A Duo, 40, revealed that someone had photographed her wearing a skirt and threatened to kick the camera away. What's wrong with being sexy?

When A Duo participated in "Sister Luminous", she sat on the grass and chatted with Alina Zhang, the host, and the atmosphere was very romantic and comfortable. At this time, Alina Zhang began to sigh with emotion the changes in A Duo over the years, saying that her personality became more gentle and close, and she was no longer angular. She also gave evidence that she was angry with the insider at that time.

It started in the Spring Festival Evening in 2005, when the pure wind of Girl with Wings was still popular, and she sang the sexy and sultry Goodbye Carmen. In the 58-second video, her smile is seductive, but it doesn't make people feel vulgar. Step by step, A Duo leads everyone into her Bohemian secret. She is full of femininity and can be called a stunner in the world, so she became famous and swept the world.

But when people become famous, controversy follows. The media made a big fuss about her dress and criticized her for "selling sexy" to make a name for herself.

2007 was a turning point. She shoots men's clothes, ignoring men's gaze and dominating her body. She is her own director, photographer and actress. Just like "the world's first dancer" Dita once said: "Sexy is not to seduce men, but to release your inner woman". But people only saw the empty sexiness in the photos, and snapped up 500 thousand copies in three days, breaking the sales record of men's wear.

People are scrambling to see, while criticizing her for showing off sexy, there is no lower limit. In fact, from the concept of men's wear, because many men are men, the sexiness of men's wear is often the gaze of men. It is easy for women to show a sense of banter under such a lens, and it is difficult to get respect if they just express "please".

Therefore, everyone thinks that A Duo is vulgar and can play it at will. Therefore, in large and small occasions, there are always people who shoot her skirt unscrupulously, humiliate her and earn traffic by her.

At that time, A Duo was very angry and publicly replied on the Internet:

Now talking about the same problem with Alina Zhang, she began to think deeply: If you can do it in public places like the stage, is it more unscrupulous in more secret corners of your life?

Stealing photos is definitely wrong, and it is an almost abnormal desire to spy, which will be punished by thousands of people. Whether Yang Mi was photographed by fans or is now performing in pants, the camera was shot from bottom to top, full of malice. This kind of behavior has been unanimously resisted by everyone, and now it has eased.

The kind where you were photographed because your skirt was too short, and your allies are in prison, you can go in and discuss your logic together. After all, in the eyes of some men, the length of the skirt is simply a naked sexual hint.

Women's reaction is also more radical, but the representatives of both sides are more extreme, which does not represent the public and is not under discussion.

In fact, what I want to say is sexy, an increasingly sensitive word, and sometimes even blocked. You will find that female stars in China are more and more afraid of sex appeal. In 1990s, Chingmy Yau, the sexy goddess, dealt cards online and won the title of Tiger Skin Goddess in one fell swoop.

Reminds us of that amazing time when sexy can be eaten as food and red lips conquer the world. At that time, Hong Kong was sexy, and the hourglass was full and elastic, represented by "mermaid princess" Christy Chung. Some people are obsessed with amorous feelings. Although their bodies may be average and can't meet the needs of the public, at first glance, you will never forget them. Represented by Joey Wong.

They are sexy, frank and open, natural and graceful, coquettish but not vulgar, swinging without lewdness, laughing and biting their lower lip, and have no idea what abstinence is.

There is also a healthy and full tranquility of the mainland. At that time, the scene when Milan left the swimming pool was also a famous shock, and many people's youth hormones were remembered.

But now everyone seems to scoff at sexy, thinking that low is vulgar, so why not show off your breasts? In fact, fear of everything begins with stigma. Once many film and television works wanted to be sexy, and they were mostly exposed to the sun. Sometimes I think it's a fake breast and face, which ruins the whole pot of porridge for sexy stunners. Sexy has never been naked to attract attention, it is still different from soft pornography.

Just as people will miss Chen Hao's "heartthrob", she is sexy but unobtrusive. Her self-confidence is the kind of "I'll show you my beauty", sexy and unafraid of public aesthetics, and worthy of the title of "heartthrob". Instead of directly exposing sensory stimuli, it will eventually be stored in the hard disk.

Sexy stigma, the most direct result is that female stars are now 40, down to 18, all competing for pure talent. Think about it a little, saying "pure desire" is nothing more than adding pouting skills on the basis of purity. I'm afraid to get involved with "sexy" and become my own black material.

Of course, "male gaze" can't be entirely blamed, and sometimes extreme feminism can also cause this situation. They think the word "sexy" is a symbol of objectifying women, and even think that the more you want to see it, the less I grow up. On the contrary, there are too many such situations. What's the difference between this and feeling inferior to your own femininity? Obviously it is beautiful charm, but you are ashamed and angry because others praise you as "sexy".

Knowing and accepting your own beauty and showing it in a comfortable way without worrying about the concealment of the opposite sex is a more confident feminism. Or as Ada said, "Sexy is not low, and people wearing colored glasses are low".

At that time, men's wear was advanced in breaking the rules in a sense. Desire doesn't need to be concealed, and sexy can be on the cover. When foreign media mentioned its high circulation, it was also called "exploring the change of China's concept of human nature". In fact, sexy has never changed, and it has changed into a crowd. Just as A Duo dresses neatly on the show, we also think she is sexy.

Today, when we talk about transsexuality, we should all love our sexiness and desire, and women's independent sexiness will be more powerful.