Lishui Public Security Photography Association website

Recently, with the popularity of the variety show "Seeing Words as Face", Zheng Guoqiang and Zheng Yi, the father and son, once again entered the public eye.

Zheng Guoqiang: Vice Chairman of Zhejiang Lishui Photography Association. He used to be a car mechanic, a trade union propagandist, a ballroom owner, a soda fountain owner and a restaurant owner. His greatest ideal is to be the best photographer in the world.

Zheng Yi: To be my ideal career: to be a Chinese teacher in primary schools. In a small kingdom composed of more than 50 children and him, he carried out his own educational reform and won many awards in the field of primary education.

Amazing events from small to large: stuffing penis into socket at the age of four or five; Can blindly touch all mahjong tiles in grades 3 and 4; Mom asked me to learn to draw and play billiards in the billiard hall, which can help the boss win cigarettes. I studied chess for half a year, won the Lishui championship, and then announced that I would not learn; Dad gave him a photography lesson, and he filled the Kodak camera with water. Do classic Lishui dialect programs with classmates; Drop out of high school to write novels ...

Does it resonate? Can there be more thrilling events in Amway? Instead of being "invited to tea" by the teacher in fear every day, we should try to learn from Zheng Guoqiang.

How to face the unconstrained D son?

1, if you understand, please affirm and support from the heart.

2. If you don't understand, please try to understand and support.

So, when you say disdainfully during menstruation: How much can you earn as a primary school teacher? Might as well follow her to open a shop and pour down a house. You naively said: making money is not my ideal. ……

Imagine that if you are only a primary school teacher, you can only change one class at most. But what if you are the principal? An education bureau chief? Open your own school? Do you think this will benefit more children?

Later, you played chess and won the first prize in Lishui city six months later. Dad was surprised and thought he must learn a lesson this time and train you to play chess well. I don't know why, but you don't want to get off yourself. Your mother doesn't agree. She thinks this is a specialty and should continue to be cultivated. If she wins the prize in the future, she may get extra points for the senior high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination. At that time, my dad satirized your mother. I don't know who said it was an old-age sport with no future. Although dad doesn't know why you don't want to continue, I think it's no fun to force you since you don't want to.

3. It is of great importance and can be supported conditionally on the basis of understanding.

I said, I believe you will, because you promised your father that you would realize your dream in one year and then go back to class.

The price of this promise is that I bet on my marriage with your mother. Your mother knows that I support you to quit school and wants to divorce me. Dad is under a lot of pressure. Of course, fortunately, you finally kept your promise and proved with practical actions that you didn't become a punk, but went to college.

Zheng Yi is very lucky. His luck lies in having a father who understands him. A father with the same positive nature has achieved "pushing himself and others" and naturally understands and supports the interests and ideals of children of different ages.

Then, you are faced with a small D from another planet. What is the correct way to educate him?

How to deal with the interests of children with D nature

D children are naturally smart, casual and smart, but they are easy to be impatient, careless and impatient, and their interests change quickly.

The so-called "interest is the best teacher" is most suitable for children with D nature. Interest will not only give him direction, but also give him grades and achievements. "Enthusiasm" is the motivation and guarantee of his achievements. As a parent, he should be allowed to constantly shift his interests, and even provide him with more points of interest on his own initiative, and guide him to determine his favorite interests "carefully and quietly".

When he found his real interest, at least, in this interest, all his shortcomings were gone, and he began to become a child who could sit still and endure boredom.

Give child D a break, he knows how to repay, and turn criticism and supervision into support and encouragement. You will find that the children around you are such a happy, lively and interesting child!

There is a baby d at home. What you have to do is to induce the situation.

Different in nature, parents have completely different points of influence. For a child, you should know how to dial a thousand pounds; For child b, you need to moisten things quietly; If you have a baby d at home, all you have to do is make the best use of the situation; And if you have a warm baby C, empathy and respect are particularly important.

If one day you understand nature, you will find that following the trend is the best education.

Statement:

The second part of this paper is taken from Paoda's book Nature.