Choosing to change fate: the story of choice 202 1.2.28

The ancients said: Stand at 30, don't be confused at 40, know your destiny at 50, and live to 70 in ancient times. Today, it is the general trend to be centenary.

The so-called life is a wonderful journey on a one-way street, not whether you finally reach your destination. In fact, everyone can reach their destination from birth to death. What's more, what different scenery have you experienced during your journey, what kind of mental journey have you experienced, what "choices" or "choices" have you made in the face of the ups and downs of life, and what impact will it bring to your life?

Thirty fame, dust and earth, eight thousand miles of clouds and the moon, stop, suddenly look back, look back at the road you have traveled, leaving a mark along the way, which constitutes a milestone in life and marks a turning point in life. Every turning point is faced with the "choice" of where to go, or a bright moment in life, or a dark moment in life, or a confused moment. Connect the points to form your life trajectory curve, even if it is life. Share those things about "choice" and discuss the relationship between choice and effort, and the relationship between choice and fate.

Selection time 1: from rural areas to county key middle schools.

Born in the countryside or in the city, you can't choose an ordinary family or a wealthy family. It determines your living environment and the starting point of your life. Natural talent is of course important, and efforts the day after tomorrow will make up for it. Stupid birds fly first, study hard and work hard, which makes me become one of the four key middle schools in the county from township junior high school. Strive to make your choice of entering a key middle school come true.

Select time 2. Is the failure of the college entrance examination a repeat or a failure to find a job?

1980 started three years of senior three, catching up with the fast class and the slow class. High school students in the fast class take the college entrance examination, and high school students in the slow class take the college entrance examination for one more year. Because of poor academic performance, they are generally assigned to slow classes. At that time, the social security environment was poor, and young people often came to the campus to harass our study. 1983, the college entrance examination experienced many changes that year. When my father died of illness in my sophomore year, the math teacher was busy mobilizing his work. The Chinese teacher's house was burned down by torches ... Only the English teacher taught us attentively, and the result of the college entrance examination can be imagined. In fact, no one in our slow class takes a fancy to college. Faced with taking over teaching through employment or continuing to repeat the make-up exam, I finally chose to repeat it without hesitation. Going out for the first time, I traveled all the way from Heilongjiang to Shenyang to meet my relatives and prepare for the exam.

Select time 3. Village banks are faced with choices.

It's1April, 984, and I'm still trying to prepare for the college entrance examination. I got a call from my hometown and told the county bank that I had been recruited from my last year's university. I hurried back to my hometown and told me to report for work at once. My idea is to take the college entrance examination first. If I fail, I will go to work again. The bank told me that I would not wait. Prepare for the exam for one year and don't want to give up this opportunity. Last stop, facing the college entrance examination. ...

Select time 4. Where will you go after graduation, to Beijing/your hometown?

Everything comes to him who waits. After a year of tutoring, the total score of college entrance examination increased by 1 14, and he was admitted to the Department of Animal Husbandry of Northeast Agricultural College. Sophomore began to teach himself business administration, and the university made up three courses. I posted three words on the wall of my dormitory to represent my mental journey in college. From the first school year, I began to practice flying knives, qigong, Tai Chi and obsession. In the second academic year, "Seize the day, don't expect success", 1986 established a campus non-governmental organization-College Students' Volunteer Science and Technology Consulting Service Department, which used spare time and winter and summer vacations to serve farmers. This organization has been handed down from generation to generation for 30 years and won the second prize of educational achievements of the Ministry of Education; I chose to go back to my hometown, borrow money everywhere, rent an idle house in the village, run a chicken farm and raise two batches of chickens. I was faced with graduation assignment, where to go, and a choice. At that time, I was catching up with Beijing Dafa Animal Products to recruit people, whether to go back to my hometown or to Beijing. When I graduated, I knew I was an orientation student. I worked hard to overcome the difficulties and let the county give me a certificate that I didn't have to go back to the county, so I had the opportunity to choose to go to Beijing. This time, I chose to tell my teacher. "

Select time 5. Apply for the MBA in Tsinghua and choose the graduation place.

After graduation, I was assigned to Beijing Dafa Zheng Da Co., Ltd. After my internship, I accompanied my boss to the affiliated chicken farm by chance. When the chicken farm broke out, I stayed. I worked in this chicken farm for five years as soon as I stayed. Less than one year after graduation, I was appointed as the head of the chicken farm and taught myself how to operate and manage. 199 1 year, I happened to see that MBA had just been introduced to China. In order to study enterprise management systematically, I applied for the Tsinghua Institute of Economics and Management, obtained the MBA, and studied management consulting full-time the year before last, which is my favorite career direction. Finally, I chose to go back to Zheng Da to continue my development, leave the comfort zone, and transfer from the head of a chicken farm to the manager of a slaughtering and processing factory.

Select time 6. Join Zheng Da Group, apply for Dr. Tsinghua, and give up.

1997, a Thai leader named me to join Zheng Da as his office director and formally joined the headquarters in China, Zheng Da. 1998 began to plan to apply for the doctoral thesis of Tsinghua Institute of Economics and Management, research direction and business strategy. When he made this decision, he drank a bottle of dry red wine He has been preparing for this for a year. By chance, he got the advice from a monk in Guangji Temple and decided to quit the exam one month before the exam, so he drank another bottle of dry white wine and gave up.

Time 7: Work change (Zheng Da, Inner Mongolia, Zheng Da, Zheng Da, Zheng Da, Jiangxi)

In 2000, he was appointed as the general manager of Inner Mongolia Zheng Da Co., Ltd., officially embarked on the road of high management, ushered in the high-light moment in the workplace, launched drastic changes, put forward the strategy of "network first, service wins", seized the opportunity of dairy industry development, and timely launched dairy products, completely reversing the loss situation for many years, and the company embarked on a virtuous circle.

When SARS broke out in April 2003, a sudden fire in Qingdao Zhengda destroyed a cooked food processing factory, and people's hearts floated. One month after the fire, he was appointed as the general manager of Zheng Da to calm people's minds, stabilize the situation, and was eager to set up a new factory. It took only five and a half months to build a modern new cooked food processing factory, and finally caught up with the Japanese Ministry of Agriculture, Forestry and Fisheries to accept 35 cooked food factories in China, and the new factory obtained market access permission.

In 2004, he was transferred to the President of North China Region of Zheng Da, and in 2008, he was transferred to the President of Jiangxi Region of Zheng Da. In middle age, he met with a midlife crisis. Although Zheng Da had a pleasant journey, he felt that his enthusiasm had disappeared. How to get it back?

Select time 8. Job-hopping COFCO meat (central enterprises)

In July 2009, I was approached by two headhunting companies in two weeks. One is Guangxi Feed Group and the other is COFCO. After returning to Beijing for initial contact, I was attracted by COFCO's whole industry chain strategy. After careful consideration, I decided to leave Zheng Da where I worked for 265,438+0 years and join COFCO Meat. I also face challenges and tests, which help me find my lost passion. ...

Time 9: Job-hopping Liang Hai Group (private enterprise)

After working in COFCO for three and a half years, the work progress is not ideal, and the system of adapting to central enterprises has encountered certain challenges. Since I was unhappy, I decided to leave, give myself a three-month long vacation and start a trip to the Three Gorges of the Yangtze River, Wudang Mountain, Enshi Grand Canyon and Fenghuang Ancient City, a pilgrimage to Ali, Tibet, a holiday in Mauritius, Africa, studying photography, and a photography trip to Hailar, Ximeng and Changbai Mountain in Inner Mongolia. I meditated in Zhangzhou, Fujian for ten days ... Before I knew it, I played for four months, and another headhunter found me. This time, Zhejiang Liang Hai Group is preparing to vigorously develop the whole industrial chain of organic ecology and cultivate and process local pigs, local chickens, local ducks and local cattle with safe and healthy tastes, which is worth a try. After the interview, I formally joined Lianghai Shengtai Agricultural Group. Start site selection, construction, team formation, recruitment and project operation. After working for two and a half years, the mode of opening a big store in the terminal was challenged, and the production and sales were unbalanced, which led to the contraction of the front line and the adjustment of the mode. My mission in Liang Hai has been completed. While working in Zhejiang, I fell in love with outdoor hiking. Walked the 15 hiking route in Zhejiang, Anhui and Jiangxi successively. I left Liang Hai and started a ten-year journey around the world on foot. I have hiked the ACT Great Ring Road in Annapurna, Nepal, the TMD Great Ring Road around Mont Blanc in the European Alps, Kilimanjaro, the highest peak in Africa, Rinpoche in Arigon, Tibet, and Count Prussia, the highest peak in Europe. ...

Choose time 10: embark on the road of entrepreneurship.

Just before the Mid-Autumn Festival, I left Liang Hai and boarded the Guangming Top of Zoroastrianism to bid farewell to Liang Hai. With the bright moon in the sky, I spent the night in a tent planning the idea of starting a business ... From foreign enterprises to central enterprises, from private enterprises to starting a business, I experienced different scenery in four seasons.

20 16 formally established its own management consulting company, positioning itself as slash youth: management consultant/trainer/executive coach/teacher profession. In the second half of my life, I will pursue the greatest significance, do what I like and do something valuable and meaningful. Freedom is priceless. Take Wan Li Road, study in thousands of books, and cross ten thousand people. No matter the ups and downs of life, every experience is a valuable asset. Living in the moment, experiencing the process and extracting the essence are the best arrangements! Everything worth doing is worth doing well!

There is no if in life, and there is no regret medicine to buy in the world. Whether you choose actively or passively, you are responsible for your choice 100%. What happened in the past cannot be changed, only the choice of the future can change fate.

No regrets! A choice without regrets, a life without regrets!

Choice is more important than effort, and strive to make choice more successful!

(The picture comes from 20 18. On the way back from the mountain, Gangren Boqi in Tibet had a whim to photograph the National Highway Monument, which merged with the key turning point of his life. )