Why do children need true love for their growth?

True love is to express all feelings of life, and to express love and gratitude for all existence with the language of life behavior. True love is not an unattainable and mysterious thing, but actually melts into every fragment of life and into the mutual care between relatives; Honesty and friendship between friends; Filial piety to elders and teachers has risen from these feelings and love to the existence of all people you know, or strangers. In this process, the growing soul needs the bath of true love more. The growth of the soul can promote life's understanding and experience of true love, and can verify the power of true love, its broadness and selflessness. The opening and expansion of the soul can make true love expand more infinitely, and it can only be released under the opening of the soul.

To make the future society better, we must first tell our children not to become indifferent and let love stay in their hearts forever. Mother Teresa said, "We often can't do great things, but we can do small things with great love."

Sit in a chair and greet.

One cloudy afternoon, the rain suddenly poured down, and an old woman, all wet, walked into the Philadelphia department store. Looking at her clumsy appearance and simple dress, all the salespeople ignored her.

Only one young man enthusiastically said to her, "What can I do for you, madam?" The old woman smiled and said, "No, I'll take shelter from the rain here for a while, and I'll leave at once." However, there was an obvious anxiety on her face, because the rain kept dripping from her feet on the carpet at the door.

Just when she was at a loss, the young man came again and said, "Madam, you must be a little tired. I'll get you a chair and put it at the door. Sit down and have a rest! " Two hours later. After the rain cleared, the old woman thanked the young man and asked him for a business card, and then disappeared into the crowd.

A few months later, James, the general manager of Philadelphia department store, received a letter in which he specifically asked the young man to go to Scotland to collect an order for decoration materials and put him in charge of the supply of office supplies for several family companies in the next season. James was surprised and did a quick calculation, only the benefits brought by this letter. Equivalent to the sum of their profits for two years.

When he got in touch with this writer as quickly as possible, he realized that she was the mother of American billionaire "Steel King" Carnegie-an old lady who took shelter from the rain in Philadelphia department store a few months ago.

James immediately recommended this young man named Philip to the company board of directors. By the time Phil packed his bags for Scotland, he was already a partner in this department store. That year, Phil was 22.

Soon, Phil was invited to join Carnegie's team. In the following years, with his consistent steadfastness and sincerity, he became Carnegie's right-hand man, the "king of steel", and his career advanced by leaps and bounds. Become the soul of American steel industry after Carnegie. All this is a greeting from the chair.

Usually, a person who wants to succeed will spare no effort to get the opportunity to "get", which is normal. However, smart people will not only seize every opportunity to "get" but also seize every opportunity to "give". "Giving" will not bring you direct benefits, but it will pave the way for greater "getting".

It is rare to be willing to "give" first, and it is even more rare to "get" when "giving"-only a broad-minded person can do it. As a result, they got a lot.

Little angel and archangel

A country held an international junior piano competition and entered the finals. It was a Russian girl's turn to appear, but no one answered. Everyone looked at the examiner, who smiled and said, "God told us to be patient and cherish this little girl's opportunity." God said that he would also test us to see if we were qualified to test others. "The stadium is very relaxed. From the examiner to the staff to the audience, it is a happy laugh.

The little girl and her accompanying mother appeared in the examination room and almost rushed to the examination room.

Mother was anxious to explain to the examiner, but the examiner stopped her with a gesture. He looked at the little girl and said, "Son. You are an angel sent by God, and God will definitely test our love for you. Are you ready, son? " The little girl nodded vigorously. Every examiner and every staff member is smiling at the little girl. Facing the audience, the little girl seemed to take a deep breath. The little girl went to the piano and applause rang. The little girl sat on the piano stool, but stood up, which was an unexpected action. She stood up, and the whole stadium heard her and said to the staff, "This stool is not suitable for me."

All eyes are on the examiner. You know, all the other players played on that piano bench, but the little girl said, "This piano bench is not suitable for me."

"Oh, lovely little angel, you will have a suitable stool." The examiner said.

The staff changed the little girl into a piano stool that satisfied her. The little girl's performance began.

That's the wonderful piano sound, which takes you to the lush forest. The sun is shining, the birds are singing, singing the deep affection of the big forest for her. Later, people in the stadium suddenly felt that the sun was dancing on the keys, and the little girl who played the piano had merged with the sun. Applause after applause. After the performance, applause lasted for a long time. Tears welled up in her mother's eyes during the applause.

The little girl bowed to the audience and the examiner. She suddenly ran to the examiner and stretched out her arms to him. The examiner bent down and the little girl leaned close to his ear and whispered, "You are an archangel!" " "

Angels are in everyone's heart. As long as there is love in your heart, you and others can become angels.

Love echoes everywhere it goes.

loaf

During the Great Depression, a rich baker gathered the poorest 20 children in the city and said to them, "You can come and get a loaf of bread every day before God brings good times."

Every morning. These hungry children crowded around the bread basket, pushing and screaming, because they all wanted the biggest loaf of bread. When they got the bread, they left in a hurry without thanking the kind baker.

Only Gretchen, a little girl in rags, neither quarreled with others nor competed with others. She just stood humbly one step away and waited for the other children to leave before picking up the smallest loaf of bread left in the basket. She will never forget to kiss the baker's hand to thank her, and then she ran home happily with the bread.

One day, after the other children left, the shy little Gretchen got a loaf of bread smaller than before. But she still did not forget to kiss the baker and express her sincere thanks to him. When I got home, my mother cut bread. I found some brand-new shiny silver coins hidden inside.

Mother exclaimed in surprise, "Gretchen, send the money back at once. The baker must have dropped it when kneading dough. Go and give the money to the kind baker himself! " "

When the little girl brought back the silver coins, the baker said, "No, my child, there is nothing wrong. I put it in on purpose. " I want to tell you a truth: God will give a humble person happiness. May you always keep a quiet and grateful heart. Go home and tell your mother. This money is a reward from God. "

The location of heaven

In a primary school in Texas, a group of naive children often ask Miss Marina where heaven is. In order to satisfy children's curiosity and thirst for knowledge. Teacher Marina invited Father Modi.

Father Modi first drew a line in the middle of the blackboard, divided it into two sides, and the left side said "Heaven". It says "hell" on the right. Then he said to the children, "I ask each of you to write something that meets your imagination or expectations under' heaven' and' hell' respectively."

The paradise in the child's heart is presented like this:

Flowers, laughter, trees, sky, love, sunshine, poetry, spring, music ...

On the side of "hell", the children wrote these words:

Darkness, filth, demons, crying, killing, terror, hatred, bloodshed and ugliness. ...

After the children finished writing, the priest said to them, "As we all know, heaven is a place with all the beautiful things and beautiful hearts. Some people call this place heaven, while others call it heaven. " . Or pure land, heaven. What about hell? On the contrary, it is a place full of all ugly things and ugly hearts. So, does anyone know: Where is the world? "

The children said, "The world is a place between heaven and hell."

The priest said, "Wrong."

The children look confused.

The priest told the children, "The world is not between heaven and hell." This world is both heaven and hell. When our hearts are full of love, we are in heaven; When there is resentment in our hearts. Is to live in hell! "

Santa's assistant

Christmas is here.

An 8-year-old American boy heard his partner say there is no Santa Claus in the world.

To this end, he was deeply shocked and asked his grandmother. Grandma didn't say anything, so she took out 10 dollars and asked him to go to the supermarket to buy a gift for her good friend.

The little boy hesitated with that big dollar. Who should he buy it for Suddenly he remembered that there was a child in the class who didn't even have a cotton-padded jacket in winter. So I bought a sandwich cotton-padded coat and went home.

Grandma drove him to the children's house in the suburbs. They rang the doorbell and left the presents at the door. Then I hid in the bushes on one side.

Soon, his friend came to open the door, and then he was surprised to hear him shout, "Mom, Santa really gave me a present!" " At this time, grandma smiled and said to her grandson, "We are all Santa's assistants. "

Gift of love

Richina's home is near the sea, and the village has been fishing for generations. He followed his father to the sea from an early age and became his father's right-hand man at a young age. But recently he has been doing nothing, addicted to hunting, hopeless. For this, he has been scolded by his father.

There is a hill not far from the village. The terrain is dangerous and inaccessible. I heard from the old man that wild boars often haunt the mountains. If only I could shoot wild boar. The wild boar on the mountain troubled him. He decided to take a chance.

That day before dawn, Richner got up quietly without telling his father, took a shotgun, rope and other tools, and went up the hill. He searched carefully, but he didn't even see the shadow of the wild boar. The sun has risen high and his father is still waiting for him to go to sea. He had no choice but to go home tired and depressed. Halfway up the hill, I vaguely heard a faint cry not far away, like the cry of a wild boar. He immediately got excited and followed the sound.

Sure enough, a little wild boar got stuck in the mire. It is exhausted, only showing its head, stuck there, unable to move, unable to escape, and its eyes are full of despair. What a daredevil! It's a windfall to be caught in a quagmire. Richner was overjoyed and quickly raised his shotgun at the wild boar.

The wild boar certainly doesn't understand what that black shotgun means to it. It tried to struggle with its last strength, staring straight at the stranger in front of it, emitting exciting light, and even regarded Richner as the savior. Richner hesitated with a shotgun.

What a pity! Richner sighed and put down his shotgun, trying to rescue the wild boar.

To save wild boar, we must first ensure our own safety. It is very dangerous if we accidentally get into the mire. The only way is to put a rope around the boar's neck and pull it up. He dropped the rope, managed to wrap it around his neck and pulled it up carefully. If the rope is pulled too tightly. Maybe the boar was strangled before it was rescued. But it didn't know how to cooperate, just put it on and slipped down. After repeated efforts, the wild boar was finally rescued, and two hours passed unconsciously. Richner was covered in mud, sitting on the ground panting, and began to think about how to deal with his father's punishment.

Suddenly, there was a loud noise in the distance, and the sky was falling. Looking back, the waves more than ten meters high washed up on the coast, unstoppable, and the village below was swallowed up in an instant. Looking at what happened in front of him, Richner was terrified and kept shaking.

In the Indian Ocean tsunami that shocked the world. He is the only survivor in the village.

This is a true story. Richner lives in Banda Aceh, Sumatra, Indonesia. He used to shoot the wild boar with a shotgun, but he delayed going down the mountain to save the wild boar, and fortunately escaped the disaster. It's hard to say whether people saved animals or animals saved people. It is a coincidence that Richner survived, but what will happen if the wild boar is not saved?

Luck comes from the gift of love.

People can't live without doing good.

There are three homeless people in Fuwa community, New Mexico, USA. They have a begging license and have lived in this community for 13 years. 1998165438+1On October 6th, the government of New Mexico passed a bill to stop issuing begging licenses to beggars who have been begging for more than 10 years, on the grounds that they are very rich and no longer qualified to beg. So, three homeless people had to leave New Mexico for Florida.

Father Sam of Fuwa Community immediately objected to this incident and wrote to the state government, demanding that three beggars be recalled again. He said that there can't be beggars in the community, and the state government's assumption is completely blasphemous to good people, and it is a disregard and disrespect for human nature. The bill must be amended.

At first, everyone thought that Father Sam was out of sympathy for the weak, because in God's eyes, there is no difference between people, whether rich or beggars are God's people. But when the Christian Science Monitor interviewed Father Sam on this matter, it was found that this was not the case at all.

Father Sam said, "In the past 40 years, I have served as a pastor in six communities, including Fuwa. The population and wealth of these six communities are similar, but one of them has the least number of people who come to me to solve spiritual problems, and there are not so many people who come to church to confess. Why is this happening? Is it because people here are not religious enough? For a while, I was confused. Then I found out. It turns out that there is an orphan adoption center in this community with five orphans. It is these five orphans who brought them the gospel, because orphans aroused their good deeds and gave them a place to do good. People who often do good deeds will have no problems in their hearts. Besides, people who have problems in their hearts will be comforted by doing good deeds. The three homeless people in Fuwa community are also the gospel of Fuwa community. Now that they have been driven away, people in Fuwa community will have no chance to get spiritual comfort and satisfaction through charity. As a priest, can I accept such a bill? "

Father Sam's words were later published in the Christian Science Monitor, which led to a parade in New Mexico to protest the state government's "1 1.6 bill". On June 4, 2000, the "1 1.6 Act" was cancelled, and three homeless people in Fuwa community were escorted by the police from Florida to New Mexico.

Welcome back three homeless people. Everyone in Fuwa community has gone out. They held high slogans, shouted slogans and cheered for victory. From the photos left at that time, I saw two slogans: "Taking time to help others will heal your wounds" and "A small act of kindness can be comparable to the comfort you get after an hour of exercise" ... and of course, there are other sentences that were torn unreadable by photographers.

Dad, help the little fish.

A father took his daughter to the fish market and saw colorful fish swimming freely there. Both of them could not help but stop and could not bear to leave. So he bought a fish tank and some small fish. When buying fish, he agreed with his daughter that she would do the work of changing water and feeding small fish herself. Naturally, her daughter readily agreed.

When I got home, I watched the little fish swim freely in the fish tank. My daughter has a great sense of accomplishment and climbs in front of the fish tank every day to enjoy various performances of small fish.

Need to change the water, dad helped his daughter prepare various tools, and her daughter began to fish small fish from the fish tank. The giant goldfish was so docile that her daughter easily caught two of them in the basin. Those smart and active tropical fish didn't buy it. Her daughter had a hard time fishing out a few bigger ones, and those small ones would never be fished out.

A flaming arrow entered her daughter's fishing range, and her daughter patiently narrowed the encirclement bit by bit, finally forcing the small fish into a dead corner. Her daughter successfully fished out the small fish, took a long breath with the red fish and moved it to the basin. During the action, the little red arrow, a carp, jumped up from the fishing net, drew a beautiful arc in the air, and then landed heavily on the floor. After several somersaults on the floor, the golden scales immediately stayed on the floor.

"Dad, come on, come and save the little fish, come on." The daughter was shocked by this scene and cried loudly. Dad immediately ran over and put some water in his hand on the small fish to prevent the small fish scales from sticking down again. At the same time, he took out two cards, clamped them left and right, and gently put the small fish back into the basin.

"Dad, it's all my carelessness. Will the small fish die? " The daughter asked tearfully.

"It's okay, this little fish is amazing. It's just playing with you. It will be fine in a few days. " Dad comforted his sad daughter.

After a few days, the fish really recovered, and my daughter put down her hanging heart.

The purpose of education is to cultivate people with sound personality and extensive love, so let children experience the value of life and feel the greatness of life by raising small animals, so as to establish a sensitive attitude towards life.

Beggars' philosophy of life

A few years ago, photographer Jefferson traveled between cities in the United States by coach, looking for materials for his photography. In Seattle, the last stop of this trip, he met Randy Macaulay.

Randy is about sixty or seventy years old, but he looks like 100 years old. His shawl is gray and messy, and he was mixed with old cotton wool when he slept in the shack the night before. His clothes are dark purple and smell of alcohol and urine.

When Jefferson met Randy, he was standing on the sidewalk in downtown Seattle begging from passers-by. He smiled and held out his hands. In fact, he stands like this every day, and people come and go from him, either unaware of his existence or simply avoiding him.

Even so, Randy is still smiling. His smile is sincere and pleasant. Jefferson watched it for a long time that day. He thought Randy was a good shooting material, so he talked to him and agreed to give him some tips. He agreed happily.

Jefferson spent the next three days hiding in the dark, filming the life of Randy mcquarrie. As before, he stood on a busy street corner in the center of the city, stretched out his hands and asked for money with a smile.

On the afternoon of the third day, a little girl came, about six or seven years old, dressed neatly and with pigtails on her head. She approached Randy and gently pulled his skirt from behind. Randy turned around and the little girl reached out and put something in his hand. For an instant, Randy smiled. I saw that he immediately reached out and took something out of his pocket and put it in the little girl's hand. The little girl suddenly got excited and ran to her parents not far away.

Jefferson didn't expect this. He excitedly pressed the shutter again and again and photographed almost every detail that happened in the meantime. At that time, he wanted to jump out of his hiding place at once and see what magical things a beggar exchanged with a little girl, but he finally restrained himself. At the end of the day's work, Jefferson finally asked Randy the question that had been bothering him all day.

"Very simple. She came over and gave me a coin. In turn, I gave her two more. " Jefferson was puzzled and asked him why he did it. Randy mcquarrie spread out his hands and explained, "I want to tell her that if you give, you will get more."

Dad, I love you.

A father came home so tired that he just wanted to sit on the sofa for a while. At this moment, my daughter came over and took a look at my father, mysteriously said to him:

"Dad, I want to give you a good thing."

"Well, Dad, let's see what kind of gift you can give Dad." Dad pulled himself together and looked at his lovely daughter affectionately.

The daughter left and closed the door of the study. After a while, she came out of it, holding a small note in her hand and sending it to her father with a smile. Say to him:

"Dad, this is my gift to you. Please accept it. " The daughter's face is permeated with a happy smile.

What my daughter handed me was a piece of paper with dozens of beautiful little cartoon beauties on it. Dad didn't see any difference and thought it was his daughter's favorite thing. She must have given him her favorite thing.

Dad said seriously, "Thank you, Yuer. Dad likes this little card very much. " I want to continue his relaxation.

The daughter is obviously anxious: "Dad, look at the back, there are things." His eyes sparkled.

Dad turned over. There is a piece of paper with a horizontal grid on it. In the background are some scattered petals with a sentence written by my daughter in blue marker: "I love my father." There is a Kobanawa and a leaf painted by my daughter around the word.

Dad's heart was immediately surrounded by the honey of love, and the exhaustion of his body disappeared immediately. This is my daughter's own words, although I usually have more control and education for my daughter. However, the daughter did not have a distance with him. She is still his dear daughter and he is still her favorite father.

Let children have a strong affection for the people they love, which is the first step for children to establish a sense of love. Only in the atmosphere of love can children receive our education. There is no education without love, and there is no success without love.

Red glass ball

In a small town in southeastern Idaho, there was a small vegetable merchant named Miller. During the Great Depression, Mr. Miller always set up a small food stall on the roadside. When people in the town come home from work, they will stop to buy some fresh vegetables.

At that time, food and money were extremely scarce and barter was widely used.

In the town, several poor children often patronize Mr. Miller's food stall. However, they don't seem to want to buy anything, just to appreciate those precious items at that time. Nevertheless, Mr. Miller always receives them warmly, just like every adult who comes to buy food.

"Hello. Barry. How are you today? "

"Hello, Mr. Miller. I'm fine, thank you. These peas look really good. "

"Yes. Barry. How is your mother? "

"well. Has been making progress. "

"That's good. Do you want anything? "

"No, sir. I think your peas are really fresh. "

"Do you want to take some home?"

"No, sir. I have no money to buy it. "

"Do you have anything to exchange with me? It's ok to change things. "

"Oh ... I only have a few glass balls I won."

"Really? Let me see. "

"Here, you see. This is the best. "

"I can see you. Well, it's just that this one is blue. I want a red one. Do you have a red one at home? " "Almost!" "Well, first take this bag of peas home and get a red glass ball."

"Of course. Thank you, Mr. Miller. "

"Let me see it next time."

Every time Mr. Miller talks with these small customers, Mrs. Miller will stand by silently and watch them negotiate with a smile. She is familiar with this game and understands everything her husband does. There are two little boys like Barry in town. All three children come from very poor families. They have no money to buy food and nothing of value to exchange. In order to help them, it seemed natural, so Miller pretended to bargain with them for a glass ball. Just like Barry, this time he has a blue glass ball, but Mr. Miller wants a red one. Next time, he will definitely bring a red glass ball, and then millers will ask him to change it to a green one or an orange one. Of course, when he was sent home. I'll make sure he brings a bag of good vegetables.

Many years later, Mr. Miller died of illness. Everyone in the town went to say goodbye to his body and express their condolences to Mrs. Miller, including the young children.

In front of the long farewell procession, there were three striking young people, one wearing a military uniform and the other two wearing hats and straight black suits and white shirts, which were quite decent and solemn.

Mrs. Miller stood in front of her husband's coffin. The boys came forward, hugged her one by one, kissed her on the cheek and whispered a few words to her. Then, with tears in her eyes, she watched them stop at the coffin. Watching them put warm hands on Mr. Miller's cold pale hands. These three boys are poor children who used to exchange vegetables and food with Mr. Miller with gadgets like glass balls. When shaking hands with Mrs. Miller, they told her how much they appreciated what Mr. Miller "exchanged" for them.

Now, Mr. Miller will never change his mind about the color and size of glass balls. These three children no longer need his help, but they will never forget him. Although Mr. Miller has never made a fortune in his life, now he has every reason to think that he is the richest man in Idaho. In his dead right hand. Holding three sparkling red glass balls in his hand.

From hell to heaven

There is a man who wants to see the difference between hell and heaven. He came to hell first. People in hell are eating, but strangely, they are sallow and hungry. It turns out that the chopsticks they use are one meter long. Although they are scrambling to send food to their mouths, they just can't eat it because they are longer than their hands.

"What a miserable hell!" The man thought. Then he went to heaven. People in the sky are just eating, all flushed and laughing. But strangely, people in the sky also use chopsticks one meter long. The difference is that they feed each other!

In real life, we live in the same world, but everyone faces life in heaven and hell every day: when we know how to give, help, love and share, we live in heaven; If it's just for yourself, selfishness, harming others and benefiting oneself, the essence is to live in hell.

Heaven and hell are all in your heart.

Who loves who loves. Life treats us as we treat life; As we treat others, others treat us. All people with healthy interpersonal relationships, all people with charisma and influence, all people with successful careers, harmonious families and happy lives know this truth, and they can make people around them feel that they love them. They are very popular. Because they really care about others and value others.

New york Telephone Company once conducted a survey on telephone conversation to see which word is used most frequently in real life. In 500 telephone conversations, the word "I" was used about 3950 times. This shows that no matter what your actual situation is, you always attach great importance to yourself. Everyone comes into this world with the desire to be valued, cared for and affirmed. When you give him what he wants. He will glow with great enthusiasm for what you value and become your good friend.

/kloc-Ralph Waldo Emerson, an American philosopher and poet in the 20th century, said, "One of the best compensations in life is that people help themselves after sincerely helping others."

One day, a man named Dusha Sanda Singh and a traveling companion crossed a mountain pass in the Himalayas and found a man lying in the snow. Singh wanted to stop and help the man. His companion said, "If we take him with us, we will lose our lives."

But Singh can't imagine leaving this man and letting him die in the ice and snow. When his traveling companion said goodbye to him, Singh picked up the man and carried him on his back. He tried his best to keep him going. Gradually, Singh's body temperature warmed his frozen body, and the man came back to life. After a while, the two men walked side by side. When they catch up with their traveling companions. Only to find him dead-frozen to death.

How much love can you share in your heart? Only those whose hearts are full of sunshine. Bring light to others. Xi Murong said that the key to living in the world is to have the ability to love, not to be loved.