Why is the marriage still over after the mistress leaves?

Many female readers told me that their husbands had cheated on her husband, and she and her mistress battled wits and courage, and finally drove her away. I thought that the relationship could get back together, but I didn't expect that the marriage was over. Why is this?

The reason is actually very simple. Cheating is the most serious betrayal of a marriage, and the damage caused is irreversible.

This kind of injury is not like a couple quarreling. A quarrel at the head of the bed can be reconciled at the end of the bed.

Cheating means that the other person has to make up countless lies to deceive you. You were working hard to maintain this family, but the other party treated you like a monkey. Use your efforts to raise another one outside. This kind of injury is the most painful and cruel.

Although you drove away the third party, can this kind of harm be said to be nothing? If the mistress disappears, will your relationship be the same as before? Do you think marriage is just playing house?

Secondly, it is difficult for husband and wife to trust each other anymore.

Maybe you can forget that the other person cheated on you for a short time, but this will always be a hurdle for you. You will always think of this incident inadvertently, and then your emotions will collapse in an instant. You will think of many things that you are unwilling to do.

It is already difficult to just forgive the other person. Is it possible that you will never remember the hurt caused by cheating for the rest of your life? This is simply torture.

So, don’t force a victim to forgive, and don’t ask her to forget. It was already hard for her just trying to stay alive.

Finally, the third party will make the victim no longer believe in love

This is also the most realistic point. Especially for women, true love only happens once in a lifetime. After experiencing an affair, how can you still believe in love and marriage?

Even if you choose to forgive, you will ask yourself from time to time: Is it worth it? The other party has obviously hurt me, do you still have to pay so much for him?

As a result, under the torture of various emotions, your marriage was completely destroyed, leaving only the status, and the relationship between husband and wife has long existed in name only.

Infidelity is like a nail driven into a wooden board. Even if the nail is pulled out, the hole will always be there.

People used to think that betraying a marriage was shameless and cheating was a shameful act. But cheating and divorce seem to be commonplace these days. The editor also hopes that every couple can finally get married and be loyal to their feelings. Don't do anything to hurt the other person, don't make another sad person in the world.