There is no age to get married, only the feelings of getting married.

Recently, I heard a wonderful thing about a girlfriend, and felt it necessary to tell you about it. My best friend is getting married, which is a very good thing in theory, but it is disgusting by the man's family.

First, the two families talked about buying a house. The first plan of the man's family is to have an old house of 50 square meters, so you can make do with it. The woman's family disagreed. She said no, our family leaves the house, your family buys a car, and the man's family doesn't agree.

So there was a second plan. The man's family said that we made a down payment and borrowed money to buy a house, but the name of the man's sister should be written on the house, and the loan was also paid by his sister. This makes it clear that the house has nothing to do with my best friend, and the woman said no, the house is still mine. Anyway, we have a ready-made house. Let's buy a car.

Of course, the man's family disagreed, so there was a third plan. Then your family can buy a house and a car. Our family doesn't care about anything. Anyway, my son can't drive, and we don't buy a car.

Although the woman's family was angry, they gritted their teeth and accepted it. All right, let's get engaged. According to the rules of the woman's family, when engaged, the man should take three bottles of wine and three cigarettes to symbolically wrap a red envelope for his elders.

The man asked, how much is the red envelope? The woman's family really dare not say more. On second thought, it's two thousand! The man's home was bombed, saying that he wanted too many things and the red envelope was too big for us to take!

I laughed after listening to it. I really don't understand how deeply I felt when I got engaged. Do you think it's best to bring two handfuls of bananas?

I don't know how this matter was solved. Anyway, the wedding preparations for two people are finally on the right track. Because of these things before, the man's family put on an attitude of "I don't care about anything, you can do whatever you like", regardless of booking a hotel, decorating the house and taking wedding photos.

Do you think it is amazing enough? But this is not the best. If it's just the man's family, I can barely accept this man's determination to live with you even if his family doesn't agree. However, this man also put on a show of indifference. No matter what my best friend wants to do, he is working overtime without any enthusiasm.

My best friend decorated the house by herself, ordered wedding photos and invited the man to take them together. Throughout the photo shoot, the man kept pulling his face, complaining that he was tired and bored and didn't want to shoot. Finally, even the photographer couldn't stand it anymore and kept saying, "Handsome guy, just smile and finish this group." "The man said coldly," I am like this. I can't laugh. I can shoot if I can, and forget it if I can't! "

I think if this were me, I would definitely call a bus driver and ask him to go to his favorite place. But my best friend put up with it.

Do you feel particularly strange, why is this girl like this? Is it really a man? Is it Gao Fushuai, who is loved by millions of girls? Is it a woman? She has poor family conditions and is not good-looking? She is Cinderella, which is very tall, so she rushed up?

But I want to tell you, the fact is, that girl is absolutely first-class and beautiful. If she has shortcomings, she is less than 1.6 meters tall. But this man, with a face of 20 years old and a face of 40 years old, is only 1.7 meters tall.

As for family conditions, the girl's only daughter and her parents both work in the government, and her family is well-off, while this man's family is just an ordinary family.

There is only one reason for this situation, and that is the age of the girl.

Because my best friend is excellent and an only child, when I just graduated from college, my family has high requirements for her future partner. The first boyfriend she talked about before, the family felt that the family conditions were not good and the work was average, and finally it was dropped. After a few years, I talked about my second boyfriend. The family felt ugly and broke up.

It dragged on for several years, and when the family began to think about where the time had gone, the girl was already 29 years old. According to the old people's algorithm, she was already 30. At this time, the seven aunts and eight aunts at home began to say, "Get married quickly. After thirty, the girl really became a leftover woman and couldn't get married! " "If you don't get married again, having a baby will be an older woman!" "If you don't get married like this, people will gossip!"

In this way, the peers around us are basically married, and soon the children will be able to play soy sauce. Parents are anxious, lowering their standards and picking and choosing to find such a wonderful job. So I put up with humiliation and signed various unequal treaties. Even at the engagement dinner table, the man's mother said, "Actually, I don't like your girl because she is too short." In this case, they all put up with it, and the woman's family always felt that it had come to this step. How shameful would it be to regret it again?

And this girl has been hypnotizing herself, because her parents always say "we are all for your own good". She thinks that finding another one may not be as good as it is now, and her age can't afford to start all over again. That's it.

After listening to what she said, I was particularly anxious because it was a foreseeable tragedy. I don't know why her parents who love her so much will watch her jump in. I especially want to ask them, is your face important or the girl's life important?

I also want to ask the girl, do you really think this person is riding a donkey to find a horse after this? His negative attitude shows that he doesn't want to marry you at all. He's just waiting to see if there's someone more suitable, and then he'll vote you out.

If a man really likes a woman, he can't wait to marry her home. And I must want to give her the best in the world, but I am afraid that I am not good enough. At least before marriage, men should be more active than women. We all know this, but it is because of an age problem that a girl becomes so blind.

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I don't know when it started, but this has become a common phenomenon around us. Once a girl is over 25 years old, she will be labeled, and people around her will start to talk about it, saying that it is time to get married. Unlike boys, girls can't afford it.

And people around you have different requirements for boys and girls. One day, our colleagues went out for dinner, and several leaders sat together to play mahjong. When chatting, they talked about our unmarried colleagues. They counted them one by one, saying that this girl on the first floor is 2067 and has no boyfriend yet? Suppose this girl on the second floor is 30, isn't she married? what can I do? It is really difficult to say that the girls on the third floor are in their thirties!

Then someone said, hey, that guy is not married either. Everyone thought about it and said easily, is he? He is still young!

I almost vomited blood when I heard it. The so-called young man is twenty-nine years old this year, almost like the girl they said.

This is a common concept in this society now. I always feel that even if a man is 80, he can still find a girl of 20. As long as you have a job and money, you can get married at any time. The older you get, the hotter you get. But once a woman is over 25, she begins to be bullied. Once she is over 30, she becomes a poor household.

I really want to say, what kind of bullshit theory is this? It is because of these remarks that men are becoming more and more complacent and women are becoming more and more timid. It is precisely because of this that more girls are afraid to find true love because of their age, but find a similar person and deliver themselves hastily in almost the same time.

In my opinion, there is no age for marriage, only feelings for marriage. Any girl, no matter when, should get married because of love, not because she is eager to marry herself or her parents.

Those who talk about you all the time can't be responsible for your life, even your parents. When you face a man who doesn't love you in the future, when this man abandons you in the future, you can only grit your teeth and go your own way. At that time, your parents will only be worse, and those who say sarcastic words will only laugh at you sympathetically.

No matter when you come, you can't give up on yourself or find the most suitable person. The "I do" at the wedding must be said from the heart and willingly.

Age will never be a shackle for your pursuit of happiness. Yi Nengjing, 47, met Qin Hao, who was 10 years younger than her, and gave birth to a lovely little princess. Alyssa Chia, 4 1 year-old, met Jie Kaixiu, who is older than small 8, and had big eyes. Christy Chung, 45, met Zhang Lunshuo, who was 12 years younger than her, and lived like a little princess.

Some of them were injured, some had three children, but they all found true love at an age that was considered impossible by the public. No one can guarantee the future, but at least they are happy now. Everyone can start over at this age and meet love. You are not married at the age of 30, so what? A woman should have a man who loves her and is willing to do everything to shelter her from the wind and rain. Only in this way can you entrust your life to her and get married.

People who don't love you are afraid that you want too much, and people who love you are afraid that what they give you is not good enough. In fact, whether a person loves you or not, you know best. Don't deceive yourself for the funny reason of age. Life is your own, and only you know whether you are happy or not!

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Having said that, I also want to tell you the story of another good friend of mine, Xiao Yuan. She is a Libra girl, good-looking and cheerful. She talked with her first boyfriend for eight years, and after graduating from college, their families urged them to get married countless times. She always felt that the man she had known since childhood had some problems, with a bad temper and a love of lying, but she always felt that she had paid too much and was reluctant to let go.

The family also said that there is no perfect person. You two know each other very well. Find another one who may not be as good as him. At your age, it's too late to start over.

Well, age, this hateful age once again defeated a girl, and Xiao Yuan married this man at the age of 27.

But what people didn't expect was that they divorced just after two years of marriage, because the man cheated. Eight years of love and two years of marriage failed to resist the temptation of a little girl, and Xiao Yuan was disheartened.

Xiao Yuan's parents were also seriously injured in this incident. On the one hand, they love their daughter dearly and worry about her future. On the other hand, they feel that they can't see people because it's too embarrassing.

Actually, I can't figure it out either It's not your daughter who cheated. Why are you ashamed? It obliterates the faces of China people, especially girls. Because the boy's parents were embarrassed for a while, but they still had the slightest pride and felt indifferent. Anyway, anyone can be my wife, which also shows that our son is capable.

But the girl's parents will feel that her daughter's life is over. So, during this time, all kinds of seemingly kind relatives and friends came to do work for them and said, "Oh, in that case, don't delay." Fortunately, there are no children, find a similar one and get married early, but ... don't be too demanding! " "I have a divorced here, but no children. The conditions are good. Would you like to have a look? " "I'm telling you, you, you are trying to find a childless one now, get married quickly, and you can catch up with your age and have another one!" Wait a minute.

In this bombardment, Xiao Yuan's parents wavered and felt whether they should listen to everyone. If they get married, they will get married again. This is already the case with their own girls. If she drags on any longer, she may really only be someone else's stepmother.

But after love rat's ex-husband had an accident, Xiao Yuan became particularly sober. She said: "A woman should never be satisfied with how much she has given, and never be satisfied with her age. You will be satisfied with the happiness of her life. So this time, I won't make do with getting married again in a hurry? If not, I'll live by myself. I feel very good! "

Xiao Yuan had a deep talk with her parents and expressed her thoughts. She said that she wanted to live alone for a few years and become stronger. From then on, she just wanted to rely on herself and didn't want men to decide their own destiny. Her parents accepted her idea and decided to set her free.

So she resigned, went to graduate school, kept fit and tried to improve herself. I think every time I see her, it's different, more intellectual, more beautiful and more attractive.

And just a year later, she met a boy who was very kind to her. The boy has never been married, but he doesn't care about Xiao Yuan's past at all. He said he just wanted to protect her and give her a happy home.

Xiao Yuan refused at first, but later she said, why should I punish myself for that man's mistake? Starting today, I decided not to close myself. No matter what age I am, I have the right to embrace love.

Now, she has become particularly beautiful under the nourishment of love, and this boy is trying his best to be nice to her, hoping that she can agree to her proposal. But Xiao Yuan always winks and says, "I don't want to get married yet. I want to enjoy a few more years of love. I think it is quite good now! " "

So, no matter what age you are, no matter what you have experienced, don't lose hope in love. Who didn't meet a few scum when he was young? Who doesn't wrestle and advance at the same time? Since the past cannot be changed, it is better to think about the future!

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In fact, we all know that every girl should get married for love, not for anyone to explain, not for anyone's face, just because of her own heart. But it will be compromised for many reasons and pressures.

In The Leftover Is King, Shu Qi is still single in her thirties, and her mother often urges her to get married and force her to have a blind date, so that they have a big fight in the street. Shu Qi said, "Will you die if you are single? Will you be sentenced for not getting married? The discrimination against me in this society is deep enough. You don't question the world and discriminate against me with them! "

In this world, there is always a lack of affection for single girls. Therefore, we can only rely on ourselves, strengthen our hearts, learn to maintain ourselves, improve ourselves, invest in ourselves, always maintain our ability to love and the capital to be loved, and be ready to marry love at any time.

Dear girls, what can I do if I am 30 years old and still not married? There is no age for marriage, only love for marriage. When asked why she didn't get married, Sister Lexus always smiled and said, "I don't know what happened, but in life, I still hope I can be a little woman who is loved!"

No matter when you come, you deserve a warm man and a happy family, instead of being labeled as an "older woman" and being picked up. I hope you can proudly say: "I am single but not lonely, I am still waiting for love!" "