How to put down the disguise and live?

What kind of art is life, that is, rich people will make life interesting, and people without money will only make life dull.

In fact, China people have always had a very special psychology, and there will be polarization at the end of the year. Some people will look forward to it, because it is another harvest season, and many people will look forward to the expensive year-end bonus at the end of the year. However, some people are still anxious and have no expectations. Because a year has passed, I still have nothing. On the contrary, I doubt from the bottom of my heart whether I should change my job. To start a new life. At the end of the year, people are constantly changing jobs, so some people will take advantage of the gap between employers at the end of the year to find a new place for themselves.

In fact, no matter what kind of ideas they hold, the Chinese New Year will become a watershed in their lives. Therefore, some people look forward to the New Year, while others are afraid of it. In fact, what they are afraid of is not the Chinese New Year itself, but the inability to give themselves and their families a satisfactory explanation during the Chinese New Year. After all, one year later, if your wallet is still empty, no one really has the courage to face this reality.

People have different forms at different ages, but we should learn to face (solve) in different ways.

In the headlines, I saw someone ask a question: when people reach middle age, they are forced to lose their jobs, and they have car loans and mortgages. Do they know how to live in the future?

To tell the truth, the biggest problem when you see such a headline is not that a person has to solve so many problems, but that he doesn't have enough courage to face himself who is temporarily in trouble. There is a simple reason. The only person who can finally solve the problem is himself, not others. There is nothing wrong with asking questions in order to get answers from others. However, if you want other people's opinions to be the guide (direction) of your future life, this idea is too naive. After all, it's not you, and he doesn't know you. It is really unrealistic to ask others to save your life through a simple question. There is no God in this world, so the only one who can save himself in the end is himself.

Nowadays, many people habitually throw out various questions on the Internet and then wait for ready-made food. It is precisely because they are used to ready-made food that more and more people like to ask all kinds of questions, because they know that someone will always give them answers and help them solve their problems. In essence, this practice has deviated from the original intention of some people. The problem is to share discussions with each other, instead of letting others become your personal exclusive and become your full-time repairman.

Some people once had different opinions because they answered some questions, and finally they were introduced into a dispute by the person who solved the problem. To tell the truth, such people are immoral. On the one hand, I hope that others will express their opinions, but I also hope that others will choose good words. To put it bluntly, these people are directing a farce. They are used to self-deception, but they just hope to gain more people's recognition through the network as a carrier to satisfy their vanity.

Those who like to wait for the fisherman to benefit will eventually draw water with a sieve.

Society is like this, there will always be people waiting to sit back and enjoy the success. Of course, there will be people who are willing to pay for free. Realistically speaking, Zhou Yu hit Huang Gai, and one is willing to hit another. It's not that such people have big problems themselves, but that some people have gone a little too far, which is beyond the normal value that everyone understands. Just be moderate in everything! Don't let anything become a tool to kidnap others, because no one has the right and obligation to ask others to respond to it, and it is still free and unpaid.

Life is realistic, society is realistic, but what is more realistic is the part of human nature. Some people always feel that people nowadays are more and more realistic, so there are many maladjustment symptoms. The concrete manifestation of this reality is that people no longer beat around the bush, but talk about money boldly and directly, and so on. In fact, this way is more conducive to getting along with people. At least, I won't take these words to heart.

Why some people don't adapt to these behaviors is because everyone has been influenced by their own thinking inertia for a long time. So we will instinctively take care of the faces of both sides, thus suppressing our emotions. In fact, these things were not digested in the end, but they were handled by themselves in some way. But because of improper methods, these things will eventually leave some indelible scars in their hearts.

Life is a big classroom, and you will learn new knowledge at any time.

I remember once having dinner with the boss of the company, who is from Hong Kong. To be honest, I don't know much about some dining habits because I haven't had much contact before. They are used to using public chopsticks when eating, so as to ensure that everyone can enjoy fair treatment, and the most important thing is cleanliness and hygiene. Secondly, they will get used to eating as much as possible, instead of serving several dishes at once as we usually do. To some extent, they will be more pragmatic. They will say directly at dinner, don't waste it, try to eat as much as possible. At this point, their honesty will not make everyone feel embarrassed.

Everyone is used to talking about the so-called face, but some faces really don't need to be deliberately, because everyone knows. Being frank and direct will make everyone feel comfortable.

Pretending to be yourself is the biggest deception to yourself.

In the workplace, many people like to put on airs. Obviously, there are some things that you can't do, but for the sake of so-called face, many people will play fat. The result is to be a hero first, then a bear. Others will do whatever it takes to achieve their goals. However, such people will be more hateful than the first one. Therefore, I was finally expelled from the workplace. Because, people who only play narrow-minded and scheming will be miserable in the end.

Talk less and do more, and be down to earth. This is the survival rule in the workplace, and it is also the basic code of conduct for a person in life. It is no problem to express your thoughts, but only if you learn to digest them yourself, instead of habitually throwing them to others to solve them for you.

It is always said that society is like rivers and lakes, and there are always some people who can't help themselves. But in fact, those who can't help themselves mostly choose a camouflage technique because they lack self-confidence and the necessary ability to deal with problems.

Most people pretend to protect themselves better, but it is certainly not the best way to face life. Because, people have to face the reality after all. There can be no falsehood in life, and there is no way to disguise it.

Leave yourself a decent, give yourself a respect, please take off your disguise.