May you work hard to make your feelings come true

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Work hard, maybe every drop of your thoughts in this life will flow into the ocean.

"The sunset on the beach in Cox's Bazar is so beautiful, it's like a dream!" Feeling the joy on the other end of the phone, I expressed my unabashed envy that a girl who had graduated three years ago could graduate from college. Running between three part-time jobs and studying for living expenses, and now achieving financial independence, coordinating a good job and traveling to a foreign country, it is as beautiful as a fairy tale no matter how you look at it.

Sha Dangdang laughed on the other end of the phone: "Juice, you are envious just because you don't know how hard I have worked hard in the past few years since I entered college. If you see my efforts, you will definitely join me." Say 'You deserve it! '"

At a certain period, Chen Daoming's sentence "If you don't do nothing, how can you have a successful life", which ignited the romantic feelings of many boys and girls.

"I want to open a dessert shop in the future, with warm sunshine and delicious food, so I can enjoy the peace and quiet of the years." I was immersed in the beautiful reverie and couldn't extricate myself.

"The major you studied in college is not a daydream major. You are an adult, so don't keep dreaming. How far have you completed your plans for your sophomore year? How do you plan for your junior year? Have you taken the certificate exam? How are you going in your senior year? How are you preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination or employment? "My mother is indeed very skilled, but I can barely respond to a few random words.

"Oh, as Gao Xiaosong said: 'This world is not just about the things in front of you, but also poetry and distance.' Do you have feelings? "I decisively avoided the important and took the easy.

"Tell me, what should you pay attention to when opening a dessert shop? How much do you know about related store location selection, product management, price management, logistics and distribution, shopping guide management, promotion and publicity, and store management?" Meet me Face blank and speechless, my mother sighed and hit the mark, "If you don't have strength, what's the point of talking about feelings?"

At that time, I was still a pretentious and artistic girl who had just entered college and was good at daydreaming, and I was down-to-earth. Mother, who advocates hard work, was enlightened after the above exchange.

What is emotion?

The so-called feelings are generally the concept of using inner pleasure rather than utilitarian gains and losses as the yardstick of one's behavior, such as poetry and distance, such as poetic inhabitation.

It includes the meaning of mood, interest, mind, and literary sentiment, such as "Girls' feelings are always poetry" in Liang Yusheng's "The Sword Washing in the Ice River", such as "Stay with me" in Li Qingzhao's "The Lone Goose" "Feelings are like water", just like "Yin is a good feeling" in "Mountain Tops and Water Ends" written by Wen Jue.

For many people like me, the word "feeling" has a kind of poetic beauty.

I think the ancients were very sentimental, walking in the snow to search for poems, splashing ink and gambling on tea, boating and playing chess, and enjoying flowers in the garden. I once read a poem by Bai Juyi that said: "Taking leisurely tea with snow water", and I couldn't help but think of the wonderful jade in "A Dream of Red Mansions", Yao Mulan in "Smoke and Clouds of Beijing", the snow on the plum blossoms, the dewdrops on the lotus leaves, or the clear autumn rain. , although I don’t know what the unique taste of Jizhi’s brewed tea is, I just feel that the very act of brewing snow and brewing tea is extremely elegant. Rain and snow water are known as "Heavenly Spring", and dew is also called "Heavenly Wine". If you are a beautiful woman in this scene, it will be even more graceful and graceful.

However, from an overview, feelings are based on strength, at least inseparable from financial resources, material resources, and leisure capital. If you don’t have enough food to eat and don’t have enough clothes to cover your body, how can you easily fulfill your feelings?

When I heard about the joy of Shadangdang, it reminded me of the two teenagers I met many years ago.

There is a young man named Xiao Xiong who loves basketball, games and writing poetry. He longs to publish a book and become famous and travel around the world. In the name of his feelings, he skipped classes late to enjoy his hobbies. He had no intention of studying and failed to get into higher education. Later, he was forced to work part-time due to his family's financial difficulties, and he married early and had children. Now when we meet him by chance, we no longer see him as high-spirited as before, and his brows are filled with the dejection and fatigue left by society's ups and downs. It's not that this kind of life is not good, it's just that the difference between his dream and today's reality is unavoidable. Although I don’t agree that “the college entrance examination determines your destiny,” for the children from poor families in remote towns, the college entrance examination must have a great impact on their destiny. Probably, a sentimental vision without practical actions can only be reduced to a fantasy.

Another young man named Xiaojie loves photography, music, and writing. While studying in college, in the name of pursuing his ideals and adhering to his feelings, he frequently asked for money from his family who was financially strapped and living in difficulty, and even got involved in various disputes. Standardized online loans make poor families even worse. There is nothing wrong with being devoted to your passion and boldly trying, but your family is not obligated to pay for your choice, not to mention that it is already very difficult for your parents to support you in college. How can you bear it?

I was clumsy and tongue-tied at that time, and I couldn’t express the principles of retreat in order to advance, saving the country through curves, and the two-point theory and the key point theory. Now that I think about it, it’s hard to avoid thinking about it.

Everyone has the right to choose his or her own life. Within legal ethics, no one can arbitrarily judge which life is good or bad. I just want to say, if you have visions and feelings, and don’t want to let yourself down, please use practical efforts to realize it, instead of being a fantasy or putting the cart before the horse. Lao Tzu's quote often quoted by many people, "The sage does things without doing anything and teaches without saying anything" does not mean inaction, but rather with "inaction" and "action", and to follow the trend.

I also often reflect on myself. I am no longer a willful child. I have feelings, family responsibilities and social responsibilities. It is indeed a wonderful thing to use dreams as horses, but I am not strong enough. When trying to perfect my feelings, I can first work hard to accumulate strength. Feelings can be a motivation rather than a burden.

For example, first focus on the main contradictions to deal with the college entrance examination, national examination, division examination, postgraduate entrance examination, studying abroad, etc., and then spend time and energy on writing, traveling, online games, part-time jobs, cycling, etc.; for example It is said that you should first choose a job with a stable income and have a certain material foundation before trying hobbies that are based on your feelings.

After all, I am willing to save money and save money for a few months for a trip, but I cannot ignore my personal future or my parents' situation.

I hope to be able to ensure that my parents can live a happy and healthy life without worries about food and clothing in their old age, to be able to satisfy themselves with the food, clothing and commodities they want, to have the financial strength to withstand unknown risks that the family may face, to be able to afford medical treatment, and to withstand setbacks. , have enough energy to do good deeds, do not give up a relationship because of financial difficulties, and will not alienate a group of close friends because of financial difficulties.

I once envied Wang Shi, the founder of Vanke, who once climbed to the highest peak in the world. He spent nearly 1/3 of the year participating in his favorite adventure sports such as mountaineering, gliding, and skydiving, writing books, and participating in charity activities and variety shows. program, falling in love with a woman 30 years younger than me... living such a free and unrestrained life. Many people use him to exaggerate his literary and artistic sentiments, but they ignore that Wang Shi is an entrepreneur with sufficient financial strength.

JEEP has an advertising slogan "Use strength to make feelings come true". It is so touching, passionate and practical, and sincerely conveys a concept - not only to look up at the stars, but also to be down-to-earth and work hard with actions to make dreams come true. into reality.

Feelings are luminous cups filled with grape wine, exquisite blue and white porcelain bowls filled with grains, and carved pineapple wooden boxes that hold clothes. They can be the icing on the cake, but they cannot quench thirst, satisfy one's hunger, or keep out the cold; it is a piano. Chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry, and wine can’t solve the urgent need of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, and tea.

Maybe you have also thought about opening an inn in an ancient city with small bridges, flowing water, black tiles and white walls, or going on a long-distance bike ride across mountains and rivers in the wind and rain, or staying in a remote and impoverished mountainous area for many years to be a volunteer teacher. , or go deep into remote towns and countryside to shoot the most authentic documentaries. Traveling, writing poetry, reading, music, photography, painting... are all beautiful feelings, the pursuit of quality of life and the love of life. Are you as excited about the future as I am?

If your family background is prominent enough to pursue your passion without fear, then I wish you a happy life; if you are from an ordinary background and can only rely on your own efforts, then I invite you to join me in the pursuit of success. You need to work hard in life.

I only hope that you and I will live up to this life.

If you don’t accumulate steps, how can you reach a thousand miles? If you don’t accumulate small streams, how can you become a river?

The more you look forward to and expect, the more you have to endure hardships and hardships. Only strength can make life and interest happy.

I hope that you and I will have feelings in our hearts in the best time, remain determined, accumulate experience, and work hard to make our feelings come true.

Positive youth will eventually grow into the best appearance.