If you don’t want to go on a blind date, when you reach your age, should you compromise or wait for love?

In the movie "Heartbeat", the male protagonist's grandfather said this to him: "Some people are shallow, some are beautiful on the outside but lose their fortune inside, and some One day you will meet a person who is as gorgeous as a rainbow. When you meet this person, you will feel that other people are just clouds. "

Many times, as you reach a certain age, I hope you can become more beautiful. I understand a truth: This person is like a rainbow, and you will know when you meet him.

You should continue to wait for your own love.

After my friend Luoluo returned from graduate school, she was considered an older leftover girl in the eyes of her parents because she didn’t have a boyfriend yet. However, even though her parents arranged many blind dates for her, she never went.

Luoluo said that this is her own marital happiness, and the decision-making power should be in her own hands instead of obeying her parents' arrangements. She hopes to have her own unforced love.

Later, Luoluo met her current husband on a business trip arranged by the company. He was an outstanding photographer in China, and he happened to have the same hobby as Luoluo's photography. Luoluo told me that she and he always had the same views, whether in terms of thoughts or behavior, and now the two of them are living a happy life.

Just like Luoluo, if you can stand firm and choose to wait for your love, then you may have a greater chance of finding your own happiness.

In the TV series "Why Shengxiao is silent", when He Yimei asked He Yichen why he no longer considered other girls, He Yichen was silent for a while and said:

"When After one person appears in this world, everyone else will become a makeshift person."

He Yichen's words touched the depths of many people's hearts: I just don't want to. I will live my life with others, so I want to continue to wait and continue to wait for the one I have.

Sometimes, if you choose to compromise in love and go on a blind date casually, even if you don’t have much feeling for each other, then you may be better than others who choose to wait for their love. You can only make do with your life with him, and your chances of being happy may be much smaller than theirs.

Mu Xin said in "Once Upon a Time Slow": "In the past, the sun became slower, cars, horses, and mail were all slower. There was only enough time to love one person in a lifetime." In other words: I only love you, and it wouldn't be the case for anyone else.

In "Marriage", Sanmao recorded her chat with Jose and said that because that person is Jose, it doesn't matter if she eats less if she can be with him.

Mu Xin and Sanmao are both extremely cautious people in love. They will not compromise their love, let alone treat their marriage as a trivial matter.

So, if you feel conflicted between whether you should compromise or wait for love, you might as well learn from their attitudes towards your own happy marriage and choose your life-long events seriously and carefully.

Finally, I hope you can understand that many times you can't just say you can't do it without even having a chance to try. You have to be braver and only after you try can you say whether the result is good or bad.

For example, in marriage, you can't just choose to compromise and live an unhappy married life without even having a chance to try and choose love.

I hope that you who are brave can marry love no matter how late it is.