A letter from parents to their second daughter.

When my daughter enters the second grade, it is adolescence, and she needs the guidance and help of her parents on her way to growth. Below I have compiled a letter to my daughter in Grade Two. Welcome to read it. A Letter to the Daughter of Junior Two

Child:

You have grown up as a middle school student. I feel very gratified to see your lively, optimistic and positive expression. In the face of a strange environment, you got into it so quickly and achieved good results, which is gratifying, but you can't avoid shortcomings and deficiencies. In the first semester, your final exam results only reached the 86th grade. The head teacher left the following words on your junior high school students' quality development report: This semester, the teacher found that you have changed a little. I don't know if you are aware of it, but your attention is not as concentrated as before, and your learning status is not as good as before. Think about the reasons. Adjust your state and expect you to perform better. After careful analysis, you still have slackness and lack of tenacity in your study in the first stage; Uneven distribution of study time and unstable grades in each subject; When encountering difficulties, I sometimes retreat and lack the courage to break through; Writing is satisfied with the status quo and lacks enterprising spirit, which needs to be paid enough attention to in the second grade or in the future growth process.

some people say: The first day is neck and neck, the second day is polarized, and the third day is on the ground? . The second day of junior high school is the key to change a child's life, which is a hurdle: some students can adapt to the environment and stand out, while others are in a state of many troubles. Based on this understanding, to get through this hurdle, dad thinks you should be strengthened in the following aspects.

first, time allocation. Because of the unstable grades, do you often have them in your studies? Treat the headache, treat the foot pain? The situation. Therefore, it is necessary to allocate the study time of each course reasonably and make more efforts in weak classes appropriately, so as not to lose sight of one thing and lose sight of another. In addition, you can try some tips on the study schedule. For example, when you are a little tired, you should mainly review old lessons or do some hands-on exercises; When attention is easy to concentrate, take the time to do homework or write a composition; Before you do your homework, you can arrange a certain time to review; When arranging self-study, we should pay attention to the intersection of liberal arts and science, and the collocation of verbal and practical; Review the lessons of the day on the same day, and review the contents learned and reviewed on the first day at the same time, so as to link the old and new knowledge.

the second is to deal with difficulties. It is inevitable to encounter difficulties in learning. When the old difficulties are solved, new difficulties will follow. The key is to treat the difficulties encountered in learning correctly, build up confidence and advance despite difficulties. Here, dad wants to praise your persistence in asking questions and never giving up until you understand them, and criticize your attitude of being afraid of trouble, unwilling to spend more time in learning basic Chinese knowledge, a little frustrated and giving up after difficulties. Son, show your skill and accept the challenge!

the third is the adjustment of mentality. As a monitor and an outstanding student in all aspects, you have a lot of pressure, and dad understands your feelings. But this is a challenge, but also an exercise. The monitor is not boasted. As long as you see yourself clearly, believe in yourself, be tough, and don't be a coward who escapes from reality, are you still afraid that you can't do well?

fourth, I am interested in writing. You have given up your continued study of calligraphy and guzheng. You must not lose this writing hobby easily. In reading, we should increase the reading volume of classic works and accumulate more material vocabulary; In writing, we should strengthen the practice of writing in the examination room, conscientiously complete the editor's draft composition, and maintain a good momentum of publication.

son, dad cares about communicating with you, and wants to know your mood, your thoughts, your study life, and even your teachers and classmates. On the way with you, dad was glad that he had spent many happy hours with you. Travel, photograph, observe, read and walk together? Love, laugh and hate together? Although the ways and forms of expression are different, the happiness of accompanying reading and the continuous continuation of happiness will be an inexhaustible wealth for dad's life.

Son, dad is just an ordinary member of the accompanying parents. Dad and you have the same goal. On the way to raising children, dad feels that success is not the ultimate goal. Success is a process in which dad and you work together without regret or regret. Dad often reminds himself to try to be a? Different parents? And eager to harvest one? Different children? .

Dear child, thank you for always bringing dad news of progress. No matter what, dad will be your strong backing. Come on, kid!

Love your dad

A letter to the daughter of Grade Two on September 13th. 2

Female:

I am vaguely worried when I read your exercise occasionally. Although, for a 45-point composition, you will often get 4 points or even a little more. But I want you to understand that my worry is not unreasonable. You must gradually turn those floating thoughts into clear ideas and simple words. At the age of 14, you should have your own thoughts, that is, a little immature. You know, it's not enough to rely solely on words. Content, thought, realm, soul, spirit and wisdom are all important. Don't be trivial and moaning, don't linger on small sadness and small touch. Although your kindness is destined to accompany you all your life, don't let the same thing continue to accompany you until the sun goes down. In that way, your mind will be blinded, you will lose the opportunity to make up your mind again and again, and you will miss success again and again.

I don't want you to be decadent, empty, confused and ruin yourself. I want you to believe in beauty, strength and self-confidence, learn to control your feelings and cherish them, and understand that this kind of feelings can't be experienced by anyone. Never agree with the coolness and otherness of those who have nothing to do, the heart is the most important thing. You should have a strong heart and strong resistance to setbacks. When you are sad and wronged, you should cry bitterly, then pat your face and give yourself a smile. Life is so beautiful, but youth is so short. Love, love family, love friends, love all the beautiful things.

love to pretend to be beautiful, properly. Always know that spirit is more important. Compared with those fashionable hairstyles and brand-name fashions, you are more beautiful because you are hardworking, hardworking, young and innocent. I don't want your famous brand in the future to set off your shameless demands on your parents. At least, your efforts today should make your parents see the hope of 2 years of hard parenting, and at least try not to become a burden to your parents. Please don't tell me when I buy clothes for you? Hit the shirt? . You know, in those days, your aunts and aunts (including me, of course) only had a chance to wear new clothes every Chinese New Year, and your grandmother usually led more than three children (and occasionally your grandfather's brother's daughter) to take a cheap piece of cloth to the sewing shop, and must find the old tailor who wore reading glasses, put a tape measure around his neck and hung scissors on his chest, and repeatedly told him to wear a suit, or else. Please don't laugh at them and what they don't understand? Hit the shirt? S, that will make my heart very painful.

We should always be sympathetic to those people who live at the bottom, and respect those people whose living conditions are not as good as ours, but who still work honestly with their own hands to support their families. You know, your grandfather used to herd cattle for the production team for 23 years in the mountains. I don't want you to see the sanitation worker covering his nose and making a detour. We are not delicate.

don't underestimate 1 yuan's money, you might as well earn it yourself. You must not have forgotten the time when we went to the supermarket to buy an induction cooker, and 1 yuan was short of money. In order to exercise you, I asked you to find a way. You went out to borrow money without success and were misunderstood. Did you come back with tears in your face? If you can't make money for the time being, you can learn to save, don't spend money indiscriminately and spend less. Thrift is a virtue, the accumulation of wealth, and also the way your grandparents usually manage their money, although this way of managing money has been repeatedly sneered at by young people.

It's a good thing for a girl to be gentle, but sometimes you have to be tough. When you are bullied, you must get back, but don't hold grudges and be tolerant. Remember, principled tolerance and compassion will make you noble.

it is very important to respect others. Everyone has something to learn from you. Don't complain that Mr. XX's lectures are not vivid, and don't laugh at Mr. XX for mispronouncing a word. No one can guarantee that he won't make mistakes in his life. Learn to respect others so that you can learn from them and make progress.

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This letter has been brewing for a long time. Although for the time being, we can have a few good years. I still insist on writing letters to tell you what I really think. Life is full of temptations, and my mother deliberately keeps the pure land in her heart in order to accompany my daughter Qian Shan on her journey. Because I deeply know that my daughter's youth can't stand being stranded, and the course of life can't deviate at all, just like flowers, missing a flowering period will definitely lead to life and death. Mom didn't dare to slack off. Of course, you are even more.

there's more to say, so I can only stop here. Because mom is going to fight for you today tomorrow. And you are for your tomorrow.

In short, be happy, cheerful, tenacious and diligent, so that your life will not be dark!

A letter from your mother who loves you deeply

A rainy night on October 25th to her daughter in Grade Two. 3

Dear baby daughter:

Tonight, my father was very sad when he heard that you didn't do well in the mid-term exam. He couldn't eat any dinner, and he still couldn't sleep at midnight. He just got up and told his daughter what his father said.

dad spent the whole night reflecting on himself: are mom and dad too strict with you? Since our daughter has tried her best, why is the effect still not good? What is the problem?

Dad wants to hear his daughter's heart: Are you under too much pressure? Or is the learning method not in place? Or in what ways did mom and dad not cooperate well?

all three of us are in the same boat. Learning is not a matter for you alone. Mom and Dad have to learn while working. You are an only child, and we have never had the experience of teaching children. How to take good care of a middle school student and let the baby daughter grow up healthily is also a new topic for parents.

What parents can do to help you at present can only be to send you to a good school and put you in a good environment for studying. However, famous schools are as strong as a cloud, and the competition is bound to be fierce. The pressure will be much greater than that of ordinary schools, and it is really not easy for our daughter.

Back in those days, my father stumbled from elementary school, junior high school and senior high school to college.

My father's primary school life was terrible, and he was looked down upon and bullied. Your grandfather left us a long time ago, and it was grandma who brought up three children alone. Because our family is poor, we are dressed in rags, and our teachers look down on us. Our classmates also laugh at and bully me.

When I was young, my father felt inferior, and his grades were in the bottom of the class for a long time. Until one day in the next semester of Grade 5, my father suddenly realized that if he wanted to get rid of the life of being looked down upon and bullied, he could only prove himself with excellent academic performance.

In the last year and a half of primary school, my father studied very hard, and his grades quickly rushed to the top ten of the class, which finally impressed his classmates and teachers. Before graduation examination, he became a preparatory student in a key middle school.

Unfortunately, my father failed in the graduation exam, which was 2 points less than the admission score of key middle schools. Daughter, you have experienced the entrance exam of Guangzhou No.2 Middle School, and you can understand how my father was lost and regretted at that time.

two points short. If my father's family has no background, and secondly, it's poor, and it's not easy for the whole family to have enough food and clothing, how can we afford to pay for sponsorship? Finally, dad can only enter a very ordinary middle school in Guangzhou. After entering the school, the atmosphere of this school is not good. A lot of social idlers often gather at the school gate to fight and make trouble, and there are often fights in class, and the course is interrupted and turned into a self-study class.

at that time, my father followed the crowd, was lazy, had no intention of learning, talked back to my grandmother, and failed in the final exam of the first year of junior high school, and all the troops were wiped out. Since then, I have given up on myself, and I am actually no different from the bad guys on the street.

during the summer vacation, an uncle who had influenced my father's life, was a comrade-in-arms and colleague of your grandfather, and came to see my father. As usual, he sent money to let him pay his tuition, and he continued to subsidize him until he entered the second year of high school. That time, after he knew about his father, he told the story of your grandfather and said to your father earnestly: A person's life is always spent in a dilemma. ? He encouraged dad to work hard and make a difference for your grandfather.

Dad has been sponsored by this uncle for many years, and he has been coaxed by him, which touched him a lot. I finally understand that knowledge can change fate, and only by studying hard. This time, my father finally became natural and caught up. Smell the chicken, Dai Yue. At 5 o'clock in the morning, my classmates were still sleeping in the warm bed, and my father was already sitting at the door reading. Everything that pays off finally finished high school with excellent results, and was admitted to the university. Later, I got married and had a baby girl like you?