Are children who attend innovative schools in Dali useless when they grow up?

No, the innovative schools in Dali are very small. In the current environment, such innovative education is like building a greenhouse, and it is impossible to completely copy the schools in northern Europe.

I remember the headmaster of that school said that innovation is sometimes a gamble, and I am willing to lose. If you lose the bet, will your child's years be wasted? It depends on personal opinion.

The parents of innovative schools are excellent, either 985 or economic freedom, or documentary directors who engage in art, and some parents run homestays.

Everyone does not roll academic achievements and artistic expertise, but they are all rolled out with money, otherwise you can't let your children pursue individuality. In the innovation school, a parent must accompany him all the time, because his children have a short school time and have many outdoor activities to accompany them.

After all, we have no financial freedom, and the high tuition fees of innovative schools really test our mentality, which is also the deep-seated reason why we choose to return to Hangzhou. If the three of us live in Dali, we can still survive by doing manual labor, but after all, we are college graduates, so it is difficult to put down our "shelf".

After talking to the teacher, we realized that I had spent more time with my children in recent years. The teacher also stressed that it is still necessary for the father to shape the child's character. The final opinion we reached was that my husband would resign and then he would mainly take care of the children. After returning to Hangzhou at the end of July, I started looking for a job again.

In the past, my husband was the main source of income for my family. After he leaves his job, his income will drop sharply, but his children will return to public schools and his education expenditure will be reduced. My husband doesn't plan to take care of the children for a long time either. He also has job burnout and sees no room for promotion. We are all in our thirties and are considering changing careers. As ordinary workers, we have been spinning like a top for so many years and want to stop.

If you can find a suitable job, Dali is quite suitable for life. I'm going to take 3-5 years to gain a foothold in the health industry, and then enter the freelance business. I don't need a job. We may go back to Dali and settle down.

The price in Dali is not high. It takes only one month to rent a private house by Erhai Lake to get to 800 yuan, and the formal community I rent only takes 1800 yuan/month. Considering the climate, price and scenery, Dali is really suitable for life. In addition to traveling, many people who live here also engage in freelance work, such as yoga and handicrafts. If you integrate into Dali, you will feel that life is particularly rich, everyone is very free and casual, and people sitting on the scene singing with guitars can be seen everywhere. In Dali, people don't look at food and clothing, but who plays better.

Compared with big cities, its pace will be much slower. In Hangzhou or other big cities, it is difficult for me to meet people who are very idle, as long as they are working. In Dali, you often meet people who are very idle. They will get together, play cards, play chess and visit rivers. There are many streams in Dali, and the streams gurgle. Everyone waded forward and felt the coolness of nature.

Every day when I open the window, I can see the blue sky, white clouds and Erhai Lake. I often sit on the edge of Erhai Lake and watch the clouds in the sky all morning. Sometimes I bring a book, and sometimes I sit quietly in a daze. However, this idle day still makes me anxious.

After the children go to school, I will turn on the computer and arrange things to do in the day, such as reading and drawing. I still feel in control of my life. It's sad to say that migrant workers in big cities are in slow-paced Dali, and it's difficult to relax completely psychologically.