding the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law caused by bringing a baby.

There must be differences in the concept of parenting between the elderly and adult children, especially between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Once you blush, the hardest thing to do is to be a treasure father who is both a son and a husband.

This kind of "check-in" with baby has the characteristics of handover. Old people and young parents don't have to live together, just take care of the baby in different periods, which can avoid conflicts well.

Benefit 2: Old people also have their own living space.

Old people don't have to be tied to their children all day, and they can have enough time to rest or entertain after work. On weekends, you can get together with three or five friends to combine work and rest.

Benefit 3: Children are closely related to parents and the elderly.

For children, they can not only enjoy the meticulous care of their "separated relatives", but also get along with their parents every day. They don't feel alienated from each other just because they are brought up by their parents or the elderly, so the family is naturally happy.

Benefit 4: Young parents know how to be grateful and know that it is not easy to bring a baby.

In this way of raising children, both of them help Dad and Ma Bao share the pressure. At the same time, it also prevents young parents from being shopkeepers, so that they can understand the difficulties of the elderly in the process of raising their babies and be more grateful.

Although this way of bringing a baby has many advantages, it also has limitations and is not suitable for all families.

For example, this method requires the elderly and young parents to live in the same city and not too far apart. In addition, the elderly need to have enough time, physical strength and energy.

The most important thing is that old parents and young parents should have roughly the same concept of parenting and should not be too far apart. Therefore, before trying this way, families need to think carefully.

Nowadays, young people are generally under great work pressure, and the old people will naturally lend a helping hand because they are distressed by these young parents. However, it is not easy to take care of the baby, which requires the joint efforts of the whole family. Therefore, young parents should not take the help of the elderly for granted.

Mommy has something to say: when the child grows up and steps into the campus day by day, the person who has been helping to take care of the baby may be a little lost. If the old man has been taking care of the baby at home, young parents must also do a good job of comforting the old man, and never let the old man be disappointed by the loss.