My mother-in-law usually has too many things to do, and she also takes wedding photos. Should I break off my marriage?

Tu Lei said, "There are two kinds of men in life. First of all, men who don't like women talking about money with themselves. The second is a man who will take the initiative to talk to women about money. "

For the first kind of man, he also explained that men don't like to talk about money with women because he thinks that women who talk about money with him are all material. The second kind of man takes the initiative to talk about money with a woman, because he thinks that if he marries a woman, he should take the initiative to lay a good material foundation for her and doesn't want her to suffer with him. He thinks it is a man's responsibility to talk to women about money on his own initiative.

There is no doubt that in the world of love, the second kind of man has become a model man.

In fact, there is a third kind of person in life. His characteristic is that he doesn't talk about money with you, and he doesn't think you are material. Love and marriage have nothing to do with him. He either listens to you or his mother.

Mercy was born in a well-educated family. Her parents taught her to do things by herself when she was a child. If she can't bother others, she won't bother others.

However, Mei Qian's boyfriend Hao Bo's home is far from her. Her boyfriend is a mother-in-law and very obedient.

They love each other. Whether it's dating or other decisions, it's Mei Qian's decision. This is the mother without herb.

Many people say that it is painful to fall in love with Ma Baonan, and Mei Qian is no exception. She wanted to let herb go, but mercy couldn't give up. This is her first love, and Meiqian can't let go of Haobo for a long time.

What should he do if you leave Haobo? This is what Mei Qian thought when she was angry and wanted to break up.

Every time Hao Bo has an argument, he will take the initiative to admit his mistake and seek peace. This is a small advantage of Haobo. After all, his heart has always depended on Mei Qian.

In this way, their relationship lasted for several years and did not break up. Mercy is used to taking care of Haobo. At marriageable age, mercy took the initiative to get married.

Both parents were friendly when they met, but they disagreed on the engagement gift. Mei Qian's parents said they wanted an engagement gift of 6.5438+0.5 million yuan, while Haobo's parents said that the local daughter-in-law was not that expensive. Then they cried for the poverty there. Mei Qian's parents are very generous, and her daughter has been asking for less engagement gifts. The result of the final discussion is 65438+ 10,000.

Now the marriage must end. Mercy and they are both very busy.

She has never met her future mother-in-law mercy, but this time she has been discussing with her mother-in-law when dealing with their marriage.

Many people will ask, why should the mother-in-law intervene in the marriage of this young couple?

Yes, but Mei Qian's mother-in-law is too strong, and her husband Hao Bo has a "you decide, don't ask me" attitude, which undoubtedly caused many differences and contradictions between Mei Qian and her mother-in-law, especially her mother-in-law's meanness.

After completing the trivial process of getting married and preparing to take a wedding photo with Hao Bo, Mei Qian thought that a woman might only take a wedding photo once in her life, so she decided to take a better one.

It happened that one of her friends was taking a wedding photo. I heard that Mei Qian was going to take a wedding photo, but she recommended their styles without saying anything. After discussing with friends, Mei Qian found that they had many similar ideas. Finally, she discussed the general direction with her friends, and the price was 8000 yuan. To tell the truth, this price is very expensive.

But as a friend of Mei Qian, she didn't falsely report the price. On the contrary, she said that she would charge less for the service, so she decided to pay 5999 yuan for Mei Qian.

The significance of this price is also lasting.

However, when Mei Qian's mother-in-law learned of the idea of taking wedding photos, she was shocked by the price for a long time, and then began to accuse Mei Qian of not being diligent, saying that the price of taking wedding photos was too expensive. Mei Qian must have been cheated. It only costs a few hundred dollars to get a set in her hometown.

But MeiQian didn't get angry. After all, mother-in-law is different from their young people. It is normal that she lacks some knowledge.

Mei Qian patiently explained to her mother-in-law the rich content of wedding photos, the location photos to be taken and the content. She is a good friend who helped her move. My mother-in-law listened carefully and thought it was a good deal, but she still couldn't stand so much money.

After all, she thinks that the money spent on these things is earned by her son, but the reality is that Haobo's income is less than Mei Qian's.

As for the money spent on the last wedding, some of it was Mei Qian's own money. Strictly speaking, this wedding photo is also her own money. No Who says Haobo doesn't earn as much money as her?

Under Mei Qian's persuasion, her mother-in-law agreed to Mei Qian's idea of taking wedding photos, but there was a requirement that she should go with her.

Of course, Mei Qian is not happy either. This couple has no reason to take the wedding dress.

So Mei Qian went to Hao Bo to complain, and Hao Bo patiently explained: "Mei Qian, let my mother go!" She is just a son like me. She doesn't want to miss such an important event as taking wedding photos. After all, she is my mother and your future mother-in-law. Is it difficult to hurt us with her? "

Mercy was right, but she was also outraged. "My mother is just my daughter. She didn't participate in our husband and wife."

Finally, Mei Qian agreed to go with her mother-in-law, but she said a word to her mother-in-law. In short, just watch Mei Qian and Hao Bo shoot and don't talk.

Mother-in-law said: You take your photos, I look at mine, just consider me as an invisible man.

However, when they started shooting, the result was just the opposite. Future mother-in-law didn't keep her promise.

At the beginning of filming the first position, my mother-in-law just looked around without any suggestions or ideas.

When shooting the second location, my mother-in-law had some suggestions and gradually began to instill ideas.

When the makeup artist put makeup on Meiqian, her mother-in-law pointed out that it didn't look good. Mercy regretted it. How can she promise her mother-in-law to take a wedding photo?

If she knew such a situation, she wouldn't let her mother-in-law follow her.

Mercy was a little angry at this moment and said to her mother-in-law, "Mom, just make up. They are very professional and know better than our laymen. "

After listening to her mother-in-law's words, she stopped talking at once and felt as if it were the same.

However, all this is not over yet.

When Mei Qian took the last photo on location, she thought it was almost finished. Now she doesn't want to see her mother-in-law watch her take wedding photos.

This time, the mother-in-law is different from the past. She actually said that the action that the photographer asked Mei Qian to do was not good, so she went to the battlefield to demonstrate the action she designed for Mei Qian.

Her mother-in-law's behavior is in sharp contrast to her young appearance.

But unexpectedly, Hao Bo didn't mention anything about it. Mercy was very angry at this moment.

She was very angry, how could she have such a mother-in-law, how could Hao Bo say nothing, and how could she marry such a family.

After her demonstration, her mother-in-law happily said to mercy, "mercy, do you think the action of taking wedding photos should be like this?" Your behavior before was not very good. You can divide into several groups according to my actions. I tell you, our money can't be wasted, so we should design our own actions. After you and Hao Bo finish shooting, please ask the photographer to help me do some moves. Anyway, the money has been spent, so don't shoot for nothing.

Mei Qian listened to her mother-in-law, only to know that her mother-in-law's previous meanness was not obvious. At this time, her true colors were revealed.

Mercy immediately said, "Mom, I don't think you can do it. Let's listen to the photographer! After all, she is very professional. "

My mother-in-law agreed as soon as she heard it, but I didn't expect Mei Qian to refute her behavior. She didn't want to loudly say on the spot:

"No, you have to listen to me this time. I am really a son. My son may take a wedding photo this time. The money for wedding photos is still my son's money. If you don't agree, you can pay for it yourself! "

After her mother-in-law said this angrily, Hao Bo immediately came to persuade Mei Qian: "Mei Qian, you see, just listen to my mother's idea. After all, she is my only son. She raised me. It's not easy for me to get married, so just let her go! Didn't you shoot several groups in the back? Is that enough? It doesn't matter if you listen to your mother and join a group. "

Mercy listened to them and thought for a moment.

She was a little embarrassed about her mother-in-law's words, because she paid for them, but she was a little cold about Haobo's words.

I didn't expect to pay for Haobo after all these years. At the critical moment, he chose to help his mother. Sure enough, Ma Baonan is hard to influence.

She cried in dismay at the thought of her. Then she felt like an outsider. She made a fuss after she got married. She doesn't know how to get along with her mother-in-law and Haobo after marriage. The thought of it scares her.

In recent years, in Mei Qian's heart, the relationship with Haobo seems less important.

It may be Mei Qian's perceptual thinking or their emotional space hole. They have no commendable love experience.

Mercy finally made up his mind not to get married. She said quietly, "herb, let's call off the wedding." I don't want to get married. I have to take care of your mother to take care of you. I'm so tired. I am not a fairy. "

"Mother-in-law, this is the last time I call you that. Sorry, your son may have to take a second wedding photo. I believe you can find a wife who will take wedding photos according to your requirements. "

The perfect money left without looking back, and Haobo's mother and son were cheated and even more angry.

On the way home, the atmosphere in the car was very quiet, as if everyone's heart was full of gloom and clouds, blocking the topic, and as if everyone knew the future direction in their hearts, there was no need to talk to these people now.

I remember this sentence: "Many times, your efforts are not fruitless, but you have chosen a bad direction. This is not to say that there is no gain if you choose a bad direction, but this choice, you may have to work harder to get the result. "

Do you think Mei Qian's retirement is a good choice?